Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

Okay i have been married 2 yrs just about and am only 23 / my hubby is 24 so we are both still young.I thought are marriage was great and fine till i caught my hubby cheating with a co-worker 1.3 into our marriage.At the time we were supposed to have been trying for a baby i was heart broken.After this we could not stop fighting so 2 months later he left throwing divorce papers at me .I ran into an old highschool bf while at the bowling ally picking up my little cousin and he was first love as well the whole home run deal.Later i gave him a call and one thing led to another drinking was involved.It happened 2-3 more times before i called it quits needing to get over my emotional issues.To my suprise my hubby came back wanting to work things out.He has since moved back in problem is i just found out i am 3 months pregnant and it cant be his.What can i do i feel awful?

2007-03-13 17:12:25 · 39 answers · asked by Ashley C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's crazy! I never understood it. I'm sure that this happens to girls too but........ There are alot of guys who would legitimatly treat the girl that they care about like the most important person on the planet. Alot of girls say that they want a guy who would treat them that way but then you see alot of those girls turn down the guy. Even on yahoo answers alot of the girls say that this is what they want but i doubt that a large part of the group would actually stick to it. I'm not talking about guys who may be socially disasters either. Just cool guys who want to respect their girls and have a great time together. Maybe it's the idea of her knowing that he likes her so much that turns her off. I don't know. Somebody is going to say "you haven't met the right girl" and i'm just righting ahead of time to say that that doesn't make sense. It's not like the guy would be trying to find a wife. we're talking about a girlfriend.

2007-03-13 17:12:00 · 10 answers · asked by Vince R 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 17:10:57 · 13 answers · asked by bunty 1 in Friends

Well Ive been dating someone for almost a year and a half and we are at colleges extremely far away me in CA him in TX well lately my parents (i live at home) are getting angry at the ammount of time i spend on the phone and internet to talk to him. Am i in the wrong for staying in a long distance relationship even though he comes down every other weekend?

2007-03-13 17:10:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cuz my brothers friend asked me if i was emo or scene and i wanna know what it means!!

2007-03-13 17:10:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you were married to a rich man and you didn't have to work but before you married him you always had your dream of what you would do in life.. the point is would you still pursue your goal or stay at home because you are rich

2007-03-13 17:10:38 · 14 answers · asked by Aracely 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 17:10:28 · 2 answers · asked by bulaklak 1 in Friends

I've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends, such as daily chatting, or texting. Sometimes we visit each other's work place just to hang out. She's constantly blowing off guys and telling me about them.

She has on the other hand invited me to dinner and a movie. She has also rated me a 9 from a scale of 1-10 in hotness. In addition when i jokingly mentioned i would stretch my arms in theatres to make a move, she insisted she wanted to see it. When we went with a group of people on a seperate occasion, she insisted i sit next to her and that if i continued sitting in front of her i would block her view. We walk close together a lot and play weird games. She even took my phone, decorated, and put pix of herself making weird faces and kissing the screen. She played the piano while i was napping and then jumped on me aft.

Everyone thinks we're a couple because we hang out a lot and when asked if we are, she always says i'm too good for her

2007-03-13 17:10:26 · 3 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Singles & Dating

I got a little upset when I found out thatthe guy I very recently met and started talking to is moving out of state, closer to his ex. I told him my suspicions about why he was moving closer to her, and I told him I thought we shouldn't see each other if that was the case.... and he denied it. So, I apologized to him for coming down so judgemental on him, and he said OK..and I said maybe we can get together soon, after all (he had asked me out before I got upset) We talked on the phone for almost two hours. Does it sound like I freaked him out a little? He told me he thought it was mean that I didn't want to talk to him in the beginnign when I found out about him moving.

2007-03-13 17:10:04 · 1 answers · asked by julia k 1 in Singles & Dating

well, u know the problem where you like someone... they barely know you exist... right? typical. i really want to know if any one of u has any idea of... well... anything i can do. please?

2007-03-13 17:09:30 · 5 answers · asked by Desi 2 in Weddings

If your boyfriend asked to lick every inch, centimeter of your body and I mean EVERY. No part would go unlicked.

Yes, No, Maybe?

2007-03-13 17:08:16 · 13 answers · asked by Bobby_Bomberman 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 17:08:05 · 3 answers · asked by Pink_Slit 1 in Friends

Every time a girl flirts with me its like im frozen and dont know what to say...I feel im not worthy sort of..What can i do to stop freezing up?

2007-03-13 17:07:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 17:06:14 · 15 answers · asked by HIRO 1 in Family

Im 5' 9" and keep in great shape I get told I should be a model very frequently. but i catch my husband looking at nude pictures of other women all the time do all men have the desire to look at other women? should i be offended? it is causeing my self esteem to drop signifcantly. I dont think I would care if he didnt hide it from me but I dont know how to feel about it.

2007-03-13 17:06:03 · 3 answers · asked by WYOnurse 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this girl in my physics class, she sits in front of me and one seat to the right. Everything about her is sooo beautiful. Her face, her smooth tan skin, her body, her eyes everything. I'm 17, and its not really a confidence or insecurity issue at all. Its more a question of wether I should do or say something to her and let her know how I feel. Part of me really would love to let her know how I feel, to let her know how beautiful I think she is. Frankly I'm not even really scared of rejection either. Its more as if I enjoy how things are as they are already. Its kind of fun to have a secret crush that no body knows about. But at the same time, I so badly want to tell her how I feel. She's such a sweet girl too, so I know nothing bad would come of it. I honestly can't really grasp why I'm so hesitant. Any advice?

2007-03-13 17:05:21 · 4 answers · asked by pyroman162 2 in Singles & Dating

When a girl suddenly starts touching her hair [without looking at you] when you go near her. This girl at work was seated in the cafetaria and I went to the water dispenser which 'incidentally' was next to her table and as I bent down to take some water, she suddenly started stroking her hair. Means anything or am I just pushing my luck too much? Any other signs to look out for? I dont even know her name and she sits in a different floor. What excuse can I find to go talk to her? Accidentally bumping into her anywhere else in the office is a remote possibility. Girls, please help if you can.

2007-03-13 17:04:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OKay so Ive been crushing on this guy for awile now. Im not sure if he likes me back. My friends say hes showing signs, like as my friend Gabi put it, "The Way he looks at me." Or for example today I gave one of my girlfriends a hug today after school and hes like "Oh So you give HER a hug but not me?" So I hugged him. He also dumped his girlfriend today. Do you think he likes me?

2007-03-13 17:03:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First of all we didn’t like each other at all then one day I started to be nice to her then she started to be nice to me then one day she started to sing to she will replace words with my name and then we started to sing together then like a week later she put on her myspace she wants a boy who will sing for her. But the she put preferably while playing a guitar
But when we didn’t get a long we would sometimes talk on myspace but since we have been nice to each other she doesn’t write back to me and she dyed her hair and all she does is ask me how she looks and she asks a lot

2007-03-13 17:03:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i f u wud u r a cheating playa'

2007-03-13 17:03:31 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My Brother Is In A Crappy Relationship and I See Him Very Unhappy..I Secretly Wish They Broke Up, He Cheated On Her And Now The Girl He Cheat On His G.F. With Is Trying To Break Them Up? Is That Wrong As Well She Wants To Tell Her But He Keeps Lying

2007-03-13 17:03:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im referring to both parties..(couples)especially with men..

2007-03-13 17:03:23 · 4 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 17:01:59 · 25 answers · asked by sassyjo 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend called me tonight and has a delima and asked for my advice. I told her what I thought but my Mother-in -law diagreed with my opinion so now I am not sure if the advice I gave was the best. My friend will be calling me tomorrow to discuss this again before deciding. What would you do in her shoes.

Her cousin-in-law (her husband's first cousin) and her are good friends. I will call my friend Elisabeth and her cousin-in-law Mary to make this easier. Mary calls Elisabeth and tells her in confidence that her husband is using drugs and has become violant latley, Mary asked Elisabeth to keep this private although their families know of her husbands threat of sucide. He placed a gun in his mouth when she attempted to kick him out. Elisabeth calls me very upset about what Mary has told her and is worried for Mary's safty as well as Mary's small child. She did promise to keep Mary's secret but wonders if she should tell her husband since Mary is his cousin. I told her that Mary'

2007-03-13 17:01:30 · 17 answers · asked by Petra 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

we were only going out for little over a month and she broke up with me saying she is feeling overwelmed, and she is overwlemed with school and work and school sports but i want to be a positive influence and help her through it all.

2007-03-13 17:01:30 · 9 answers · asked by fisher 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 17:01:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 17:01:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 17:00:01 · 9 answers · asked by christian b 3 in Weddings

im pretty sure but i got to be more sure well my friend said "____ wants to go out with you" and she shook her head the no way

2007-03-13 16:59:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is this suggestive talk a way to flirt? Is he telling me that we're gonna start taking off items anytime soon? What would you guys men if you said that to a female?

2007-03-13 16:59:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating