listen,
i have a girlfriend and today at school we had sports teams and a person in my team was in all my sports in same team (girl).... i kinda REALLY like her but i dun wanna upset my gf....
WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELpP!!!
2007-03-14 21:20:42 · 9 answers · asked by ... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
UMM BADDOG'S ANSWER AINT THE BEST MORE DETAIL PLZZZ HOW TO NOT LET MY GF KNOW...
2007-03-14 21:28:11 · update #1
Are you expecting an answer telling you its okay to like this girl and go out with out her?
what will you do if your gf fancies someone else but doesnt wanna upset you??
2007-03-14 21:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by HypNotikA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey u gonna have to choose, ur girlfriend or this girl.
Do u even know if this other girl like u or not??
Anyway: get ur girlfriend during a break, say: i really don't want to hurt u but i need a break to sort out my feelings...say u confused about whats happening (if she persists), say u think u might like another girl &her.
Then find out if this other girl likes u too, then make a choice.
U'll probably get dumped by ur girlfriend though, so choose quick
2007-03-14 22:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, do the right thing and tell your girl you wanna play the field and such, you're not ready to be a one girl man. She might understand but you gotta tell her so you dont do a dirty deed behind her back because, brother have you ever heard the expression, "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"? It means she will kill you slowly and sadistically if she finds out that she's been played.
2007-03-14 21:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you need to learn now. It's a pretty simple and very very very important lesson:
If you want to be with someone else, that means you don't want to be with your girlfriend.
Period. It's very clear-cut.
If you want to date other ppl, that means you don't want a serious gf.
That's what it means. You need to break up. Be honest and tell her you're not ready to have a serious girlfriend.
If you take this advice seriously, you will be so ahead of the game and none of your exes will ever hate you. I really hope you think about this and take it to heart....
2007-03-14 21:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by MissDixie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
welcome to the real world:)...uve got 2 ops
-if ur in a big city than u have it made...u can keep the relationship with both of them...one friday with one...sathurday the other but in places that no one knows u
-if ur in small town don't do it...everyone will know...ur gf will dump u...and no girls would wanna date u
Either way...if u got it in u...try at school to not see them(either of them) because it could backfire...one of them could see u with the other...try staying with ur group and say that ur busy and that u will meet them after classes
if u like the other girl...go to her after class and ask her out...if she refuses thatn u can go back to ur gf with no problems...if she accepts than u can dump ur gf...but after a few dates, good luck
2007-03-14 22:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by da man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need more than one gf dont let them know about the others but you aint gonna be sassyfied with just one or 2 or even 3 you need many many
2007-03-14 21:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you should grow up. u got a gf, stick with her, unless you want to lose both of them roflmao
2007-03-14 21:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stick to your gf...
2007-03-14 21:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by Timawa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up!
2007-03-14 21:26:21 · answer #9 · answered by jables 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋