Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

2007-03-14 18:58:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife is cheating on me with another woman. I feel so empty and alone. I want someone to love me back now..I am thinking about finding my own lover,,some one to cyber with and make love to here..is that wrong?

2007-03-14 18:58:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-14 18:55:26 · 2 answers · asked by appel jackes 1 in Friends

hes the only son MIL did all these weird mannats for the lord to give her a son..so the sisters baby him and they DOMINATE HIM i hate themmmmmmm..he's close to his mom he tells her stuff then she analyzes it falsey then gives him the answer then she at some point some day throws the lil comments to me and im like whatttt he told her i hate him..is there a way for me to get him to stop??? or will he stop on his own later??? people tell me start of marriage the man is too involved with his mom& sisters later in life he changes to his wifes favor is this true??????

2007-03-14 18:55:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Here's my current situation : I am 22 years old, and i am leaving on my first deployment overseas. I am a marine reservist and i volunteered for it, but that's another story. My question is Me and my girlfriend have been together for 9 months, and we have talked about getting engaged before i leave but she wants to be engaged and then married within 6 months, so that's understandable. But we agreed that a promise ring would be perfect for both of us because of obvious reason's and that it would be something for both of us to look forward to. Should i ask her parents for her hand or wait ? its not an engagement, and i plan on spending 300 bucks so nothing extravagant. Thanks for your input.

2007-03-14 18:53:50 · 15 answers · asked by motivated0311 2 in Weddings

What would you do to pleasantly surprise a guy?

2007-03-14 18:53:20 · 19 answers · asked by MARINKA 2 in Singles & Dating

He always thought that Dylan didn't want him around anymore as a friend, because he thought she thought he was boring. So he would always say things like, "She would be happier without me in her life" and like one day he came over her house and he slipped and fell and hit his head on the cement. But 5 days later he randomly comes on AIM and says "who are you" to her and to everyone else he knows... At first me and Dylan thought he was faking it to get attention, but would someone really go as far as to fake amnesia JUST to forget about us. He even said "is there a reason for me to even Remember Dylan...? did she even like me?" those kind of questions make me wonder... Is that him pretending to not remember her? like to forget her and to forget everyone else who she made him meet? we all had a good friendship though... so thats what makes me so confused. why would he do something so desperate??? if anyone would answer this.. that would make my day =D thanks!! =D

2007-03-14 18:52:59 · 4 answers · asked by Ty-Ty 1 in Friends

okay, this guy i like, he likes me, but we haven't like "talked" about it. but we flirt majorly!!! . he is so cute! but i don't get to seee him till friday night when we all hang out. what are some things to do/say when i see him friday? thanks!
you could also just like encourage me too...idk, i just want to know what to do/say....

2007-03-14 18:52:55 · 7 answers · asked by ThinkPink 3 in Singles & Dating

we recently broke up, and the least i can do is show her that i do love her, i want her back so bad.. sum 1 help

2007-03-14 18:52:48 · 5 answers · asked by chad h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am grounded until i cna prove i can be responsible and i cna;t figure out a way to prove this because i cna;t even go out to prove it. got any ideas?

2007-03-14 18:52:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She flirts with me and it seems like she flirts with one of my friends also. She knows that I like her and she gave me a hug and said I love you and asked do I love her do you think she wants to be friends or more than friends

2007-03-14 18:51:46 · 3 answers · asked by Gabriel L 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf is amazing.he's sweet, caring, intelligent, and makes me feel amazing.....but lately he's been making fun of me....like he makes me feel stupid and not capable of doing certain things because im not smart enouch.Im a junior, and im taking an AP test, but i havent been really doing good in the class for that subject because i really dont do my work.but i kno if i did i would have a good grade. Well basically this is what he said "Why are you even taking that test if your grades are bad? Your not gonna do good, because your not a critical thinker, like me. I bet you im gonna do better than you."
umm.....maybe this is stupid and i should get over it...iono what to do. But lately he's been making little comments like this....or he criticizes me...what should I do.

2007-03-14 18:51:21 · 12 answers · asked by hannahbannah 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We are both young, 19 and 21, and for the most part have a pretty good relationship, despite the fact I tend to break up with him often. In the last 3 years we've brolen up probably 7 times, each time it was me, and because he's too protective sometimes and doesn't let m do what I want.
When we break up it's usually for a few weeks, and we don't talk at all, usually go out and party and he tries to make me mad for breaking up with him of course!
When we break up he fools around with other girls. Sex twice, and other times kissing and stuff. When we get back he never usually admits to what the's done and when I find out it's a cause of ANOTHER breakup.
Some people tell me I deserve it because i break up with him and he's not DOING ANYTHING wrong.
I seem to think that "technically" what he's doing is okay, but "emotionally" is not because he knows we always get back! so it's like he's still cheating?

tell me what you think...

2007-03-14 18:50:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... if they weren't involved anymore and no feelings had been hurt? If they seemed like a great match?

2007-03-14 18:49:43 · 12 answers · asked by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 in Singles & Dating

I've seen this guy around my dorm building since last semester and we gave each other eye contact throughout. Near the end of the semester, we had a little "incident" where we both finally smiled at each other and the next time I saw him he silently mouthed "hey" to me, but all I did was raise my eyebrows in amusement. Now its spring semester (and I guess we've gone past the eye-contact part) and now all we do when we see each other is grin. We've never talked. We don't take any courses together and we don't really hang around the same people, so introducing myself to him may seem a bit awkward. Of course I've thought of the whole small-talk thing when in the elevator or in the cafeteria line, but for some reason, something's telling me not to do that. My intuition is telling me that, from what I know about him, we're not ready to meet. Is my gut feeling telling me that the timing just isn't right? (I know for a fact that he has some personal issues that he has to deal with too.)

2007-03-14 18:48:58 · 5 answers · asked by pharmdcougargal12 3 in Singles & Dating

Giving my husband anul? I have never done this before. How do you get it started?

2007-03-14 18:48:07 · 16 answers · asked by Mai L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can I make my ex girlfriend come back to me? I am 25 and she is 22...It's been 5 weeks since she has broken up with me...and ever since that day there has not been a single day that I havent thought about her...I waited 2 weeks and callled her and I spoke to her for 2 hours and exactly told her how I felt...and I told her to think it over...but I havent heard anything back from her...AND NO I havent called her or Begged her to take me back.. but I know she is the one...I deeply love her to death I just can't let her go or I will be thinking about her for rest of mylife...So I know for a fact there must be a way I could get back with her...I need to do something beyond ordinary something extremely sweet and romantic that would absolutely melt her...make her think OH GOD why did I break up with him?!?! I just need one more chance with her so Please Guys and Girls help me out please be original! no negative comments either please!because I have made up my mind

2007-03-14 18:47:11 · 5 answers · asked by Mike s 1 in Singles & Dating

OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. IOn the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". I felt disrespected so when I got home I said "bye forever" to him on msn. Then I felt bad so a week later I said sorry to him on msn. Since then I have said hi to him 2 on msn. Then a few days ago he said hi to me on msn & he wanted to know what I had been up to.

2007-03-14 18:46:35 · 9 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have just started having sex. The first two times it felt good, but then the third time, it was really painful. Painful to tha point where we had to stop! It was only a day in between the 2nd time and the 3rd time we had sex, so I don't know! I need help!

2007-03-14 18:44:21 · 9 answers · asked by shaboozie32 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I hope no one takes this the wrong way, but if you do, oh well...

I hope you'll only answer if you've thought about this before reading this question, but I am just wondering if it's possible to have an open relationship/threeway/etc. and still say you're in a committed relationship?

2007-03-14 18:44:15 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I was heart broken,when a guy, friend of my friend, called me up. He wanted to make friendship wid me bt I always avoided.I told him abt my break-up & da consequences I was facing.He seemed to realize bt wanted to meet me.I'd met him bt didn't allow him to touch me in anyway.It showed dat he's head-over-heels in love wid me.He's an established businessman wid a nice nuclear family.I've always told him dat I don't love him.I don't feel that urge for him.He said dat evrything'll b ok aftr marriage.It'd been almost 2yrs of our relationship,still I don't love him.I don't feel anything wen he touches me or it so happens dat if gets closer,I always keep distance.I thought of settling with this nice guy anyway,even if I didn't love him.We share every type of discussions with each other. He tries to fulfill whatever I want. Our common frnds tell us dat, we r such sweet couple. I know, without me,his life'll be tough.So I thought of taking care of him 4 the entire life.Bt 4 months back,a guy came in my life,who made frndshp wid me over phone.We'd met each other.I've told him abt my engagement.He even talked to my fiance over phone.He'd become my best pal,but he started to feel for me.From the very beginning,I cud feel his love for me.Then 1 day he said he loves me,in spite of knowing dat I'm engaged.He cud also guess my love for him.Later 1day I told him that I also love him like crazy.We were meeting each other & started to get closer day by day.I really love this person,but he is not ready to marry me now bcoz,he's not totally settled now.He's only 27 now & I'm 22.I don't know whether to marry the person whom I love or not. both of them loves me.1st guy has to marry in a year bcoz of his age.I know he'll keep me happy,but I know that I can't keep him happy physically or sexually.I can't even tell him abt my love affair with the 2nd. My fiance can realize abt our growing relationship. He wants me to say bt I can't reveal. Now a days, he's telling me not to keep any connection with my lover. What'll I do? I'm keeping a lot of patience.
If anyone needs any more inf, then let me know. Please think by heart & suggest me.

2007-03-14 18:44:04 · 15 answers · asked by Bubai 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She is gud by character and behaviour,she is good looking too she is single but is not interesting in commitments

about me(this wat all around me think): i am good by character ,behaviour and intellect but not at all good looking,

so tell me how get her into a commitment with me

2007-03-14 18:42:42 · 3 answers · asked by In love 1 in Singles & Dating

My Boyfriend and i have been goin thru a bit lately, and havent had much time for eachother, i want to do something really special as a couple, to get us feeling close again. we love eachother very much, but life is moving so fast that time is our issue. I need a night or a day where we can get out of the house, and do something really special, so i can show him how much i still love him. the things i dnt want to do are the average stuff like go see a movie, or go out for dinner, i want to do something different and really spend some nice time with him. please help with any ideea????

2007-03-14 18:42:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just as the question says

2007-03-14 18:42:14 · 8 answers · asked by drewneemialover 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there any circumstance where you would side with your non-Caucasian friend over a Caucasian friend? I mean, if there is a dispute, will the White friend always have your loyalty, even if the non-Caucasian friend is in the right?

2007-03-14 18:41:16 · 14 answers · asked by perfectlybaked 7 in Friends

2007-03-14 18:40:55 · 13 answers · asked by Joan O 1 in Singles & Dating

The ceremony will be at an outdoor parish
and the reception will take place indoors with a max of 200 guests...

2007-03-14 18:39:13 · 7 answers · asked by xenon 5 in Weddings

I've been chatting online with a guy I met at a bar for the past couple of months. I finally asked him to "hang out" and we went to dinner. It's been 3 days since our dinner and instead of calling me, he AIMs me online. Even though he initiates the online chatting, he says he's busy at work (programming) or just takes forever to respond. If he wasnt interested, he shouldn't AIM at all after the date?

2007-03-14 18:36:57 · 13 answers · asked by C 1 in Singles & Dating

Last year, my friends all left me 4 a group of sl*ts, ( covered with make up, short skirts, a tiny bit of cloth 4 a top, etc,) and then they all started doing wat the sl*ts did.

1 of the girls that left, has ADD or something, and her mum thinks i am a god-send. I was meant 2 b looking after her daughter, but the girl wouldnt listen.
The Sl*ts would slap her, take her, money, and tease her, yet she refused 2 leave them!
I came home from school after watching them do this 2 her, and tryied ringing the mother. My mum told me 2 stay out of it, but i was so worried about her cuz she was my best friend.

i Spoke 2 her mum a few weeks ago, and i told her wat happened with her daughter.
Her daughter had never told her anything!!!
she was shocked at what i had told her.


Was i right 2 try and ring her mum 2 tell wat was happening?

2007-03-14 18:36:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what do guys think if a girl walks up to him and introduces herself and hands him her number or asks for his number? do they like it or think its weird...like uh thanks but i didnt ask for it..? or is it too sudden and they feel like THEY should be doing this

2007-03-14 18:35:11 · 3 answers · asked by anon8876 1 in Singles & Dating