my boyfriend has chaeted before but sometime he is late from school because he say he has group work. he still is nice but i dont know if he is!
2007-03-14 20:00:41 · 13 answers · asked by dimps 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People have a hard enough time staying in school when class is in session, why would he want to stay around even longer? I think by "group work" he means "group sailing his mast at ramming speed" I would ask him details about what he is working on, but act interested. If you ask like you are suspicious, then he will know you know something's up, and you'll have to abort operation alpha romeo falcon.
2007-03-14 20:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, u are very insecure and he is probably part of the reason for that. The fact that he has cheated before usually means he will cheat again. i don't know enough of your situation to answer this. However, if you do not trust him then that means you are miserable. Jealousy is a bad thing to live with. its too stressful. I have no idea if he is cheating, but I do know if he is telling you lies then he has something to hide. I wish you had given more detail. The best i can say is, if you do not trust him and you are staying upset then you are better off to break this thing off. He may be doing nothing wrong, however he did in the past and that is causing you distress so I would move on!! Good Luck
2007-03-14 20:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by sash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will notice if he is cheating if he has been acting differently. though you can still see that he loves u but u will really notice a difference on the way he treats u.Normally, he would have alibi so he can reach home late and if this goes to often, chances are he is really cheating on u. Speak to him and check his reaction.If he gets angry and diverts the fault to u then thats a good sign.Dont worry, ur instinct will tell u as u speak to him.
But i will tell u to give him the benefit of the doubt.Dont assume unless u have enough proofs.Dont u know any of his friends? Contacting one of his mates in the group wld help for u to know his whereabouts.Goodluck!!!
2007-03-14 20:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by baby love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I had guys cheat on me before an the major sign is when another girl comes over to his place while ur there an asks wat ur doing there. Cause when I was over at my ex boys place I answered the door an some girl was there with her friends an she asked wat I was doin there an I looked at him an he went pale (another sign) an he nearly got sick on us an there was a full out cat fite between me an her but enuff about that.
signs
1) other girls call him or e-mail him constantly
2) hes breakin dates to "Chill" with his "Friends"
3) spends more time with other gurls than you
4) was a cheater in the past
5) my fave actually! HES FROM WCA!
2007-03-14 20:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by angel5469ca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way i can tell if my man is cheating is if he acts different, if a friend comes over and he dont act the same then thats the female he is cheating with. if he starts to lose weight or work out!!! lipstick on his shirt on hanky!!! sneak over to were he has these so called "group work".
2007-03-14 20:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by naughtykim_87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just ask him. But you if he is extra nice to you or if he is buying new clothes for himself, new underwear, if he starts working out or trying to lose weight or otherwise look good he might be cheating. You can hijack his bank or credit card statements and go over them - that's a good way to find out..
2007-03-14 20:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with ur gut feeling and ur instincts. they are usually right. also look for signs of guilt if questioning him such as unable to make eye contact, trying to change the subject, fidgeting, trying to turn things around so its you you are talking about and not him.
2007-03-14 20:18:22 · answer #7 · answered by suzi Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys dont do group work at school....keep your clothes on for a while and see if he sticks around
2007-03-14 20:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LIPSTICK ON THE DIPSTICK IS A PRETTY GOOD SIGN,,,,, and if he is doing group work then hes doing it with a bunches of you wore out b i t c h es
2007-03-14 20:05:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sign of cheating is like to lie, strangely behave, and cover-up
if you come forward, he goes backward, it is how his behavior is strange
2007-03-14 20:09:56 · answer #10 · answered by gadgetki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋