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ok so i like this guy and i flirt and he flirts back but i need a new way to flirt so he can really notice me. what do you do when u flirt???

2007-03-13 16:08:33 · 9 answers · asked by amlbaf 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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What style a woman chooses to flirt is a matter of personality, individual preference, and cultural background.

While it sounds like a cliché, but a picture is worth a thousand words. However, you must be able to read and interpret a picture before you can draw any meaningful conclusions and act upon them. Remember that everyone is "communicating" even without a single word being uttered. So if we are smart to read one's body language, we can get a good understanding of what is going on in that person's mind. Or in other words, that information is powerful.
While being able to read and interpret body language comes in handy in all aspects of life, it is particularly useful in romance, seduction, and relationships.

This comes with some degree of risk because you might freak out your date if he is the non-adventurous type. If he recoils in horror, you will need to try with some other guy, but if not, he will have a good laugh and never forget to call you back the next day. Some of the other suggestions that I have heard are not to wear a critical item of clothing (no blouse under a jacket, no underwear, etc.), kiss him deeper than he expects, or anything else that you can think of that will leave a mark.

A lot of men have the misconception that women talk a lot; you need to make sure that you are listening enough. You will need to strike a delicate balance here and watch carefully what kind of a man he is. Many men do not talk much and with them, you will not only need to do a lot of talking but also make them talk. You can start off by picking a topic that you like and then ask them small questions. This is truly an art and you must try to get good at it. Once you get a simple answer, you will need to ask follow-up questions to make him talk. For example, if his one-word answer to "So what did you play in college?" is Hockey, ask more about his team, what position did he play at, which tournaments did he participate in, where all did he travel, etc. You can include your comments and stories in between so that it does not come across as an interrogation. The ultimate goal here is to get him to think, "Oh she really is so interested in ME," when you part at the end of the date.

2007-03-13 16:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by tinklefaerie88 3 · 0 0

Hand him a note right before you go your separate ways. Have it say, "Meet me after school by the front doors". You can make the meeting spot ANYwhere you want.

If he really likes you, he'll show up.

When he does, ask him if he would like to go somewhere with you. You all could go grab a burger or go to the mall or a park. Bowling? Set up a time and day.

If that seems too out there, try this.

When talking to him, reach out and touch his hand or arm. Start getting touchy with him.
Later on, when you're sitting next to him, lean over him to get your purse and put your hand(to steady yourself) on his thigh.

That one gets guys every time! He'll be thinking about that for days! I promise.

Another trick I use. If the two of you start teasing each other, wait til he sits down. As soon as he sits down, sit in his lap.
That's another one that guys love. That really sends the message home and they appreciate it!

2007-03-13 16:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by Molly 6 · 0 0

He's flirting with you so he is noticing you. Don't try and push it to the limit, then it won't be fun anymore.

2007-03-13 16:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by Julian 6 · 0 0

Im a guy and when i flirt with my girl, I always tickle her. Its the best.

2007-03-13 16:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just be honest with this guy and tell him that you like him. Tell him you wanna try and take things to a different level. If he wants to, then things will definately move forward.

2007-03-13 16:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by BrandyB 2 · 0 0

Babe ,let me tell ya what! This guy is shy ! What you need to do is talk to him,invite him to a local coffee / icecream shop after school for a one on one talk

2007-03-13 16:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

What a guy is attracted to is ZERO Drama .... Be drama free and you will be fine !

2007-03-13 16:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by ValleyR 7 · 0 0

WINK AT HIM ..SAY HEY CUTIE GEEZ AM I TIRED , MAYBE THAT IS CAUSE YOU HAVE BEEN RUNNING THROUGH MY MIND ALL NIGHT LONG !

2007-03-13 16:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by Swm 39 4 Younger Swf Forever 4 · 0 0

who cares but you should like me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-13 16:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by G-Uniter 4 · 0 0

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