...Do you really want to have a meaningful relationship with one woman? Are there still monogamous males in existance? You know, considering that this is a relationship forum...
2007-03-14 19:49:17 · 13 answers · asked by Teoshe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
To someonecanbme: No, I'm not looking for a date. Just trying to hear if there are any guys who aren't thinkin' about exploring grass that only looks greener...
2007-03-14 20:06:13 · update #1
Yes, and I do. The key to a lasting relationship lies in two simple things:
1. Finding out what makes your partner feel loved (do NOT assume you automatically know, or that it is the same as what makes you feel loved) and push that button as often as you can.
2. Being able to put up with their bad habits, and they being able to put up with yours.
What just about everyone is looking for is someone who will not only love them...but will also make them FEEL loved.
If you can find that one...there are none better out there.
Hmmm...let's see... If your partner feels loved...that invokes hate, right? or spurs on competitiveness? or makes them withdraw? or not want to spend time with you?
The phone is ringing here...will you answer it?
2007-03-14 20:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lord L 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have now spent nearly half of my life married to the same woman (19 years in September). And I have always been monogamous...pretty sure she has too. Although, I must admit it hasn't always been easy to be faithful; there are a lot of temptations out there.
However, I do love my wife and our relationship has grown and evolved over the years to the point where I think we are both feeling pretty content.
And though I sometimes envy my single friends, I know that I'm gonna sleep in the same warm bed every night with my beautiful, naked, blonde, Swiss/American wife while those poor bastards spend most of their nights sleeping with the Spice channel and a bottle of Jack.
All-in-all, I wouldn't give up what I've got.
Monogamy still lives!
;O)
Good Luck!
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2007-03-15 03:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by tahunajcw 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lets put it this way, I fell in love truly only once in my life. I have loved before but once was actually infatuation, the other was one sided and she didn't care for me come to find. The last had to choose between me or her parents as they didn't care to have me join their family. They made her choose me or them and that was ten days shy of six months ago. She is the only woman I have loved enough to want to make her my wife and she no longer speaks to me. I still love her and only her and am not sure if I will ever get past it. So in short yeah we exist, its just finding the one right woman and keeping her that is the challenge for those of us who do still exist.
-NmD!
2007-03-15 02:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a guy, and I have a girlfriend, and it's a meaningful relationship. We haven't had sex and I haven't thought about having sex with another woman since before we got together. I haven't pressured sex or anything, unlike most males would. Probably cause it's not on the top of my things to do list.
2007-03-15 02:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Some do. But it has to be the woman of his choice. The problem is that in human mating, it is the females who perform the selection so most guys never really wind up with the woman they wanted. They have to settle for the one that accepts them. Sooner or later they will start looking elsewhere to get what they need.
2007-03-15 02:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well i dated a few, till i found my wife,,,an i knew i was ready to settle down,,,,, some think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, ,,, an i guess i never know,,,but i love my wife to much to every try to jump it
2007-03-15 07:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are still southern gentlemen out there. I was 46 when I finally found my bride. I am a girl watcher from way back. I think that all really great artists do their best work at the very last. God made woman last and they are his best work ever. Loved looking but once he sent me my bride all i can look at is her..........on my seventh year of honeymoon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-15 02:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, we do. there is still 1% monogamous males in existence. Good luck in finding one.
2007-03-15 02:53:28 · answer #8 · answered by alain 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I myself am only going to be with the girl I'm with now. I despise cheating really, absolutely hate it. But I'm a guy who looks for a real relationship with real love. Its how i roll and how i am so I'm happy, least my gf knows for sure i wont cheat heh.
2007-03-15 03:06:59 · answer #9 · answered by Altimaar 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes, i'm only interested in having a relationship with one woman. and once i find the right one i'll be good. though, until then i guess the search is still on.
2007-03-15 02:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋