This is a follow up question from my previous question, which can be found here:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvDTUj3QSPp28UO9BeiYBfPsy6IX?qid=20070305193121AA8CRBN
After telling her I don't think it would be a good idea to date any further if she and her boyfriend got back together, she replied things are still rough between the two of them and that she only considers him a "half" boyfriend
We've been spending more time together recently, and she's been more flirtatious with me. I continuously catch her staring at me during class. We'll be going out again after spring break.
In other words, she's certainly giving me a chance and I don't think she's leading me on.....or she just likes the idea of having multiple guys after her
My question is: how *likely* is it I will get with her? Is she genuinely interested in me, or does she consider me a safety net if things don't work out with her "half boyfriend?" Will she just put me on the back burner as the rebound man?
2007-03-13 16:38:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey Buddy... How much more time do you want to waste on a girl who plays these kind of games???
"Half boyfriend"... give me a break!
Grow up, have some pride and move on to a girl with some maturity who wants to be with only you!
2007-03-13 16:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by my-kids-mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that the reason why we ask this type question is because we want others to support us in the decision that we want to make eventhough we know it is the wrong one. In which case, there is hope for you, yet.
This person has already shown you what they think of you and how they will continue to act. They just want you to buy into it so they can have the comfort of saying 'he knew because I showed him and he came back anyway'.
I guess I'm just trying to say that everyone has responsibility for their actions. That is to say that the person doing the 'bad' has to take that responsibility but you have to take the responsibility for allowing them to do the bad.
It's a hard lesson to learn but a good one to learning early.
By the way, what the heck is a 'half boyfriend'?
2007-03-13 16:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by Goodmomma1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she dosent know what she wants, and dosent care about anyone elses feelings.You cant just sit around and wait for her to get done withher other guys.If she really wanted you, she would have already broke it off all the way with her half boyfriend.
2007-03-13 16:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by babykaylee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like you just something on the back burner, i would
leave this one along. the fact that she has no respect for the
boyfriend is pretty bad. she consider him half. that nerve
and think about this if you did get with her, why dont you
think that in time you will be the other half. get my drift.
2007-03-13 16:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet you could do better than this girl. she sounds like a tease
2007-03-13 16:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by werjfhs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋