Why does he resist having sex with me right now?..even though he says he wants it so bad..?
My ex broke up with me 2 1/2 years ago b/c i moved away for college and he wanted me to have fun and enjoy my college life. Now....he continues to text me and tell me he misses me, loves me etc. but refuses to have sex with me (says he has to be good). do you think he sees a future with me? im so confused b/c i still love him so much but just always act friendly with him. from these actions..if he is still saying this to
2007-03-14 21:17:10 · 7 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps he is a rare jewel. Don't consider it a bad thing that he doesn't want sex. Sounds like he as self-control, which is an unfortunate lost art among men.
One way of looking at this is...
Would sex survive if you were severely burnt or maimed? Perhaps not...but true love would. Be grateful that you have love. There are many in this world who do have it and many in this world who would wish for it...even just for a second.
Good Luck
2007-03-14 21:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by thoughtsandtheliberation 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the two of you had sex before or not?? Maybe he sees future with you and that he want to be good that you will find him the one for you as he respects you and loving you...and are you still on college??well if yes maybe he wants you to finished it first as when you to had sex you might not stop doing it and it might result on your pregnancy and all that without you finishing college...but i'm not saying this for you to hope that the two of you will be together forever.,..i don't know exactly what you feel with each other...so you may want to talk to him about this...if you love each other why not be together but give limitations and know what's important with your life and be responsible with whatever results this may cause....
2007-03-15 04:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Selfie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u think that if he aggrees to have sex with u, that will make u feel that he's thinking of having a future with u? if he's abstaining from sex, then that perhaps suggests that he doesn't want to make a commitment. must be an honest guy. i don't c any cause to worry. of course, if u r that bent on having sex with him, y not ask him directly if he wud mary u or not. and if u want only to have sex (even without him), u know what u need to do....i don't have to tell u that.
2007-03-15 04:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Iliketodream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is not able to see the future, because he receive those idea from his dream.
those stuffs will not make happen reality.
please don't waste your time to rely the psychic/foreteller
trust me
2007-03-15 04:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by gadgetki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weird... guys normally love sex..
2007-03-15 04:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by Timawa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life already, quit postimg the same dumb question over and over again. retarded loser
2007-03-15 04:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the boy you said is not surely loved you bec. why he ask you to sex?it is correct? NOOOOOO!hehehe>>>
but im jaime.....the boy who really loving you........... i loved you jasmine......
2007-03-15 06:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by peacemaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋