Am i crazy? Because I just know. I dont know why but I just know first minute I saw them. Hit me like a ton of bricks. You can tell when you look into their eyes. Ive never been wrong about love before, usually- maybe one or two times ive been off before but ive never felt so intensely for a person. Im not attracted to a lot of people either and to really get my heart something needs to be there. Im willing to do anything for the one I love and go to great lengths to make things work. But is this unreasonable? Long distance relationship.. Yet I have this deep feeling inside , deep longing to be next to this person. I dont know why, its not just lust , is it infatuation? Love? craziness to think this or want to pursue it?
2007-03-14 20:43:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My older sister who has been married Many times!Found the >ONE < online! They had an attraction that you speak of,they did meet each other in the middle for their first "get to know each other in person date".And by this I don,t mean for sex.They both met in a state 600 mile drive for each.They spent 3 days/nites together,He was a Gentleman and Rented seperate rooms at a nice hotel.They parted ,continued to communicate via internet and then phone.After giving her job time to find someone,they decided she should come to Florida and bring her 17 yr old son,beloved pet collie...
Turned out they married 5 yrs and where very happy until his sudden death 4 years ago due to Anuisum.Everyone in the family were fearful of her meeting a nut.But later could tell by a glow on both their faces they had both found the love of there lives.
If you both feel love/relationship is for you both I say give it a try.It may be your soulmate[?] But Please be careful & safe..
And if you do happen to get 'Frisky'Take a rain coat..Maybe Several !! Good Luck/Love to you in this Quest
2007-03-14 21:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by reseda1420 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath, calm yourself and begin to think... what are the chances that this person is the perfect person to you. Think about why your feelings are so intense, what is this persons history, do you not have to make a decision right away, why not take your time and just enjoy the heck out of the only fun part of relationships... trust me, dating is the best time. the most fun, then the engagment part is fun, parties are so much fun, even getting married is fun, the wedding, reception, the honeymoon are wonderful, but then...... life together becomes routine, work, cleaning, shopping, bills, laundry, budgets, car maintenance, and just seeing the same person all the time, becomes...... dull and boring unless you both take the time to become good friends and build a base to the relationship. This is the time to find out if you have a similar life plan, goals, interests and likes. What if this persons life goal is to live on a boat and fish all day and yours is to build a cabin on the top of a ;mountain and have a garden??? You have to talk, spend time together and see if you are really well suited. Look, I know this is not what you want to hear and your body and heart are going crazy with thoughts and dreams, and that is ok, as long as you have yourself in the number one spot, that you dont give up what you have built, established in life to gamble on this longing and all of these feelings. Take your time, relax, if it is meant to be and you are both fall in love, there is no reason to rush into it, unless you want to skip all the fun and exciting stuff because you have a sense that you dont deserve true happiness.. and.... you do.. so take it all easy, watch for red flags and remember..... people are always on their best behavior for the first 90 days, they cant keep it up much more than that, so hang in there and see how it goes... then if it is all good, still hang on to the greatest part, dating and having fun... dont hurry into picking up his dirty sox off the floor for the hundreth time or putting the seat down or telling them wear all of the stuff they should know where it is. Make sure it is an adult/adult relationship, not a child/adult or a rescue relationship... good luck.... have fun.,
2007-03-14 20:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by bud88cynthia 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you may have a deep case of infatuation that is skewing your judgment. Take a step back from the situation and evaluate things. Remember not everything a man says online is possibly true. Everyones been known to say a white lie here or there and so basing a relationship solely on what is said or done online can be risky. I had a girlfriend in highschool whos mother was madly in love with a man online, and eventually moved herself and her daughter 1000 miles away to be with him just to discover he was abusive and didnt allow basic necessities such as braziers or shoes because he thought a woman should litterally be barefoot in the home. She left him destitute and ended up in a shelter....horrible situation but keep it in mind when deciding whether or not you want to be with this man and dont be rash about things.
2007-03-14 20:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember - a crush is called a crush because that is what happens - you get crushed. You put someone else so high on a pedestal that when you actually meet them or get to know them,. they fail to meet your expectations, and you are crushed.
I could not read through all your details because there were too many but I skimmed some answers, and thus, came to the above interpretation/response.
Anyway, yes, puruse ALL real life potential relationships that youcan - there ar ea billion people out there that can be met and you can get to know - dont'[ settle down and get married right away!! There is always so much more around the corner..........
2007-03-14 21:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by jennainhiding 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met my soulmate online. It was a long distance relationship to start, but we took our time to make sure the relationship was strong before we lived together.
Its been 7 years now, and we're married, and she is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I just wish I could have met her 20 years ago.
Give it a chance, but make sure you look at every angle, and take other family's feelings into consideration too. They'll need time to get used to the idea of one of you moving away.
It's not always an easy road, but I am proof it can work out.
Good luck.
2007-03-14 20:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by wonkyfella 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
whether I went to extreme college with him (I had on no account met him at it grow to be a super college and he's older than i'm) i'm engaged to a dazzling guy I had my first bump into with on myspace in 2005. We talked for a rapid time and have been given to comprehend one yet another extremely nicely till now we ever even met. ultimately we desperate to fulfill on independent territory and have been jointly ever for the reason that. we are getting married next spring.
2016-09-30 22:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by carol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you actually seen this person, or a picture? Be careful, some of those pictures are phoney pictures.
Love takes more than a look. It takes time and work to know somone well enough to love them. Be careful of jumping into love too quickly--you will definitely get hurt one day.
2007-03-14 20:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. There is someone out there for everyone, and once you experience what true love is, nothing can compare to it. My husband and I met online. We both kept telling ourselves that this can't be real, that what we were feeling was far too soon. But we love eachother more than we have ever loved anyone else.
2007-03-14 20:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by Courtney 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i am experiencing the same thing, my soul mate is very far away, we have talked about the future but i am not all that optomistic about it working out, so for the time being i am staying grounded and not letting things get out of hand, and maybe one day soon i hope my dreams will come true. good luck.
2007-03-14 22:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by kira s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not an expert on love, so who am I to say that it's not love? But it does sound more like a strong attraction / infatuation to me.
I'd say pursue it - see where things go!
Good Luck!
Aloha!!
2007-03-14 20:48:28 · answer #10 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋