ok well as i said im a good lookin guy. i get girls to become "interested" in me without really doing much a lot of the time. but for some reason i can never really seem to do anything about it and i dont know why. i try n talk to these girls a bit in person, then as bad as it sounds a bit on myspace or facebook or whatever. we always say stuff like "ya we'll kick it tonight for sure" stuff like that. and of course that usually doesnt end up happening. many times ill call and not get a call back til the next day and whatever. but it cant be my imagination that these girls are interested cause theyre the ones many times hitting on me at first ill say, theyre doing stuff that makes you think everythings 100%. and then ill send myspace messages or text messages or whatever and theyll read everything, n then never send anything back. and this usually goes on for a few weeks. i hate talkin on the phone and bein flirty over phone convos and whatnot but am i doing something wrong? is it me?
2007-03-14 19:58:29 · 6 answers · asked by ben M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some girls just like to play online games, and never intend on meeting in person. If you're bombing out on the net, maybe it's time to look for girls in real life! There are still a lot of people who think that anyone they meet online has to be some sort of perv... which is rather strange since these same people are online themselves!
2007-03-14 20:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by endorable 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you calling or texting them alot? If you are, you could be scaring some girls away. Most people don't want too much attention. It's great that you try to follow through with plans but, it wouldn't hurt to play hard to get sometimes. That creates a bit of mystery and it doesn't make it seem like you're desperate (not that you are, just sayin'). Try being a little more aloof and let the girls do some work. Let them call you first or message you first. The girl WILL break down and contact you because she'll want to know why you didn't contact her.
You could also just be finding immature women. Some women like to play games and just like the thrill of the hunt and lose interest after it becomes easy. Don't change who you are entirely because you sound like a sweet guy. Just back off a bit and let the girls come to you. If they don't, chalk it up to their lose and move on.
2007-03-14 20:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-25 21:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like they don't exist and they will be falling all over them self to kick it with you...turn them down a time or two...don't return a phone call...girls need a challenge...don't make it too easy for them....this is just the beginning of the insanity that is woman...good luck
2007-03-14 20:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looks are not at the top of a woman's wish-list (pretty high, but not the top).
They're more interested in your bank balance.
2007-03-14 20:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
stay off myspace and go to dog park
2007-03-14 20:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by John K 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋