ok, im NOT rich but, all the girls i have dated, and at school and stuff, girls and some guys run up to me askin for money for lunch, or just to have. i give it because we lost a fmaily memeber adn we have a little bit of money now but ppl dont kno that, i just moved her in May, but the kids at school think im rich because of my car and house and how i dress, now im not stuck up at all. i hang out with EVERYONE, i love being social. but anyway if i say im broke or i dont have it they think im lying and say why u actin like this. i just dont wanna keep throwing it away, im tired of buying gucci for girlfriends and gas for friends. and ideas, on how to say im borek, without mentionin my family members death or wthout makin one mad and losing friends. i hate losing friends, like i said i kno everyone in my school, i love being social, but buying designer clothes for g/f's and gas for half the school, its gettin old.
2007-03-13 16:11:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
friends like you for who you are, not your money.
dont fret.
2007-03-13 16:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Atlas 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand. The best way is to tell it off that you do not have extra money to spend as now you need to use for something else. May be, says, a saving plan or whatever that you could come out with that you need to spend lots of money and make them know about it. So they'll know that you are broke. And even if they don't ask money, cleverly put words would make known that you are using money on that particular item and you are broke. The message will carry across and then you'll know who were your real friends and who were not.
2007-03-13 23:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by Cool Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem kinda and really if these people are using you for your money think about it when you like move or something and you really dont have money and than u lose friends cuz your not "rich' and what I do is really say I left it somewhere and dont tell them where or u left your money at home belive me it works and for your girlfriends if they ask why dont u say something like what can't u dress your slef or something well in a nicer way though
2007-03-13 23:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends come and go, but true stay by your side no matter what. Put it like this, just tell them you can't keep throwing away money like it is just water. You will help out when you know for a fact that someone really needs help. I Know these people have moms and dads or whoever to go to for money, so just do what you have to do, or you will be the one broke.
2007-03-13 23:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by tendertouch1117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were the one throwing around the money, and these are the consequences! Take this as a lesson. Your inheritance won't last long if you waste it. You must be honest with your friends and let them know you ran out of cash, and just be yourself. Soon enough you will find out who your true buds are and who just likes the cash.
2007-03-13 23:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
anyone that begs money or expensive gifts off you are not your friends they are simply using you.
Tell these people no, that your funds have run out and see who hangs around. Those are the people that are your friends.
2007-03-13 23:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man just be urself and u dont have to buy anybody anything,if they were u true friends then they wouldnt constantly be askin for money anyways,just look back and see who u true friends are.
2007-03-13 23:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by sasha h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them "Hey, I'm sorry, but for unmentioned reasons, I can't give you no more money. I'm sorry."
2007-03-13 23:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't do it!
2007-03-13 23:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by Christina H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋