we recently broke up, and the least i can do is show her that i do love her, i want her back so bad.. sum 1 help
2007-03-14 18:52:48 · 5 answers · asked by chad h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you love her, give her space. If she comes back, then you'll know she loves you too. If not, it was not going to work, because the only thing she will love about you is that you love her....You'd be giving and giving, but not getting. It just won't work that way.
I know it's tough, but it's needed right now.
2007-03-14 19:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by fromorto12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.....
makes me wonder why you two broke up. If she did the breaking and has asked you to stop contact, show some respect and help the healing process along by letting go.
If ou think it is really just a break and you guys have a chance together, try and remember what it was like in the very beginning of your relationship. You know the time I am talking about- when you couldn't stand to be apart for more than 5 minutes... when all you could do is think of her....
what would you do special then that you know she loved? What special surprises would you go out of your way to do to make her feel special? Maybe leave a funny poem on her windshield so when she goes to work she has a nice start. Or, bring by her favorite snack food if you are about to watch some TV. Put some effort into it- effort that takes time and energy- time not spent on yourself. :)
2007-03-15 02:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mlle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, telling her is the first step, but say it with meaning, and maybe flowers. As I don't know why you broke up, you should look at the reasons, and agree with her that you want to work them out. If she won't take a call from you there is email and sometimes snail mail works even better, it's more personal. Don't give up after one attempt, you have to show her that you are serious. But, be sure that you really are serious before you try to get her back. Is she someone you want to spend your life with, if so let her know.
2007-03-15 02:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by lochmessy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some roses or do something romantic for her......dedicate a song to her on the radio
2007-03-15 01:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by Shawn C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. Move on with your life. If she comes back...she's yours.
2007-03-15 01:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by tklines 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋