I have this friend and i have known her for almost 2 years.. we were best friends last year.. always around eachother and always together. But this year shes changing.. she makes stuff up and changes herself to get attention from different people. I dont tell her all i used to ne more. i dont feel like i can trust her. She hates my bf and doesnt respect me or him when we hang out. I cant stand to hang around her. it seems like her life is a big lie and all she wants is attention....
what should i do?
2007-03-13 16:11:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My suggestion is to give her space, it aint right for her to mistreat you or your boyfriend especially for attention, i suggest leaving her alone and tell her how you feel, then she can come back to you when shes ready dont stress over it.
2007-03-13 16:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by tripp j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People grow apart every day .Now it's up to you to decide weather you want to keep it that way or if you want this person in your life.I bet this stems from a little jealousy .Try talkin to her about her sudden change of attitude ,explain to her that you care for your man and would appreciate some respect when it comes to him.I think that she's feeling left out.And she obviously has self esteem issues ,she can't just be herself she feels she needs to be someone else in order to fit in.It's sad really ! But after you have a talk with her you'll see more clearly her way of thinking and then you can make a final decision on weather or not to continue the friendship.
Good Luck !!! :)
2007-03-13 23:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by tammie1ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone....let her do what she is doing and let her fall into the whole that she is makin for herself cuz in the end she is the one who is gonna regeret it not u u have ur bf and u can find a new friend so forget about her she wil come back eventualy runnin back to u wantin u back after she has made her self look like a fool so let her be and get urself a new friend who deserves u and will respect u
2007-03-13 23:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont like being around her than you shouldnt be her friend, sounds like she does a lot of messed up things. Before you completely shut her out of your life, you should talk to her about it. If she refuses to change, than just let her be. Atleast you tried :)!
Good luck!
2007-03-13 23:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by princessamber_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try ignoring her when she those talk to u I bet in about 1-3 weeks she will come back
2007-03-13 23:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A best friend is supposed to bet there with you no matter what. She isnt supposed to lie to you. If you feel like you've lost that connection with her than maybe its time to let it go.
2007-03-13 23:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by bellabell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with her perhaps. She might have problems with her attitude and maybe she has experienced something that made her change her way of thinking. Be sincere when talk ing to her and she might see your point.
2007-03-13 23:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you should. Real friends accept you for who you are, not what you are and they don't do the kind of things she's doing to you. Just cut it off now before it may get worse.
2007-03-13 23:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not be her friend anymore.why be her friend if she doesnt respect you and your friends.you dont need people like her.if she wants attention then let her get it somewhere else.dont be the one to give it to her.just dont call her and if she tries to call you and stuff just ignore her.
2007-03-13 23:23:15 · answer #9 · answered by Itsjustme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what she is do and that you don't like it and if she still want more attention then give her some space to work it out.
2007-03-13 23:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by prue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋