ok me and my gf went through a period where we would go out on our own, i dont have a problem with that but i found out that her friend has taken guys or met up with guy friends so my thing is why dont she take me if there are guys? next (i know )but i went through her cell bill and saw a number i called (i know) and it was a guy, i asked her if she had met anyone she said no, i tell her well i called and she admitted but never had intentions just needed attention or talk. then on yahoo she told an old guy friend that she was single oh and the phone guy too. i really trust her and believe she didnt cheat or wont and still be with me, i was drunk once and kissed a girl. then she moved out for the weekend and got drunk and i again saw her bill and called a number that she called at 3 am it was a guy, but the number didnt show up again and it was only a minute long. so please help me i still think she would never cheat but just liked the attention, we still live togther and all is well.
2007-03-13 16:08:30 · 8 answers · asked by joeymozzer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like all is going in a normal dysfunctional relationship kinda way... If you were drunk once and kissed a girl I can't see nothing wrong with her phone calls and such. Phone sex isn't any more cheating than kissing another person when you are drunk... Really I think you two need to have a frank discussion ( as adults with open minds) and decide what is acceptable in your relationship and what is not, and then stick with it or drop the relationship.
2007-03-13 16:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In any relationship you need trust. In this case, you may not trust your girlfriend so much and that she maybe lying to you too. The fact is this: telling the truth is not easy and she may not want you to misunderstand her actions. So if I were you, I would sit down with her and have a serious talk about your friendship and the course of direction it is taking into. Important thing is that you need to be open and do not judge each other. Remember this, everyone has the right to choose so let them be.
2007-03-13 16:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup u cheated on your gf!u ought to tell her and she or he ought to unload u!..umm additionally u cant draw close with the chick like pass to the action pictures using fact for my section youre premier the different chick on...in case you tell ur gf and she or he doesnt pass away u thats gonna be fairly problematical for her and is gonna in all probability turn her right into a loopy gf and insecure cuz you notice the grl in college plenty..its humorous the type you're making the kiss sound like no huge deal whilst it needless to say is!exceedingly using fact it grow to be like 5mins long and you acquire a *****!!i think undesirable on your gf!:/ u should not be along with her if u dont plan to be a hundred% dedicated and straightforward!..stable luck!:)
2016-09-30 21:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once went through something like that. Going through her stuff is not going to help, because shell feel that you don't trust her and if she's anything like me, that won't be good. If you truly trust her, then trust her. Don't go through her stuff. If you're going through her stuff then obviously you don't trust her to a certain degree and you need to talk to her about that. All a REAL relationship has is honesty and trust. remember that.
2007-03-13 16:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well see thats where you messed up...the part where you said "you got drunk and kissed a girl"....thats why she's probably doin whats she's doin is cause she's confused.you kissing a girl is a big thing.shes goin out with the girls having fun doesnt mean she's out cheating.but you never know.you messsed up first.but anyways...you probably dont give her the attention she wants.so therefor she's looking for it else where.
2007-03-13 16:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by Itsjustme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obvously she cheated on you if you trust her its good but she lied to you and she doesnt trust youd believe her can you say break up?
2007-03-13 16:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by Leet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop her, i know it's hard because you live together finding a place and all that... still i think it best for you
2007-03-13 16:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is cheating but u should always confirm it before u confront her
2007-03-13 16:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋