Ok, last nite I told my boyfriend i did'nt want to have sex i told him i did'nt think i was ready(Plus it Hurts and I'm Scared).he acted really bad about it he did'nt even want to talk and did'nt tell me he loved like he usaully does even when he is mad. So all day today I was thinking we may break up i was being ready for that,but when he called he did'nt say anything about it,nothing.He kept telling me he loved me and that he missed me and wanted to see me. What does this mean? maybe he did'nt want to lose my love so he will wait, maybe he just did'nt know what to say. but i just want to add that when I saw how noncaring he was with me telling him somthing like that and all he could think about was him made me wonder.
2007-03-13 16:01:41 · 16 answers · asked by Lovely cryz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing to be scared of.
it hurts but feels good. after you hurt the first time it will only feel great other times.
no one starts off with just sex.
get into the mood :)
2007-03-13 16:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by sadlonelylife 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hard to say... It is hard for most men to accept that women want to wait. The fact that he still wants to be with you makes it seem like he really does Love you and will wait, even though he's disappointed. Men do have a tendency to equate real Love with a need to have physical Love. They can have physical Love without real Love but if there is real love they often expect the physical. The important thing is to do what is right for you. Don't let him pressure you into it. Go farther when you fel it is right for you. Not before. If he truely Loves you he will wait. If he doesn't it will be hard to lose him, but it is for the best. If he leaves because of it you are better with someone who will wait for you....
2007-03-13 23:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's frustrated that you are not having sex with him and it is getting to him because he feels insecure around his friends for having a girlfriend that won't "put out." I'm sorry if this sounds harsh but in my experience it's the truth. Think about how much he means to you and how much you care about him. Is your yahoo chat name "had to hear his voice?" That sounds rather serious, so I would consider communicating with him and seeing what his future plans are with his life and most importantly with you. Stay in there and hold out if you think that is right, and try and see things on his level while explaining yourself so he can see your level.
2007-03-13 23:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by Julian 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was just sexually frustrated and was really contemplating on it and when you did not want to he got upset and did not really want to be bothered with you, it does not necessarily mean that he does not want to be with you, however I would keep a watchful eye because if he does not get it from you he might look elsewhere.
2007-03-13 23:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds to me like he is gonna try everything he can to have sex with you. Any guys thinks that if he tells a girl he loves her then she will give in and have sex with him. If he acted like a total *** when you told him you weren't ready, well you really need to think about what you really mean to him and what he means to you. Like I said, he is gonna do anything he can to get you to sleep with him.
2007-03-13 23:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by BrandyB 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
okay well if he dont pressue you anymore and stops getting mad about it than stick with him and wait as long as you need too. remember it is something to be careful with and somthing you can never get back. but if he acts a fool agian and trys to pressure you agian kick his a** to tha curb. you dont need him anyways. find someone that will respect you for you and your choices
2007-03-13 23:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by mandy l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... he got really upset when you said you wasnt ready...well to me he could be tellin you that he love you to get what he was tryin to get. to get mad at you for protectin and not ready to give your temple(your body) to him he got upset...well that night he wasnt thinkin but then again he could call and said i love you to make you feel guilty like maybe he do love me and maybe i should but his attitude shouldnt got like that.
well in conclusion hold your temple sex can wait and he can wait until your ready if he cant then he has a issue that he needs to deal with but do whats best for you.
2007-03-13 23:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by chocolatedrop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves he will eventually understand that your not ready.Be considerate because to him as well because if he loves you it's a strain on him nothing being w/ on an intimate level.
2007-03-15 15:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by Y ask ME! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready to have sex dont be PRESSURED IN TO DOING IT its your personal decision. if your man doesnt understand y not.... and is pressuring you or gets mad when you say no mayb hez not worth it...
2007-03-13 23:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by Mennell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres better men out there. he should have respected you and not got mad. he could be doing that so you will give in to him. i would talk jto him and tell him that it bothered you dont let him get away with treating you that way. let it be know that he hurt you. theres guys out there that will respect your wishes.
2007-03-13 23:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋