Ok so i have the hots for my sisters boss. He's been comming over a lot, everytime i've asked him to come over and hang out or whatever. He had asked my sister if i had the hots for him, we partied that night, he called my sis the next day to see how i was feeling, then we went to his party that weekend. I like completely froze and didnt really talk to him that much, a shy smile and a hi and that was about it. He knows I like him now. He's comming to my birthday party this weekend as well. He broke up with his ex a few months ago, they were together for 4 years...and she screwed him over big time, numerous times, and in the end a big finale of a screw over pretty much. He's not exactly as forward as myself am, im trying to figure out how to watch for signs or signals if he's interested, i wanna play it cool.
2007-03-14 19:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by pinkblondie0314 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im a front desk manager at a resort, I do the overnight shift once a week, hence the reason i am up at 3am...
2007-03-14 19:54:14 · update #1
Good god, maybe i should hav mentioned the fact that im 22 years old...im not looking to jump in bed with him im looking to see if he's interested and what signals guys throw out if they are interested in a girl??
2007-03-14 19:56:40 · update #2
You said honest real answers?
Ask him. He's a guy. If he's interested he'll probably tell you. If you got shied up once, and he's less forward, chances are you're both in an awkward phase around each other. Get the elephant out of the room, tell him how you feel. Most men aren't scared off by aggressive women, and sometimes the surprise of a woman coming onto a man, is more of a turn on than anything else.
2007-03-14 19:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by Cashew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He alreadyhas a clue u have the hots for him by asking your sister, just play it cool and remain his hang out buddy if hes been in a 4 year relationship so right now u would probably be a rebound fling. Just chill n continue to be his buddy he may just be looking to get laid at the same time dont be so quick to give in. He may not be ready to get serious, u on the other hand if u give him some nookie will get your feelings deeper which may cause u to end up getting hurt
2007-03-15 03:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by DFatOne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy. It sounds like he's trying to gauge wether or not you may like him by going through your sister. If you really want to play it cool, than you'd probably wait for him to make a move on you. If you want to take the battle to him (They say love is like war), than talk to him a lot. Talk about him with him. Tell hime about you. Find out what you have in common. And if he doesn't do it 1st, ask him to lunch or something. Don't just through it out there. Act as though it's perfectly ok and part of your conversation. See what he thinks. Good luck.
2007-03-15 02:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by fullmetal479 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK IT TIME TO PISS YA OFF A TINY BIT,, get your wallet out and bye him a pepsi and a snickers bar on your own ,, and be funny, be fun, be cute and dont get into argurments with others infront of him cussing and stuff,, and stop being so scared of him ask him if he likes shooting pool or going swimming and take it one day at a time,, and treat him as you loved to be treated and try to trust him,, good luck, kiddo
2007-03-15 02:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by wgggn_babyjim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Salutations. Ask him if he is interested in you, when there is no one else in ear shot. That way you wont be embarassed if he says no. And if he isnt, he wont be emarrased to the point to say no in a way that will be an attack towards you. Most men do that. Sad to say, though it is true. I truly wish you the best.
2007-03-15 03:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by schizophrenic_poet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get hm interested is to give him some nookie. go for it, then maybe youll have a boyfriend and then something else to do at 3 in the morning besides play around on yahoo! answers. good luck with that.
2007-03-15 02:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
iri man,good story,what about your sisters opinian.
2007-03-15 02:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by toploser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋