OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. IOn the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". I felt disrespected so when I got home I said "bye forever" to him on msn. Then I felt bad so a week later I said sorry to him on msn. Since then I have said hi to him 2 on msn. Then a few days ago he said hi to me on msn & he wanted to know what I had been up to.
2007-03-14 18:46:35 · 9 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you think he may wanna hang out again? But why does he wanna hangout after one year? Does he miss me or is he just playing with me?
2007-03-14 18:47:24 · update #1
He doesnt want you move on...You change your name but not the story...
2007-03-14 19:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the reason he is still wanting to see you is because he didn't have sex with you and it's like he didn't win the challenge. If you were easy he could move on and feel as though he scored. I could be wrong and he might really like you and after one year of seeing the other type of girls it's possible that he might respect you more because you did want to wait and he appreciates the morals you have. But I seriously doubt it. I have an old bf after 35 years still calls and in every conversation he brings up the fact that we never slept together and he asks me if I'm interested. I agree with the others you should keep saying "hi" only cause there are good guys out there. Good Luck with your decision.
2007-03-15 02:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by lilrunaway45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did anything happen when you met and went to the cinema? If not, why were you so angry that he just wanted to see you sometimes? If you two were in a long-lasting relationship, why is it so unusual that he may want to know what you have been up to? Maybe he cared about you too.
I don't think he is playing with you - you have not indicated that he has made any action to treat you like a booty call, like some other answerers have indicated on the board. He might just want to be friends. If this is a real concern just ask him about it.
2007-03-15 02:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by AlanHB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to cut contact all together. If he wants to be friends he needs to make it clear, being friends isn't "catching up every now and then" if he wants you back he couldnt want to "catch up every now and then"
You need to distance yourself, if he wants you he will find you.
You also need to read the book He's Just Not That Into You. I have it on email, so feel free to contact me and ill send you a copy.
Goodluck
2007-03-15 01:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by cmitchelle71@yahoo.com.au 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't be fooled by him as he treats u like his second hand spare tyre 4 emergency usage only.leave him alone n get ur new bf 4 replacement.good luck.
2007-03-15 02:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of this guy. you can do better. anybody that just wants you "once in a while" is a worthless jerk.
goodluck.
2007-03-15 01:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by ryan 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i saw the same question last night. What's ur problem?
2007-03-15 01:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he end it without any reason ? if so then he most probably feels guilty about it..
2007-03-15 01:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is full of regret and also doesn't know what he wants!! i was once in his position!!
2007-03-15 02:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by Tahitoa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋