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Well, the scenario goes like this...I met this guy at a gym club I attend.I wasn't really attracted to him, but he seemed really nice and comforting.Everytime I would see him, he's always come up to me and see how i was doing.I notice there was a ltlle flirting action going on, he gave me his cell number and when I called him he told me he found me to be VERY Attractive, and that if I ever wanted to hang out ot go to a movie call him, so i finally did three weeks ago..and all I can say is that he hasn't been positive.I told him that we should hang out, he tells me in a couple of weeks because he has no money, then i call hima few weeks later and he tells me that he's busy, maybe next week, I text message him to see if we were going out still, he tells me that some things came up, and he was suppossed to hang out with a few people, and he'll let me know he was free...so I'm feeling very rejected.,and I don't know why all the distance from him, when he intiated the "hanging out

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21 hours ago
He text messaged saying he was sorry..and his bad" Should I give him a chance or better yet should I call or text him back?

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36 minutes ago
Also..this guy has in the past called me and hung...and when I see him he's blushing and smiling..so I don't know what to think?

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5 days ago
First of all...I text messaged him a few times...probably once week i would say...and yes I am lonley

2007-03-13 16:44:04 · 11 answers · asked by Velinda S 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Any I talked to him...over the phone..andI told him to call me..And he says he can't because he can't dial out..he text messaged me this by the way..and he told me to call him...so did and we talked for an hour and I find ultimately that he hasn;'t had a girlfriend in six years..haven't had sex in almost a year...lives with his parents and is 25 years old, hasn't finished college..and says that he works double shifts so that he doesn't go home..what do you think?

2007-03-13 16:47:02 · update #1

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Move on! He's a loser. He can't callout because he has free incoming calls and unlimited text messeges. If he wanted to make time he could meet you for coffee at Waffle House and then go your separate ways. If he wanted...there's a way. The guy I like comes over after midnight and stays an hour! Or comes over when he gets up in the morning!

2007-03-13 16:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

In terms of human evolution over few million years, male always tries to seduce as many females as possible. And this is mostly true for many animals and some primates. That's the reason guys love a lot of girls around. I think you're young (texting 24/7) and the hormones are top notch! Probably after the summer holiday he was hanging around with some other girls but he couldn't find what he was looking for. And now he returned to his safe port where he know it's safe to be. Try to be close but don't choke him. That might also be a reason for him to go away. Hope it helps.

2016-03-28 22:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ok...this guy at the gym really is giving you mixed messages and i think that you should move on. And I dont know about the history of this "guy in the past" but he seems that he actually cares about (from what i have read) and I think that this guy in the gym has gave already too many excuses..imagine what it would be like if you guys actually got together. Anyways, I would ditch the guy in the gym (just like he has done to you) and maybe rekindle the past!!!

2007-03-13 16:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1 0

the money thing: suggest to hang out at a park or something that cost no money

he's probably been trying to avoid and blushing you because he has embarrassed himself, try to make him feel more secure...guys have security issues

have you told him what you think of him?

he appears to want your attention, so try to keep him on the line, even if it's just with small talk and simply getting to know stupid little things about each other

show him that you are willing to give him attention


if he doesn't respond to these, he probably isn't interested anymore....or he's worried about his mother asking him questions

2007-03-13 16:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by lizzyhappy2007 2 · 0 0

Don't be so clingy! Let him do the chasing, and if not, then he's just a player who wanted to see how many girls he can score, without really being interested in him. Otherwise, he's just not worth your time. If he's interested, let him call you.

2007-03-13 16:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by Mcdreamy 2 · 1 0

I WOULD SAY THE POOR GUY IS BROKE AND HE DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO IF HE DON'T HAVE ANY MONEY IN HIS POCKET HE IS PROBABLY EMBRACED IF U LIKE HIM CONFRONT HIM MAYBE U COULD HELP HIM BUT THAT IS UP TO U IF U WANT A STUDENT OR NOT THEIR ARE UP SIDES TO THAT BUT THEIR ARE ALSO DOWN SIDES TO THAT GOOD LUCK I SAY GO FOR IT BEHIND EVERY GOOD MAN IS A GOOD WOMEN

2007-03-13 17:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by jutsao 1 · 0 0

leave it alone. some guys like that cat and mouse game. and for him it sounds like the chase is over. stop contacting him...its showing that you are desperate...and thats the last thing you want a man to think you are.

2007-03-13 16:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by shyningwaterfal3 2 · 1 0

That's immaturity. The signs are there to show. Lose the number and move on to someone who is worthier of your time.

2007-03-13 16:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by LT 3 · 1 0

you should problem leave him alone.sound like his confused all ready he probley was just flirting and that's as far as he wanted this to go you better off finding you self some one else.

2007-03-13 16:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by duderanchbabe 1 · 1 0

It sounds like he is playing games with you.. Put him on the spot.. Just ask him what is going on and see what his reply is..

2007-03-13 16:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 1 0

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