Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

since my boyfriend & I have been dating he comes & visits me every single holiday. I told him I would come this time because it wasn't fair he keeps spending his time and money. My mom had a fit about me driving 4 hours by myself bc im a girl so she said she would tag along. That made me mad enough. it is the night before & she decides not to go and says that I can't because it's too far. I am so mad at her and we planned this a week ago. My heart was set on seeing him. May I add I am 20. I hate being disobedient especially when I am a college student who is dependent on her mother. How do I handle this?

2007-03-13 17:37:54 · 5 answers · asked by JELLE 3 in Family

Sorry franki i know your having a good time with this but your boring me to death, i'm finished with all conversation with you!

2007-03-13 17:37:16 · 5 answers · asked by babydoll 1 in Friends

ok, so my ex broke up with me at the end of november because he said i didn't trust him. i wasn't ready for it to end and neither was he so we're trying that whole friend thing but it was a text message every few weeks.

all of a sudden, yesterday, we're having lengthy conversations and laughing and talking and just having a good time. then he starts being sweet, honest, and telling me that he wants to settle down and start a family.

so anyway, TODAY, i get to work and his sister, who i work with, tells me she wants to take me out to dinner to "thank me." she says that although things didn't work out with me and her brother, i changed him more than i'll ever know and there's something she needs to talk to me about.

what does this all mean? what's with him calling? he called a little while ago and i'm afraid he's got alterior motives and i'll wind up hurt. what do you all think?

2007-03-13 17:36:58 · 6 answers · asked by rubydoobydoo 3 in Singles & Dating

What is going on here, did I mess up?
I got a little upset when I found out thatthe guy I very recently met and started talking to is moving out of state, closer to his ex. I told him my suspicions about why he was moving closer to her, and I told him I thought we shouldn't see each other if that was the case.... and he denied it. So, I apologized to him for coming down so judgemental on him, and he said OK..and I said maybe we can get together soon, after all (he had asked me out before I got upset) We talked on the phone for almost two hours. Does it sound like I freaked him out a little? He told me he thought it was mean that I didn't want to talk to him in the beginnign when I found out about him moving.

2007-03-13 17:36:37 · 3 answers · asked by julia k 1 in Singles & Dating

More specifically: my ex of almost 2 years cheated on me multiple times and I ended up catching her. She spent the last 6 months or so trying to convince me she realizes her mistake and would never do it again and would do anything to have me back. I finally took her back and now she thinks it is okay for her to be "friends" and hang out with the very guys she cheated on me with, who did not begin as just guy friends in the first place. So my question is for people who don't know and won't be biased on my side. Is it acceptable for her to be hanging out with these guys?

2007-03-13 17:36:29 · 8 answers · asked by Adam 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

but after the experience i had now i understand to why!!...my sis inlaws started this rude strange attitude i didnt understand for what? begining of the wedding parties my family relatives used to tell me his sisters r rude and they dont say hello greet us at the parties. whats the deal with these woman+ his mom turned psycho later too saying how her sons paycheck is going to waste on us by him buying us things for our baby.she told me to ask my dad to pay for me and the baby not ask her son..so u guys do tell me why do woman turn psycho and talk nonsense then do things which makes us so mad that we start to hate the mothers but then its blamed on how the woman comes and she has hate for the guys family!! i dont hate ANYONE unless they do such acts that will develope hate in my heart..so do answer plz any comments

2007-03-13 17:36:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Miscommunications between couples should settle before babys come in the picture.

2007-03-13 17:35:08 · 20 answers · asked by Yassmin M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What does it mean when all of the sudden my fiance becomes less affectionate, doesn't look at me the same, doesn't want to have sex anymore, and doesn't seem to care where I am opposed to the early days where she was always affectionate, always wanted to have sex, couldn't stand it if I was in another room, and used to look at me as if I was the only person in the world.

2007-03-13 17:34:59 · 8 answers · asked by nmbr1soldier 2 in Singles & Dating

So st. patties day is coming up and my g/f wanted to go out and of course drink... Well there were previous plans for her to go out with some of her friends, but I told her that if i get the night off, I am going to go with them... well at first she said ok thats fine, but when I brought it up tonight, i can tell she doesnt want me to go. I asked her why and her reason was, "becuase it will be weird, becuase you will be the only guy there." I told her that thats a gay reason when they go out with a guy, we'll call George, but he works with them... And i said, well i'm your b/f so whats the difference??? I got really irritated that she didnt want me to go with her. Can you ladies please explain to me what she's thinking or why she doesnt want me to go? Also, should I just go anyway and invite myself along??? Any suggestions would be great!
Thanks,

2007-03-13 17:34:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will need both. Do you know about how much the charge might be for both?

Thanks

2007-03-13 17:33:28 · 7 answers · asked by ☼ lovethesun11 2 in Weddings

this is the first time ive seriously considered doing this. the guy I am dating is really into it and he said that the girl that we want to have it with had kind of mentioned it before. He wants me to ask her but i dont really know how to bring up the subject. I am not really close friends with the girl and i dont want to seem wierd.

2007-03-13 17:32:26 · 18 answers · asked by carleigh 1 in Singles & Dating

What i NEED to know is can pizza be in a can and what is up with that cannned bread stuff? HOW DO THEY MAKE THOSE DAMN DONUTS and why do some animals only see black and white? Do you see colors? I see colors, there was this guy that was friends with my bestfriend and he's color blind and his eyes are gray, i'm sure not all people thalt are color blind have grey eyes but that guys eyes were gorgeous! where did the word gorgeous come from it is german or chinese? I alwyas get those two mixed up, am i asking too many questions? Sorry i'm a curious person i named my cat that one time but it wasn't my cat my neighbor found it in a tree and then they gave him and his brother to my family and then we kept them for about 2 hours and then my dad gave the away and i was sad.............why are poeple allergic to cats?....okay i'm done...

2007-03-13 17:31:51 · 5 answers · asked by Courtney 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i give all i could do to help other poeple tell to other poeple to share they vioces

2007-03-13 17:31:33 · 3 answers · asked by bulaklak 1 in Singles & Dating

I've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends, such as daily chatting, or texting. Sometimes we visit each other's work place just to hang out. She's constantly blowing off guys and telling me about them.

She has on the other hand invited me to dinner and a movie. She has also rated me a 9 from a scale of 1-10 in hotness. In addition when i jokingly mentioned i would stretch my arms in theatres to make a move, she insisted she wanted to see it. When we went with a group of people on a seperate occasion, she insisted i sit next to her and that if i continued sitting in front of her i would block her view. We walk close together a lot and play weird games. She even took my phone, decorated, and put pix of herself making weird faces and kissing the screen. She played the piano while i was napping and then jumped on me aft.

Everyone thinks we're a couple because we hang out a lot and when asked if we are, she always says i'm too good for her

2007-03-13 17:31:33 · 7 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with this totally wonderful guy for 1 yr 1/2. 90% of the time he is just so absolutely amazing. He's the sweetest, funniest, most loveable guy I have ever been with. He treats me way better than with any other guy Ive ever been with. But then there's this 10% of the time where he's really mean and scary sometimes. Then when I beg him to stop because he's carrying on like a crazy person and scareing me; he occasionally grabs a knife and acts like he's going to stab himself screaming "you wanna see crazy". I end up in an anxiety attack; then he starts appologizing and crying himself. He's been through a really tragic childhood that messed himup. I dont want to live without the good side of him; but don't know how far he'll go in one of these mood swings. Ive asked him to go to counseling; and he says it wont work cause it didnt before. It doesn't happen all the time; in the year 1/2 we've been together its only happened maybe once a month or so. I just dont know what to do!!!

2007-03-13 17:31:32 · 7 answers · asked by the_syco_t 2 in Singles & Dating

should you kiss on da first date if you knew this girl for a while now nd you guys have been rlly close..[movies]

[high school]

2007-03-13 17:30:48 · 1 answers · asked by 123 1 in Singles & Dating

I am confused if my boyfriend loves me... He never missed a day without texting me that he loves me, he is always at my house almost every night. But when we were together he does not say he loves me... I guess the last time i heard it coming from him was like 10 days ago.. I already told him that i prefer of hearing it than reading thru sms... But still he never says it..
I would just like to hear any opinion from you guys... thanks..

2007-03-13 17:30:20 · 13 answers · asked by glayse 2 in Singles & Dating

should you kiss on da first date if you knew this girl for a while now nd you guys have been rlly close..

2007-03-13 17:30:14 · 15 answers · asked by 123 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 17:29:12 · 7 answers · asked by brian 1 in Singles & Dating

ewwwwwwwwwwww.........bloodyyyyyyyyyyyyy

2007-03-13 17:28:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To talk every day more than 1 time sometimes

2007-03-13 17:27:59 · 1 answers · asked by Leveler 6 in Singles & Dating

this guy i know ..hes SHY cute smart and sexy i see him like 3 times a week ...
he usually walks me to my car when its time for me to go home and we always end up making out ... this has happened 4 times now ... i asked him if he was into me but he hasnt given me a straight answer .. when i see him in the club he will wave smlie & wink at me but never come up and hug me like my other guy friends ... i know hes single cause we spent valentines day sitting on the bar together ... but last week i text messaged him telling him how i felt about him ... and ive been avoiding him and pretending like i didnt see him cause i feel like an *** ... but tonight he followed me into a bar and stared at me while he got drinks for him and his friends but i pretended to be busy with my phone ...
- ive asked him to the beach and to the movies but he said he was tired ... im too bummed to ask him out again ... HELP !!!

2007-03-13 17:27:49 · 1 answers · asked by Baby G 3 in Singles & Dating

MY SISTER, MOTHER AND I FOUND OUR SELF ON THIS CONVERSTATION AND I DESIDE TO SHARE TO SEE IF YOU ALL FEEL THE WAY WE FEEL or how do you feel about this.
ANYWAY MY SISTER AND I FIGURE YOU ARE STEP BOTHER AND SISTER IF YOU HAVE DIFFERENT FATHERS AND THE SAME MOTHER.
AND MY MOTHER ON THE OTHER HAND FEEL THAT YOU ARE STEP BOTHER AND SISTER IF YOU HAVE THE SAME FATHER BUT DIFFERENT MOTHERS
EX1: I HAVE A BOTHER WHO HAVE 3 DAUGHTES WITH 3 DIFFERENT BABY MOTHERS DO THAT MAKE THEM STEPsisters?
EX2: MY FATHER HAS 7 CHILDREN 2 HAVE THE SAME MOTHER, 1 HAS A MOTHER, 3 SAME MOTHER,AND 1 WITH A MOTHER.
DOES THIS MAKE US BLOOD BOTHERS AND SISTER OR STEP?

2007-03-13 17:26:57 · 13 answers · asked by babyGIRL 1 in Family

Hi guys im 15 and my 80 year old grandma thinks i spend to mutch time on the computer (4 hours a day or so) is 4 hours two mutch or is she just saying that because she is old. she also says that my friends spend to mutch time on the computer and when she trys to tell me that things haven't changed alot since when she was a kid i try to tell her they have but she is to stuborn to listen. what sould i do to get her off my back?

2007-03-13 17:26:06 · 13 answers · asked by Undertaker12345678 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well my fiance is afraid that when he marry me before he gets his orders back to the states that he have to stay longer in germany. Is that right? I mean can the army make him to stay even we already planned on living in the states? Or is that just a rumor?

2007-03-13 17:25:23 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Weddings

2007-03-13 17:24:55 · 27 answers · asked by Ethan S <3 Da Ben Dan 4 in Friends

it seems like practically everyone my age, people i've known for years and newer people in my life, are all getting married and established. but i feel behind; i have a boyfriend who i've been with for 3 years and have discussed marriage with, but we're not married or engaged yet. i just feel a little behind and left out cuz so many others my age are already getting married and settling down. my guy and i are both still in school; i'm beginning to get tired of "regular school", but it's hard cuz where i live jobs are next to impossible to find, and i don't have a car. in a way i feel "stuck." i just wish i too was getting married and all that. is there anyone else who feels this way??

2007-03-13 17:24:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I keep ending up sleeping with another guy when my boyfriend isn't there when I need it. I really want to stop doing this. I want to be a faithful girlfriend and have a healthy relationship with him but sex keeps me from it. I am not planning on telling him whats really been going on. I want to be a good girlfriend to him... what can I do? and have you ever been in a situation like this too? Can you share your story with me if it's alright with you

2007-03-13 17:24:26 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is this suggestive talk a way to flirt? Is he telling me that we're gonna start taking off items anytime soon? What would you guys men if you said that to a female?

2007-03-13 17:23:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its like a sixth sense. most girls can just tell if you're lying / insecure/ ulterior motive its amazing

2007-03-13 17:23:30 · 12 answers · asked by joey 3 in Singles & Dating