OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. IOn the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". I felt disrespected so when I got home I said "bye forever" to him on msn. Then I felt bad so a week later I said sorry to him on msn. Since then I have said hi to him 2 on msn. Then a few days ago he said hi to me on msn & he wanted to know what I had been up to.
2007-03-14 19:17:42 · 11 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some people on yahoo say he still talks to me cuz he's hoping for sex one day, but he knows my beliefs and morals, can't he just miss me?Do you think he may wanna hang out again? But why does he wanna hangout after one year? Does he miss me or is he just playing with me?
2007-03-14 19:19:01 · update #1
this can be two ways
positive:he realy did lyk u but coulnt stay with u cus he wanted to have it,but rememberin all the gud things u had,he rather misses dat so he wants to be a friend,so he is keeping u close, its also mayb dat he cares bout u,and do love u, but given dat he is realy an experienced guy he is impatient with waiting,so dont fret he wants to be your friend so be one too,
negative: he may be hoping for a change of mind,
but i truly doubt dat cus if he knows your morals and hopes he will knows they is no way u r going to change your mind.
but to be on the safe syd,just ask him wat he truly wants and if he is hoping u will change your mind,
good luck
2007-03-14 19:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by loveguru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people now of days think so negatively and you have all the right to but every once and awhile try to think postively. Not every guy only wants to talk to a girl just cause they wanna have sex. He probally just enjoys your company, He might still love you and not just want sex. People around the world need to think more postive even thought alot of bad things are gonna happen in life.
2007-03-14 19:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by thfmsquar3d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was in a similar situation the relationship was very sweet Innocent and he was my first boyfriend first guy i kissed...we kind of like broke up and almost a year later he come back saying lets keep in touch... every once in while he would come we would go see a movie take long walks and just spend lots of time together...but this was like every after two months or sometimes more..anyway to cut the long story short i decided to try get on with my life and open up my heart to the possibilities of love else where, the thought that he might just be coming back to soften my resolve of waiting to have sex often did cross my mind.. unless his ready to see on a regular basis forget about him ,he might just be waiting for you to crack...
2007-03-14 20:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by mamzee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he's just loney period. It's not that he's strictly looking forward to sex. If he weren't lonely he wouldn't have hung on to you after the relationship ended. I think he's trying to find someone else out there and when he feels like he can't he refuges to you for anything he can get right now, but he knows he doesn't want to get back in a relationship.
2007-03-14 19:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by cashew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion is that he understand, that u a realy good girl, and he was happy with u, only with u! Now it is difficult for him to rebuild urs relationship, so he try to be near to u to know u better, cose 1 year passed.
if u like him, also be with him, and study him, and if he will make smth wrong, do let him do it toward u. And give him chance to show himself!!!
2007-03-14 19:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Guly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's just trying to use you to fill some gaps in his agenda. Ask him why he thinks you would even consider this part-time relationship on "his" terms. Makes you wonder how "busy" he is with other girls...
2007-03-14 19:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by silke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it may be the real thing. And be thankfulthat he likes you for who you are and has not tainted that with sex. Keep pursueing and see where this leads..but stay out of bed!
2007-03-14 19:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by Lone Papa 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Richard Parker and Tyrone Lewis asked the same question. You should see their answers side by side.
2016-08-23 21:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just playing, hoping for some more action sometime.
2007-03-14 19:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he gets lonely. he likes your company too but he cannot imagine having it E.V.E.R.Y.D.A.Y of his life, thats why he said he only wanted to see you 'every once in a while'. if i were you, i'd get on with my life, fall in love all over again with another fabulous guy, and slowly see my feelings for him disappear.......
p/s less pain for everyone too..
2007-03-14 19:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by aishah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋