Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

O.K. I'm sorry. I know it was wrong. I don't know why I did it. I was angry at her and I wanted to get back at her. It was wrong. I was wrong. I'm so sorry. My wife is beautiful. She is so sweet. I've messed everything up. I know this has really hurt her. It's hurt her self esteem and I'm sorry. I hate the internet. So much/too much temptation. I lost control. I value women I want you to know that. I would never hurt anybody. I've got a daughter myself and I hate myself that I lusted after women that are half my age. I can't help it. I've put it behind me and gotten myself under control and am starting to come out of depression (I've lost 50 lb). She thinks I've had an affair. I have not, would not, never, ever. I understand her distrust. I don't know how to communicate that I would never do that. Women, I'm sorry. I know there are going to be people that yell "Pervert" but I'm not. I've stopped. I'm no predator. I'm just a man (not a perfect man). How do I convince my wife?

2007-03-13 16:11:55 · 19 answers · asked by bigdaddy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend and i have known her for almost 2 years.. we were best friends last year.. always around eachother and always together. But this year shes changing.. she makes stuff up and changes herself to get attention from different people. I dont tell her all i used to ne more. i dont feel like i can trust her. She hates my bf and doesnt respect me or him when we hang out. I cant stand to hang around her. it seems like her life is a big lie and all she wants is attention....
what should i do?

2007-03-13 16:11:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok, im NOT rich but, all the girls i have dated, and at school and stuff, girls and some guys run up to me askin for money for lunch, or just to have. i give it because we lost a fmaily memeber adn we have a little bit of money now but ppl dont kno that, i just moved her in May, but the kids at school think im rich because of my car and house and how i dress, now im not stuck up at all. i hang out with EVERYONE, i love being social. but anyway if i say im broke or i dont have it they think im lying and say why u actin like this. i just dont wanna keep throwing it away, im tired of buying gucci for girlfriends and gas for friends. and ideas, on how to say im borek, without mentionin my family members death or wthout makin one mad and losing friends. i hate losing friends, like i said i kno everyone in my school, i love being social, but buying designer clothes for g/f's and gas for half the school, its gettin old.

2007-03-13 16:11:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i know most straight guys r down wit dating or being in relationships wit bi-girl. i ve never heard a girl talk bout it

2007-03-13 16:10:06 · 14 answers · asked by araw207 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been teased and bullied since pre-K and Frankly I'm tired of talking 2 adults.I cant get people to leave me alone. It's gone straight from rumors to rocks thrown @ me. I'm not ugly and im not dumb. But noone can seem to get off my case. If I hear one more adult tell me to just ignore them I'm gonna get real Violent real fast. I'm not really all that violent but after a while things start building up and if some one even looks @ me wrong then all that anger and frustration comes pouring out on the stupid kid who rubbed me the wrong way @ the wrong time. Kids just love 2 get me about my books b/c I read ALL THE TIME! They throw things @ me & then leave me wondering who did it. I'm a Christian so im trying realy hard to be an example but I can't be an example but u cant be an example if p'pul wont get off my back long enough 2 see that I'm being 1! How do I get them 2 leave me alone!!!!?

2007-03-13 16:09:30 · 8 answers · asked by Jamie M 2 in Friends

i have always considered him as my soulmate and still have some feelings for him but not the same as for my husband....

2007-03-13 16:09:29 · 39 answers · asked by smooches 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i am 13 and i am saving my money for somthing i really need well my mom said i have to buy it my self well i have to save alot of money i have asked this question be for but people only give me web site can somebody give me a really good idea for making money for a 13 year old please i beg u

2007-03-13 16:08:54 · 4 answers · asked by lilwhiteboy93@yahoo.com 2 in Friends

What's your consideration to have a man for a long term relationship- not just a short one.

2007-03-13 16:08:33 · 22 answers · asked by Nadia Miller 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this guy and i flirt and he flirts back but i need a new way to flirt so he can really notice me. what do you do when u flirt???

2007-03-13 16:08:33 · 9 answers · asked by amlbaf 1 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my gf went through a period where we would go out on our own, i dont have a problem with that but i found out that her friend has taken guys or met up with guy friends so my thing is why dont she take me if there are guys? next (i know )but i went through her cell bill and saw a number i called (i know) and it was a guy, i asked her if she had met anyone she said no, i tell her well i called and she admitted but never had intentions just needed attention or talk. then on yahoo she told an old guy friend that she was single oh and the phone guy too. i really trust her and believe she didnt cheat or wont and still be with me, i was drunk once and kissed a girl. then she moved out for the weekend and got drunk and i again saw her bill and called a number that she called at 3 am it was a guy, but the number didnt show up again and it was only a minute long. so please help me i still think she would never cheat but just liked the attention, we still live togther and all is well.

2007-03-13 16:08:30 · 8 answers · asked by joeymozzer 1 in Singles & Dating

How do i tell my bf of 3 years that i'm in love with someone else?? I dont mean to hurt him, but it just happened.

2007-03-13 16:08:21 · 8 answers · asked by yolyr1012 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with this girl for years, and she wants to charge me for doing my hair. I have paid her in the past, but now she lives a great distance away from me. The expectation is that I am now going to travel and pay her for styling my hair. I could go to a (neighborhood/closer) salon, and pay amost the same price for the same service. I also have people offering to do my hair (for free), but do not want to break my loyalty to my friend...What to do??

2007-03-13 16:08:11 · 5 answers · asked by tamarastarr2000 1 in Friends

Whenever we happen to be in the same place, walking in the same direction, or happen to coincedentally walk next to eachother or he has just gotten close to me, he RUNS AWAY. I mean after we broke up we agreed to be friends but stuff happened and we didn't talk for a year and a half. This year though, after all these years, we have started talking (hi and how are you).. I don't understand why he can't be nice and just say something when stuff like this happens in school, you know what I mean? He just automatically starts walking faster and faster until he is front of me and has left me faaaaaaarr behind. He also seems a little nervous when this happens. By the way, I am NOT the one saying "hi" or "how are you" to him, HE IS. That's when he is walking in the OPPOSITE direction from me though. What is GOING ON? Please..someone tell me! Thanks

By the way he is ALWAYS staring at me and he blushes when IF we ever talk, he gets nervous around me and is always checking me out as well.

2007-03-13 16:07:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A joke on you that is? I have many years ago. How do you get rid of the thought. I am married now for 17 years and still hurts. Hubby is great. But first love (so called first love) I like to crush him like he had crushed me. Anyone else.

2007-03-13 16:06:10 · 4 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Singles & Dating

And start to age, do they start to lose attraction for one another? Do they still feel attracted to their wife/ husband even when their super wrinkly? How is their sex life.

2007-03-13 16:05:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why do i feel so nervous and scared in my heart when ever he dosent pick up his phone.

2007-03-13 16:05:23 · 11 answers · asked by Aloneeyes 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy at school that I like (of course) I dunno if he likes me or not, but he seems shy around me, and looks away when I pass him going into my next class. When I broke something on the table, he helped me a bit. I need to know. Though it seems he talks to my friend a lot, he teases her, makes fun of her, jokes like that, with little arguements between them. Does that mean he likes her? Not me?

2007-03-13 16:04:45 · 12 answers · asked by ☆Danielle☆ 3 in Singles & Dating

so i started to like someone and he is really shy and i'm not shy at all i'm super happy and will talk to random people in lines or on the street but for some reason i cant talk to him i'm too scared that he wont like me but my friend who is friends with him said that he would like me and everyone so what do i do... he's so adorable and i dont just go for looks but personality and how they treat me...i'm the kind of girl that is liked but not so much asked out i'm really laid back too and i have a sense of humor and play lacrosse...help please what do you think i should do?

2007-03-13 16:04:42 · 5 answers · asked by jc 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

just like me

2007-03-13 16:04:39 · 13 answers · asked by Dee 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 16:04:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wanted to take her to a rascal flatts concert as she loves them but i have noticed and heard that they are not touring in CA this summer. Celine Dion is only in Vegas and i dont have the means to get there. She has never been to a concert and i was looking forward to taker her to one until now. Any new ideas...? Anything at all?

2007-03-13 16:03:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is 14 yrs older than me and i am 24 going on 25.He has some health issues he had a heart attack and was diagnosed with lung cancer but wont tell me know anything more.I am worried about him and his ever strange behavior acting like teenager again.His younger brother lives with us he is 26 yrs old but still acts like a teenager as well. He is an okay guy and owns 4 Liqueur stores so he pays rent. I am almost 4 months pregnant and my brother-in-law though a jerk at times talks to me and pays attention more than my own hubby.I feel so guilty for confiding in him about things but my own hubby has taken to just ignoring me?

2007-03-13 16:02:52 · 18 answers · asked by Melrose G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 12 and my parents are getting a divorce. My dad told me today...but he hasn't let my mum know yet. I tried to talk to my dad to reconsider but he's made his choice. How do I deal with the upcoming divorce?!

2007-03-13 16:02:12 · 4 answers · asked by Gwen L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 16:02:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's a great friend but people at school often tease her. Also, she often wears shirt that are too tight for her and people sometimes laugh at her. She's really sensitive and I feel really bad for her. What can I do to help?

2007-03-13 16:02:01 · 17 answers · asked by Julia 1 in Friends

Ok, last nite I told my boyfriend i did'nt want to have sex i told him i did'nt think i was ready(Plus it Hurts and I'm Scared).he acted really bad about it he did'nt even want to talk and did'nt tell me he loved like he usaully does even when he is mad. So all day today I was thinking we may break up i was being ready for that,but when he called he did'nt say anything about it,nothing.He kept telling me he loved me and that he missed me and wanted to see me. What does this mean? maybe he did'nt want to lose my love so he will wait, maybe he just did'nt know what to say. but i just want to add that when I saw how noncaring he was with me telling him somthing like that and all he could think about was him made me wonder.

2007-03-13 16:01:41 · 16 answers · asked by Lovely cryz 2 in Singles & Dating

they are all in grade 8 and for the last few weeks have been making my life a living hell because they think i stole their boyfrinds. i cant take it anymore.i have my own boyfriend and dont need theirs.
all i need is something to say to make them know that i dont wanna bother with them anymore

2007-03-13 16:01:35 · 3 answers · asked by rebecca 1 in Friends

OK there's a girl in school in p.e she thinks she can boss people around im telling you this gurl is realy tough Do u think ill get popular by standing up to this BITC*H AND FIGHTING HER?

2007-03-13 16:01:07 · 21 answers · asked by Ricanna v 1 in Friends

whats wrong with brunettes?

2007-03-13 16:00:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it odd for a female to date a guy 5 years younger?

2007-03-13 16:00:40 · 7 answers · asked by Navulam 3 in Singles & Dating