Why do guys try to finger?
I was just wondering why do guys like to finger girls?
and also, does it hurt afterwards?
My boyfriend has tried it but I usually stop him
but he's persistant and he keeps trying so I'm just curious...
Thanks ashley-
2007-03-14 20:24:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a chick, so I can't really answer from a guy's point of view.
But I love being fingered lol. It has never hurt me afterwards, and it's really easy for a guy to reach the G-spot that way. You can have amazing orgasims if the guy does it right.
2007-03-14 20:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, First of all i don't know your age but if he is over 18 then where I'm from that can be called rape! Anything including any object inserted into the vagina is considered rape!! YES EVEN HIS FINGER!! Honey guys will do whatever to you that you will let them. Soon that won't be the only thing he is sticking in your vagina if he has his way. Make him give you some respect and not treat you as an object. and for goodness sake if you do mess up and go all the way..wear protection. I hope you have enough respect for yourself not to let him do this to you. The reason he is trying to use his fingers is because he is wanting to have sex with you!! Yes he could hurt you with his finger...especially if he does not know what he is doing. and girl he is just curious too!! If you don't want him to do this then do not let him. You owe him nothing, as far as sex goes..and sounds like, He isn't trying to earn any respect from you either nor does he have any respect for you!!
2007-03-15 03:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by sash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several reasons. Some girls refuse intercourse but needs satisfaction. It's a form of fore-play. It's a form of safe sex. It's a way of preparing the girl for further actions. It causes the girl to be moist in receiving the man during intercourse. It's a form of pleasurable action when the situation does not allow full sex. When forced, it may hurt. It also is a wonderfull sensation to have your finger inside a girl. You also have fingers - use them on the boy. Fingers will achieve a lot.
2007-03-15 03:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by Peter V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're just trying to give you a little foreplay. Of course, guys get better at is as they get older. In high school you think you're supposed to ram your finger up there like a probe and find out what's going on. When you have a little bit of experience you learn to be softer and gentler.
2007-03-15 03:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by kinky_scotty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy can use 'fingering' as a way of testing you. If you accept the finger it's just about certain you will have full sex. Oh and yeah; its great making the girl squirm with pleasure.
2007-03-15 03:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey trust me I was scared at first like so scared I never touched a guy. Then I met this one guy an things just changed. One nite him an I where kissing an ya it just happened. NO it doesn't hurt after wards...u may think it may but it actually doesn't.
2007-03-15 03:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by angel5469ca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hormones. I am a guy so I can answer this best I think. I am not going to get too in depth since I do not know your age. It is normal for it to hurt at first. Just tell him to go easy or tell him you are not ready yet. I hope this helps you.
2007-03-15 03:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curiousity killed the cat!! It feels really good, but you will want to have sex if you start that. I was slightly pushed into being fingered the first time, but it doesn't hurt. Just think about the future...will you regret it?
2007-03-15 03:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by Chelsey M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be fun enjoyable for a girl, but there are health concerns however. You could catch an infection if the guy's hand is dirty.
2007-03-15 03:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, fingering is part of foreplay to get the girl ready for penetration.
2007-03-15 03:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by alain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋