this is the first time ive seriously considered doing this. the guy I am dating is really into it and he said that the girl that we want to have it with had kind of mentioned it before. He wants me to ask her but i dont really know how to bring up the subject. I am not really close friends with the girl and i dont want to seem wierd.
2007-03-13 17:32:26 · 18 answers · asked by carleigh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tough one to bring up, especially since you aren't really close friends with her. If she is close friends with your guy friend then he should be the one to bring it up. Whoever is closest is the one who should. If you both are about as equally close with her then maybe you both need to do a 'dry run' at it. Flip a coin and see who goes first, then talk to her carefully and casually about 'a friend who' and stuff like that to see how she feels about such activity in general and maybe even ask her in a secret between friends kinda way if she ever thought about it (helps if you admit you thought about it first). If that goes well then lead up to it before you outright ask.
2007-03-13 17:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh My God, Its an accident about to happen and I can't look away.
Bodies and body fluids will be on everyone. This ok with you?
Your guy will be paying a lot of attention to someone other than you, this ok with you?
You will have to have some kind of sexual feelings with the other person, this ok with you?
Fantasies should never be indulged in because they cease being such good fantasies.
How would he like a threesome with another guy? Ah I thought not.
So, don't think you're going to seem weird. If you do go with this, that would seem weird.
I think you would be better off sending the two of them to a motel with a pack of condoms and a promise to get checked for a STD the next day.
2007-03-13 17:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to do this or is he pushing for it? If you haven't learned this yet --hear me now!!!!! Do not let someone else determine your morals. you can always break up with a guy you could even move away but honey once your do the deed - you are stuck with that experience, that memory and it is hard as the dickens to see your bf doing someone else. It is also difficult to perform acts on someone of the same sex when you are not either bi or gay. So if, and only if, you are certain that this guy is just entertainment for you and not someone you are looking to have in your life forever and this girl is someone you are willing to continue to run into after you have done the deed well, go ahead. It is a free country and you may do whatever you please.. good luck -k-
2007-03-13 17:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by kbama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife has done this a few times. The best way she's found is to take her out and talk. Let the conversation go towards sex if it starts down that road, and if it doesn't, then go out again. Once you've started talking about sex, let things just open up, try and get her talking about her sex life, and talk about your sex life, and then eventually there will be a natural point to say, "Yeah, we were thinking about a threesome... you interested?" or something along those lines.
2007-03-14 03:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has mentioned it before then just bring it up some how and see how she reacts towards it.But i would just ask her what kind of stuff she is into and maybe get to know her a bit more before i did this unless i knew she was into that.Of course your b/f is into it and so he should be just don't do it if you are jealous kind of people and yes i would want to get to know the girl a bit more before introducing her into mine and my b/f sexual life. Good luck though.
2007-03-13 17:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe most guy will be interested in threesome with two hot chicks. But, this type of relationship, the one who get hurt subsequently is normal the girls. Unless you are not into a serious relationship with him, if not, best not to try.
2007-03-13 19:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a weigh down on my spouse's suited buddy, and that i joked approximately having a threesome with them the two. next time he does that, grab him and drag him into the mattress room and screw him until he's exhausted! Then curl up next to him, kiss his neck and say, "toddler, i'm too plenty lady for you, the two one people might kill you!" it is going to take him a week to have the grin you have placed on his face to be bumped off.
2016-10-18 08:14:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok firt thing is first... do u want to ???
if the idea of kissing anothe girl turns u on it does no mean nothing if the idea of watching ur bf kissn anothe girl turns u one then does not mean nothing it only means it turns u on how do u know if this other girl and ur bf dont have history together
will ur bf would like to have a tressome with other guy?? kinda kinky...u taking two and ur bf waching u being sexual intimate with some extranger
2007-03-13 17:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by chance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you don't want to marry him in the future. Your low morals will affect your marriage. He will never forget. Also, take precautions against STDs especially AIDS.
2007-03-13 17:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like fun.
For him at least.
So what will you do when you see him enjoying himself with her and not you.
I have heard this stuff before on the Love Line on KROQ-FM.
And couples never stay together .
2007-03-13 17:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋