we were only going out for little over a month and she broke up with me saying she is feeling overwelmed, and she is overwlemed with school and work and school sports but i want to be a positive influence and help her through it all.
2007-03-13 17:01:30 · 9 answers · asked by fisher 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She doesn't want to be with you. She has tried to spare your feelings by giving you other reasons. But the bottom line is, she doesn't want to date you and was smart enough to end it Live with it and move on. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?
She doesn't want you. Move on.
2007-03-13 17:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can give it another chance, if you really like this girl..you want to be careful not to stick with a girl who's going to break up with you every other month for various reasons. it's a tough call, that's a lot of stress. i was with a girl who wanted to break up with me just about once a month for about 8 months. Either she just wasn't sure about me or she missed her ex, or something bad happened to her and she just wanted a change. No matter what the case, almost everytime we fought, but at the end of every fight, i would always get back around to letting her know that no matter what she decided, i cared about her and would be there for her if she ever needed anything. She's now my wife. Good luck.
2007-03-14 00:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by ryanmcc84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could tell her that you know that she has a lot on he plate right now and if their is anything she needs help with you will do your best to help her.be supportive but understanding school can be a challange and she just may feel the need to devote a little more time to it at this time.
2007-03-14 00:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a lame excuse,If u really love the person no matter how busy you are you will find time for each other,anyhow be friends with her maybe she will realize how important you are to her,dont be too pushy...
Goodluck!
2007-03-14 00:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my girl friend said that same thing that she was overwhelmed but she didnt brake up with me we just took it a little slower then usual until she could get over what ever was troubling her
2007-03-14 00:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by Mickster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time.. She needs to be the initiator if you two are to get back together.. Be her friend..
2007-03-14 00:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go. She isn't really into you. If she really loves you, nothing will be really overwhelmed for her.
if she loves u, she would stay with u even she's busy, coz you'd be her support.
but she doesnt really need u
2007-03-14 00:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love them then yes take them back. Even though it seems like you dont like each other...inside you still love each other inside.....so express it. thats what i did and it worked
2007-03-14 00:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by myvanshoes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she needs time, then she needs time, u cant rush her to get everything figured out.Maybe she needs to do it herself, or maybe she just isnt as in to you as she thought
2007-03-14 00:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by babykaylee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋