A man i dont like and dont have any interest in brought a campaign online to get revenge on me and play stupid games. He hired another guy to give me a hard time and they both try to give me problems in every which way imaginable when im online. I would never consider being involved with either of them and am above them lookswise, financially, every area yet they seem to try to insult me every chance they get. I asked why, one of them said 'I like to make you feel bad'..Why are they wasting their time doing this? I dont care about these people yet they always try to get my attention and wont leave me be. What would cause a man to try to set up the object of his affection after being rejected and to be so juvenile as to name call and gang up on a person? Ive never known someone so pathetic before. Whats the motive in this?
2007-03-14 19:52:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's just a pathetic **** who needs a life. if being rejected makes him act two, maybe he should consider some profesional help. as to what you can do, just block them or ignore them. or play along, pretend to be crushed, maybe they'll back off. you must be quite the girl to break someone's heart that bad;) lol.
2007-03-14 19:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say, change all your information. Your email, screen name, myspace account, etc. If they continue to contact you, try ignoring them. They are probably only continuing to bother you because you are replying back and they can see that they are getting a rise out of you and that is all that they are looking for. Stop letting them see that they are bothering you. Completely ignore them, block them on email, instant messaging and everything else that they can contact you with. If it continues and possibly gets worse, you may want to tell an authority figure, possibly go to the police. I would say to start with changing your information and then ignoring them. For this instigating, make police a last resort, if it gets so bad that there is threatening and harassment then its time to report them. Good luck.
2007-03-14 20:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they just want attention. If some men can't get good attention...then they retaliate by getting bad attention. They have no respect for you...and they are just stupid.
Best way to deal with them is to completely ignore them. Don't respond, don't react, don't answer them at all ever again. If you do, you give them what they want. They will eventually go away if you aren't reacting to their juvenile revenge scheme.
2007-03-14 19:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine Queen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously a sick person, mentally, and if it wasn't you he would find someone else to harrass. The best thing you can do with someone like this is to ignore him, and anyone associated with him. All you are doing by admitting he exists is feeding his craziness. If he is getting to you on line, change email addresses so he can't find you. Be pro-active in whatever ways you can.
2007-03-14 19:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by lochmessy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
CHange your online name..and get the heck away from this man and his cronies! Bad news!!!! Be safer next time..and don't reveal too much about yourself!
take care...
some people are soo strange...I have met a few like this online..and whew! They need some definite HELP!!!
2007-03-14 19:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by ladyk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You hurt his ego, he feels rejected by you. Obviously he very vengeful and dosen't have a life. Try staying offline for a while. They will soon get bored and start picking on someone else.
2007-03-14 20:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by Rizza 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like someones who have not much of a life or they might just see a weak point in you. I would change my online name or email if need be. Just give those you only want your infomation and start over.
2007-03-14 19:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by babycakes3557 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
rfile it to the police. if it is the comparable man or woman he would properly be warned & dealt with by using using the harrsment act. you will could grant information that the guy emailing you is the comparable man or woman who became inflicting the subject concerns by using the years. save all emails & textual content fabric's to coach the police. you will make a assertion & additionally be arranged to bypass to courtroom if neccesary alongside with any witnesses you could have.
2016-12-14 19:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word, insecurity. I have an idea. Record any and all messages they send you, gather them up in a document, and threaten to have them arrested. What they're doing is illegal. If you listen to me, they should start leaving you alone.
2007-03-14 20:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by bond_fan_001 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Revenge. Change your Email and your SN. Sorry, but that's all you can do. Talk to your ISP and see if you can get your IP address changed as well. Just don't even let them get to you.
2007-03-14 19:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by indieforcutie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋