Do you ever feel like you don't belong in your place? If you do, please share it with me..?

Question

Sometimes I feel like a stranger eventhough I'm surrounded by many friends and close relatives. I never find myself between them. And by that I mean, I kinda lost in the middle of their crowds. My mind was never there and sometimes they can feel it too.
When I was with them, I never take this seriously. But after I graduates from my high school, I lost my will to hang out with them anymore. My friends are good people and nice friends. But I can't help this feeling to keep on wondering "will I ever find the place that I will no longer feel so lonely and strange?".
So I ask you people to share your thought about this. Have you ever feel this way, or is it just me?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

I'm Asian, but I was born in America. As a child I knew I would struggle with some things. I knew I would struggle with learning how to drive a car, because unlike most kids looking forward to it, it scared me just to think about it. I also knew I would struggle in finding a job. In a land where "the customer is always right," I knew I would be afraid while at work, and also dread the interview process. I also knew I would struggle in finding a girlfriend or wife...

I didn't drive a car by myself until I was 21. I didn't drive on the highway until last summer, when I was 24...

I didn't get my first job until I was 21, and I got to bypass the interview because my mom knew someone who knew the district manager...

...I still haven't found a girlfriend. In fact, not even close.

For the simple fact that I have never been in a relationship, this above all else makes me feel alien in this country. If a society is going to deprive someone of something in order to send a message, this would be it. Do I feel at home? Not at all. I feel like a visitor stuck in a terminal.

Answer 3

I just think that we are all loners at heart. The reason why I think many people feel alone is because they haven't met their soul-mate/twin flame that completes them. By this I don't mean it in a romantic way either. I mean that there are certain people the other people just click with. I mean, I have friends that, when I'm with them, I'm always zoning out, but I know that we all have the same goals, the same sarcastic humor and similar styles. But there are other aspects that I don't connect with, like how I perceive certain ideals and how I interact with people.

I just think that we are all unique, but there are people out there who compliment our own personalities...which can lead to me talking on and on about twin flames and the like, but that may take forever. Just be glad for your individuality and ask yourself, is the life you're leading now that bad or that unsatisfying that you really need to find that special place of belonging? And if you do decide to do it, think of what you already have. Would you risk your current ties to find that place? Also, if you're young, then you have a lot of time to grow and experience new things, so being patient is something to consider.

Answer 4

I always feel like I don't fit in anywhere. I have wonderful friends, but don't always open myself up sometimes. I feel like I'm the only one that feels left out of something or that I'm the only one that has certain feelings. Well I can't exactly say that I feel left out of anything because my friends always tell me about things before they happen, but I have a job too. I try not to let it get to me. I do like to make decisions for myself and take control of my own life and not let things control it for me.

Answer 5

well.......i neva felt this wen i'm wid family...
but wen i'm wid my frends..i feel no one loves me !!! ( ah dats for the guys...i feel no guy loves me and no one wants to be my frend ) :((