my ex cheated on me.but still he calls me up.he thinks i dont know anything?

Question

my ex cheated on me.he thinks that i dont know tht he was cheating on me.he still calls me up.i tell him tht listen u are engaged. then why u calling me.he says no i dont have a girl and i am not getting married.he is still lying.even after his engagement.he is getting married in nov.but he says how can i get married when i dont have a girl.i hve read his mail with my own eyes where he wrote to his freind tht i am getting married.but he still calls me up and lies.wht should i do.i want to know the truth from his mouth.do u think these kind of people change after marriage.will he be true to his wife

Answer 1

Have you asked his friends if he is getting married? There is a possibility he is not. But if he is...odds are he won't be faithful.

Answer 2

I know what you mean. Ive been through the same thing. He kept denying that he had a gf. In the end he came out and just admitted it. he was just afraid of settling down, was thinking that he's too young and all that nonsense. He's not ever going to change and is probably going to cheat on his wife after marriage. Loose the loser. He doesnt deserve you. I know it sucks that he never straight up told you, but you know its true. so theres not much of a difference if he actually told you. Hes an *** anyways

Answer 3

once a cheater always a cheater.

Since he has already lied to you about it, i wouldn't expect him to fess up. Trust me, i lived with a guy just like this for 2 years and he made my life miserable. He cheated and lied for most of it, and I kept thinking he would change, that he meant what he said. In the end he got someone else pregnant, and I left.

Now he is in another r'ship, and doing the same thing again. He will never change. And neither will yours. Let him go. What he does in his marriage or after is not your problem.

Answer 4

the first answer was right on. Why talk to him? He's one of those stalker types that if you give him an inch he takes a yard. Talking to him only encourages him more to think he still has a chance with you. He can't admit he's getting married because then he can't get in your pants.

Answer 5

firstly why are you still keeping in contact with him? if he's your ex, why dont you just stop communicateing with him! change your phone number or somethink. i know your thinking why should i, but your the one who put the question on hear and not him. people never change, men or women. once they hit about 13 years old thats it, thats how there going to be for the rest of there life, no matter what happens to them, they will be that same person just learning how to lie and cheat and weasle there way out of stuff more better.

Answer 6

r u sure he is not lying to his friend (the 1 he sent an email to)?
maybe he is just tricking him or sth playing with him, these things can be hid easly ask his friends or people who workes with him u must find the answer and if he is married dont think about staying with him it'll be hard but u'll have to get over it, if its needed ask someone from his family if u know any1 from them.

good luck

Answer 7

just cuy any communication with him and if u not interested inthis guy why u still in touch the best thing when things end u should just leave each other alone so such things wont happen

Answer 8

he's a liar and a cheat; don't believe anything he has to say--he will probably never speak the truth. forget about him

Answer 9

maybe he is Thinking of proposing to you..ever thought about that?.... and I think neither one of you deserve eachother..since you can't trust him and he probably cheats on you anyways... how will you feel if you were to find out that was his actual objective?

Answer 10

no, cheaters dont change, they just find ways to get more sneaky about what they are doing. drop him like a hot potato and find somebody who deserves you!