How do i tell my bf of 3 years that i'm in love with someone else?? I dont mean to hurt him, but it just happened.
2007-03-13 16:08:21 · 8 answers · asked by yolyr1012 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you fell out of love with him. Just be glad you didn't marry him. don't tell him you fell in love with someone else. tell him your feelings for him have changed and it isn't good to prolong a lie. tell him you are sorry and are grateful that he was in your life. it is going to suck really bad for him, there is nothing you can do for him at this point. who knows, he might have somebody on the side also
2007-03-13 16:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by G&L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat around the bush. It's gonna be hard. yeah, but trust me, you DON'T need to pretend u like him.. bcuz it will still show that it's not true. ppl come and go in your life. he wasn't "the one" and he should respect that. you can't MAKE yourself love him and u can't MAKE yourself NOT love the guy you fell for. Maybe your bf isn't the same as he used to be.. something turned you off. Sit him down, be honest and straight up. The longer it takes the more it's gonna hurt him. Don't put on an act for him or anyone else. Good luck.
2007-03-13 23:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just sit him down and tell him. i know its going to be hard for you to tell him and it's going to be hard for him to hear, but if you love someone else something has to be done. It's better to do it sooner rather than later; the longer you wait, the worse it'll be. he'll be hurt and probably somewhat mad, but if he really loves you and cares about you he'll just want to see you happy. You can't help who you fall in love with, and if you really love this other person then you should go for it. Good Luck!
2007-03-13 23:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you want to be friends and that you are in love with someone else.
2007-03-13 23:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to do it, because he will be hurt and angry, but just be honest and tell him you've fallen out of love with him. I don't know if I would push your new boyfriend in his face, though. Just be honest, it's the best poilcy! Good Luck!
2007-03-13 23:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit him down in a neutral place and just tell him the truth. In the end it is better to let him know now because the longer you stay with him and you are not happy, things will get "ugly" if you are not happy, it will show.
2007-03-13 23:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to do that. But you must find a way to tell asap. Other wise you are just wasting his time and life is too short for that. let him get over it and move on.
2007-03-13 23:12:23 · answer #7 · answered by Broken 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just be honest. Sit her down and tell her that the spark is no longer their and tell her you should still be friends.(dont forget a hug).She probably feels the same way about you.Good luck!=D
2007-03-13 23:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋