Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

They have been together for almost 2 years but it's the girl making the effort most of the time.

This is about my bestfriend and her ex boyfriend. I caught him staring at my friend while he was kissing his girlfriend. Yes his eyes were open while he was kissing her. And he always stares at her.

2007-03-13 16:49:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. a little beefy, has some muscle, along with a little gut

or

2. hes skinny, has some muscle, and a flat stomach.

2007-03-13 16:49:03 · 7 answers · asked by juju 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 16:49:02 · 1 answers · asked by doublepenetration@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

hey, i was just wondering what guys would date first. white girl with short blonde hair and blue eyes or asian girl with long dark brown hair brown eyes? both 5'5. who would you approach first?

2007-03-13 16:48:45 · 17 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Singles & Dating

so there's this guy that i've been "seeing" for the last 2 months, he recently started saying weird things about smoking weed and booze which i'm pretty sure are just jokes in person and on msn... so i kind of confronted him about it yesterday saying that his "reason for saying things like that is to make me scared of him".. he replied saying "then it's not succeeding if it was a reason"... and today, i messaged him and he sounded much more serious than normally... what does this mean? btw, i THINK he's interested in me, but i'm not sure...

2007-03-13 16:48:15 · 1 answers · asked by cutie 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy but I'm afraid to approach him. I'm not fond of stereotypes but sometimes you just have to use them, right?

Ok. This guy acts flirty with me, he'll do dumb things to make me laugh and he'll smile at me all the time. BUT, he seems gay to me. He's a very well dressed man, wears lip balm, and has kind of a congested/nasal voice. I also think he might just be very dorky. What do you guys/girls think?

(I know it's wrong to assume things about other people but it makes it easier to have a crush on him if I think he's gay.)

2007-03-13 16:47:46 · 16 answers · asked by april.may 3 in Singles & Dating

My son, his girlfriend and their son who'll be 1 on the 17th have stopped talking to me. They were sucking us dry for all they could. They were acting helpless and needy, so trying to be a good mom, I gave too much, and then was horribly taken advantage of. I provided them free rent, free childcare, free food and free everything. I tried to have a family meeting to see if we could work things out. They didn't understand that they had to help out, since they didn't make a lot of money at their jobs, it was my job to take care of everything so they could save their money. The final straw for me was when my van was stuck in the snow and I was digging myself out, while my son just stood there and watched me; I asked him why he didn't offer to help me and he said "you didn't help me, so why should I". They seem to be so self-centered and nothing or no-one else matters. His childhood wasn't the greatest, but I'm a good mom, how long do I have to pay for the past?

2007-03-13 16:47:27 · 11 answers · asked by minnie 2 in Family

My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years. 4 Months ago he proposed and we were planing on moving overseas. One night we had small argument and he left. The next day he told me he needed space/a break. It has been 5 weeks since then. We have given up the flat and moved into separate houses. He has been giving me mixed messages thru this time. When i have seen him lately he's cried & hugs & Kisses me. he says he doesnt want to be with me right now maybe later but i dont know how much later he means. He says he misses me heaps, still cares about me and needs time to himself. I have told him what i thought our problems were and what i want for us and that it will be different this time. I think his job wasnt helping and since the separation he has changed jobs. I dont understand how he can propose and then seemingly decide overnight that its not going to work. He wants to keep pictures of us and stay in touch. Im so confused and dont know what to think.

2007-03-13 16:46:52 · 9 answers · asked by 1 Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is this wise?
Consider the fact I am still not over hubbies afffair!
He sh@gged a russian without the use of condoms after 20yrs of marriage!
Was back in June when I found out, still feel the pain of it, still feel disrespected! still feel like sh1t!
I am I wise to give up my only soul mate?
Trying to move on and start a new ME!
What do you think?

2007-03-13 16:46:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok guys i like a girl i work with and want to let her know i like her. i have asked her to the cinema but because of her rag week in college she cant really. i work with her in a bar she is 19 and i only turned 21 she sends out all the right signals but im very shy and dont know how to respond to them. my last relationship was a longterm relationship and she broke up with me and it has really lowered my self confidence about how to approach a girl please help. kind regards

2007-03-13 16:46:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 16:45:54 · 7 answers · asked by prakash v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a boyfriend that i've been goin out with 4 bout 2 months now and this weekend i kinda cheated.i was flirtin with 2 other guys.doea that make me a slut,cheater,both,or neither?i really need 2 know

2007-03-13 16:45:01 · 13 answers · asked by janae_gaines 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl and in the beginning she totally liked me i think. She would flirt with me her eyes would glow shed act like a crazy drunk around me, she would fiddle with stuff. But now she acts all shy and slightly sirly with me. She still acts sort've the same but she now acts all flirty with another guy in my class. She never acted like that around him before. Has she stopped liking me? Does she like him now? What the f*** do I do?! Its driving me nuts!

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Shes beautiful. And it wasnt flirting it was deep conversations. And she would look me in the eyes really deeply. They would sparkle. And she was really sweet I dont know if it was just flirting. plus I caught her lookin at me and lookin away when i saw her the other day.


Oh yeah I am 14 and in 8th grade

2007-03-13 16:45:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 16:44:06 · 29 answers · asked by Mayonaise 6 in Singles & Dating

Well, the scenario goes like this...I met this guy at a gym club I attend.I wasn't really attracted to him, but he seemed really nice and comforting.Everytime I would see him, he's always come up to me and see how i was doing.I notice there was a ltlle flirting action going on, he gave me his cell number and when I called him he told me he found me to be VERY Attractive, and that if I ever wanted to hang out ot go to a movie call him, so i finally did three weeks ago..and all I can say is that he hasn't been positive.I told him that we should hang out, he tells me in a couple of weeks because he has no money, then i call hima few weeks later and he tells me that he's busy, maybe next week, I text message him to see if we were going out still, he tells me that some things came up, and he was suppossed to hang out with a few people, and he'll let me know he was free...so I'm feeling very rejected.,and I don't know why all the distance from him, when he intiated the "hanging out

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21 hours ago
He text messaged saying he was sorry..and his bad" Should I give him a chance or better yet should I call or text him back?

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36 minutes ago
Also..this guy has in the past called me and hung...and when I see him he's blushing and smiling..so I don't know what to think?

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5 days ago
First of all...I text messaged him a few times...probably once week i would say...and yes I am lonley

2007-03-13 16:44:04 · 11 answers · asked by Velinda S 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a man who has a woman friend that I have known for a few years. In the last few months, I have developed feelings for her. I want her to be more than just my friend. We are both single so there are no adultery issues. For those of you who have experienced such situations, what is a woman likely to do if a man confesses his feelings to her but she doesn't feel the same way? Does that usually end the friendship as well? Is being honest really the best policy or should the feelings remain hidden to avoid ruining the friendship? I really need a female point of view on this subject.

2007-03-13 16:43:35 · 3 answers · asked by iridealone 2 in Singles & Dating

If you'll be my girl

2007-03-13 16:43:02 · 4 answers · asked by I LOVE BEING A NORTHERN YANK! 1 in Friends

2007-03-13 16:41:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 16:41:41 · 9 answers · asked by tinamarie2897 1 in Singles & Dating

We had a mutual break up and he gave me the lets be friends song.... I dont love him but why do I want him to still call me if we are nothing.How do I get this feeling of anxiety for him to call me?

2007-03-13 16:41:37 · 5 answers · asked by chalebori 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 16:41:27 · 18 answers · asked by 20mayo19 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok... I recently rented a room outside... There was a total of 4 people (2 guy 2 girl, including) which occupies 3 room. A young couple is the owner of the house and stayed in the master-room. Me and the other girl stayed in the other 2 room individually. Sometimes I bring girl back for stayed (once a week) with the owner permission. Recently, the other girl, often knocked my room whenever I was in alone. She will wear with only shirt n no bra on, and with panties only. She will entered n just sit on my bed n telling me that me n my girl is making too much 'noise' whenever she came. Sometimes, she will just talk dirties with me like saying is it I'm good at it etc... However, when me n my girl 'did', we nvr make much noise at all. Was my room-mate just jealous over it? Or was there something wrong with her? Is she interested in me by talking to me about 'dirty' things?

2007-03-13 16:41:01 · 2 answers · asked by porridge0000 3 in Singles & Dating

I was raised to wait in the car until my dad or brother opened my door. Is this way old fashioned? Tonight I went out with a guy and I was just sitting in the car waiting for him to open my door ... and he yells "Are your gonna get out of the car?!" I felt like a total dork!

2007-03-13 16:40:27 · 29 answers · asked by divinity 2 in Singles & Dating

would you rather be with a sweet, nice, cute, girl?
or a sexy, naughty, bad girl?

2007-03-13 16:40:02 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Singles & Dating

This is a follow up question from my previous question, which can be found here:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvDTUj3QSPp28UO9BeiYBfPsy6IX?qid=20070305193121AA8CRBN

After telling her I don't think it would be a good idea to date any further if she and her boyfriend got back together, she replied things are still rough between the two of them and that she only considers him a "half" boyfriend

We've been spending more time together recently, and she's been more flirtatious with me. I continuously catch her staring at me during class. We'll be going out again after spring break.

In other words, she's certainly giving me a chance and I don't think she's leading me on.....or she just likes the idea of having multiple guys after her

My question is: how *likely* is it I will get with her? Is she genuinely interested in me, or does she consider me a safety net if things don't work out with her "half boyfriend?" Will she just put me on the back burner as the rebound man?

2007-03-13 16:38:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at my work place pretty much all the girls hit on me one way or the other.. i am in my early 20's and at my work place all the young girls and older ladies in the 30's hit on me a lot. i need help from you ladies... plz... sometimes i really get tired of this...

2007-03-13 16:37:37 · 9 answers · asked by Sagar 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

We were casually shopping and we were waiting in line to purchase our items. I notice suddendly that my boyfriend lit up when he saw the girl in front of us with her boyfriend. They waved hello and they seemed to be in disbelief. Keep in mind he told me who she was after we were walking outside the door. I was in shock due to the fact that I knew I was in front of the girl he fell deeply in love with. Anyway, you would think thats the end of the story. Instead he kept talking about how he couldn't believe he bumped into her for like about 30 minutes. Then he grabbed my hand and told me feel my heart it is beating. I was definitely hurt and crushed, I think he crossed the line. I already told him how I felt, and he says he thought he was being a good honest bf by telling me who she was and that I should understand that some feelings came back but he's not in love with her anymore. Am I taking this out of proportion, or do I have the right to be mad? Should I let it slide?

2007-03-13 16:36:27 · 19 answers · asked by Girlwoman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in love with this person. We are so in love with each other. But she had to leave for other country. It’s been a month since she left and I have been miserable ever since.

I wake up each morning really really sad, then I have to deal with people and tasks and things with that feeling and I am just so gloomy. 24/7..Evryday. From waking up to sleeping.
I cant help but to constantly think. Think and think. There are a lot of times I cry myself to sleep. I don’t know how this feeling will go away. I know this will be resolved once will be together. But as of now, we have to wait. We communicate everyday but still it is very hard. I try to be busy but it still doesn't helpt hat much..
I am really miserable.

2007-03-13 16:36:22 · 8 answers · asked by juno 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this guy,whos sweet,funny,cute,smart,and on top of it all his a freak lol.we flirt all night till dawn,but once we get to class we keep it on the DL,i dont want to push him into a relationship... but come on what is waiting for im right here i've given him so many signs,i dont think he's a tease because of the way he always wants to talk to me and hang with me and also the way that he defends me when any other guy try to talk to me in that way.

2007-03-13 16:35:29 · 3 answers · asked by mizzmiami 1 in Singles & Dating

Should married men and women sleep in different bedrooms? What are the advantages and disadvantages?

2007-03-13 16:35:14 · 18 answers · asked by tjk1701 2 in Marriage & Divorce