Well Ive been dating someone for almost a year and a half and we are at colleges extremely far away me in CA him in TX well lately my parents (i live at home) are getting angry at the ammount of time i spend on the phone and internet to talk to him. Am i in the wrong for staying in a long distance relationship even though he comes down every other weekend?
2007-03-13 17:10:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is the amount of time you spend on the phone or computer with him costing your parents money? If the answer is no-that's good . If yes, figure out a way to keep in touch that isn't effecting their pocketbooks. You are the one who has to decide when far becomes too far. It is up to you and your boyfriend. If he is home every other weekend that has to be costing somebody some bucks too. Relax, pay a little bit more attention to your parents so that they will stop complaining about the time you are on the phone/computer and just enjoy your life. If and When you think it is too far you'll know it. Good luck -k-
2007-03-13 17:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by kbama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he comes over almost every weekend then what's the problem? Maybe you could get some kind of long distance calling deal thing on a cell phone and call him that way so your parents can't conplain
2007-03-14 00:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could buy yourself a phone card and use that, then your folks won't have to pay the bill. At least he is making an effort to come and see you every other weekend that shows he's dedicated. If they are paying for the internet bill then you could offer to pay a little of that, if that is their concern that it's costing them too much. Good luck
2007-03-14 00:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he comes down often enough, it isn't really long distance completely. lol. i mean that if you see him every two weeks, it's more likely to work out than if you see him too much or not at all. as to the phone and internet, how else are you supposed to talk? just keep it up;)
2007-03-14 00:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all really depends on how strongly you guys feel for each other and if both have not cheated in the time you been apart?, If i were in your shoes i would not take it seriously like i have fam in TX and i sorta like one of my cousins friends but i would never consider getting with him on a long term relationship but like i said it all really depends on the both of you.
2007-03-14 00:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by elizacandle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's too far. Odd counts. Your long distance relationship will not going to work out.
2007-03-14 00:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by alsear 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO. You have to follow your gutt feeling on this one and remember that this long distance relationship is only temporary and will only help better both of your futures.
2007-03-14 00:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by Star 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes and no... but if u are happy living that was then stay together and it wont be too far but if u feel it becomeing a problem then it should end
2007-03-14 00:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by MIMI LOVES WHO?? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There nothing wrong except high phone bills.
2007-03-14 00:15:06 · answer #9 · answered by Sean 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is young lady who is paying the bills?
2007-03-14 00:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by melbournewooferblue 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋