OK there's a girl in school in p.e she thinks she can boss people around im telling you this gurl is realy tough Do u think ill get popular by standing up to this BITC*H AND FIGHTING HER?
2007-03-13 16:01:07 · 21 answers · asked by Ricanna v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How does detention or suspension sound? Stop waisting your time on stupidity. Go to school to get your diploma not look for trouble.
2007-03-13 16:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by ~§uηƒℓσబєr§~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, considering that I'm sitting miles and miles away from you, don't know who you are, and only know your situation, here's what I've got to say. There are fights going on constantly in my school. Girls fighting their friends for stupid reasons, guys fighting for pride and respect, your typical stuff. The only common thing there is that each and every fighter has been suspended and instead of gaining respect, they lose it from everybody .. teachers, other students, friends. Relationships have been lost over fights because the respect between the two people has disappeared. So, if I were in your shoes, I'd try to find some other way to deal with it. Fighting with won't solve anything .. as the Kindergarten rule goes. But, as I said, I really don't have any control over what you do. I mean, I've never met you. =P GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-13 23:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by Abstract Emotions. <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Verbally fighting is the BEST thing you can do. Better if you do it in a calm voice. This will confuse her.
Girls like this are NOT tough. It's all talk once you hold your ground NO MATTER WHAT. Even if you lose it in a moment and can't think of what to say, KEEP PERFECT EYE CONTACT and think of what to say while doing it. Best thing is to ignore her later to show her that she needs to works for your attention.
I can tell you are probably attracted to her, so I'm saying don't be surprised if she wants you later when you do this.
Good luck,
Franklin
2007-03-13 23:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!!
No!!!! You will get popular if you stand up as yourself and respect yourself. Something that obviously she doesn't know who to do!!!!
By being proper, by NOT being like her, by doing the right thing, by ignoring , her rudeness, her lack of femininity, you will crush her so far down to the ground, that when you finish with her she will NOT only be destroyed, but you would gain the true crown of how to be a real proper, respectful girl.
Of course this would be harder to do rather than to fight her, but they will be talking about the way you did for years to come. You will be the true inspiration to others, people will be looking up to you!!!
And what a way to defeat someone that is!!!
GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE
A.Z.
2007-03-13 23:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may not get popular, but you will gain respect and the girl may not bully anymore, most bullies look for weak people to push around. fight back and even if you loose at least you have stuck up for yourself, and the next time she will see you and probably look for the next girl to boss around. If you do choose fight her, do it, don't sit there and say hit me first, cause she may and you may not get back up. and remember every time you fight, you take the chance of getting hurt or worse, so think before you react!
2007-03-13 23:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Hard & Thick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has not touched you.. You do not need to physically touch her.. Now if she has violated "your personal space", then you have a right to defend your self. The popular part will just be a bonus. But remember, fighting someone is never the right answer.
2007-03-13 23:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure that you'll get popular, but you will get attention and the spotlight. Especially if you win.
I wouldn't fight her unless you can win though. If you lose, you'll get the wrong kind of attention.
2007-03-14 20:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by jennyYM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like another said you will get expelled, but doing this would make you no better than she is, she thinks this is cool and is probably doing it to show off, dont stup to her level, keep your pride and stay in school and one day she will get what is coming to her just not by you.
2007-03-13 23:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by sla571963 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't!!!!! fight her... violence never solves anything. instead just go up to her and ask to talk to her in private and tell her how you feel about her actions.(in a calm and considerate way). if she starts to be all the things you hate and gets angry, stay calm and talk resonably. if she "commands" you to something just be like no and laugh at her. if she gets laughed at usually people dont have a snappy comeback for laughter at them for trying to be in control. i dont really know the situation but usually staying calm or just laughing when she gives you a command(stay happy and courteous thou or else ur just stooping to her level by fighting her), usually those tactics have worked for my favor.
2007-03-13 23:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by unirider0909 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you'll get from that is in trouble with the school and your parents along with possible injuries. It will not change her attitude at all and really won't win you any popularity contests.
2007-03-13 23:04:55 · answer #10 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋