my wife is cheating on me with another woman. I feel so empty and alone. I want someone to love me back now..I am thinking about finding my own lover,,some one to cyber with and make love to here..is that wrong?
2007-03-14 18:58:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, it is wrong. Her wrongs don't give you any justification to be adulterous, nor should they give you an excuse to stop being an honorable man.
Let the guilt rest upon her, and hope that you don't encounter some scummy liberal judge if it comes to a divorce.
2007-03-14 19:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, that's not the solution to you problem. Just let it go. Yea that messed up . The hell with her. Doing what you said is not going to bring her back. Or els why would you ask such a question on this site. Just do what makes you feel right. Shes gone and who's putting a gilt trip on you.
Hm mm .think about it. I'm still legally married and I found out shes seeing two different guys.I'm not doing or seeing no
one.and yes it does hurt to hear stuff like that. You have your own life to live and you don't have to prove nothing to no one.
2007-03-14 19:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by BZCranium 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. Right now you are in a crash course to the earth because your love ship was shot down. The worst thing you could do is try to jump onto another one. Just leave it be and let your wounds heal first and then take it one day at a time. But you are not the only one who has thought this. My ex left me for another woman and when she wasn't working out and cheating on him, he tried to get back with me. So just let it roll and pass, let the wounds heal and then see how you feel.
2007-03-14 19:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is pretty serious; if your wife doesnt feel the need to be faithful, does you being unfaithful make the marriage better. I think you need to get a divorce, before looking for love elsewhere.
2007-03-14 19:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?! Two wrongs don't make a right! Divorce her. Cheating on a cheater doesn't do any good. You won't solve anything by retaliating.
Yeah, your idea is totally wrong.
2007-03-14 19:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by fatcatkeepers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong. Your feelings are normal! It is only wrong if you make it wrong. You may just think about jumping in with your wife and her girlfriend! You have to admit it does sound pretty tempting.
2007-03-14 19:15:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't disrespect your wife like she is disrespecting you, be above that. If she is cheating on you, there is something wrong with your relationship and you will never recover from this... don't have an affair, divorce her find someone who will respect you and your relationship.
2007-03-14 19:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by sssxc1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong for you to want someone to love you.If it is not cumming from your wife,then get it from someonelse without the guilt.I wish you lots of love.
2007-03-14 19:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Two wrongs don't make either of you right. Right now, she is wrong. Don't lower yourself to her level - especially since cybersex has absolutely nothing to do with love. It won't help you feel less alone - more likely, it will make you feel more so.
2007-03-14 19:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and 2 wrongs don't make a right. get divorced first.
2007-03-14 19:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right...If you two do not want to stay faithful, maybe its time to end this madness...
2007-03-14 19:50:33 · answer #11 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋