Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

Not like a story nobody else has heard but I would love some opinions and help.
So, yeah...I'll lay it out pretty straight. My xboyfriend cheats on me then dumps me a month later. Says he still wanted to be friends and everything and wants things to be "how it used to be" before we really started dating...Which was pretty much flirting. So, I tell him I want some time for myself and haven't called him back since. So, yesterday morning he gives me a call saying how he misses me and wants to be friends. Also, how he thinks I'm being selfish because I haven't called him in over a month. We talked for about 10 minutes and that was it. So today, I was like okay fine...my friends invite me out and he's there. He acts nice at first but of course his friend has to ask "why don't you want to go back out with her?" He just says he doesn't want to...then the guy asks me if I was sad, I said "no." So he gives his two cent's in saying "oh so those tears you cried were just fake right?"

2007-03-13 17:51:57 · 24 answers · asked by Emily B 2 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in Vegas, and we booked a 2600 sq ft Penthouse suite to have our reception at, rather than paying a lot for a hall. We already thought of getting a DJ, any other ideas to have fun and keep the guests entertained?

2007-03-13 17:51:20 · 4 answers · asked by lisadaisy36 3 in Weddings

i just broke up wit my girl for know reason and she was beautiful real nice all she cared about was me i was blind now i realize it and she gone this hurts so much i've been dropping tear for the last past three day really at night when i miss her the most. nobody to talk to really about this but my homeboy and really dont care. if she read this or if you do read this jessica i still love you babe..

2007-03-13 17:51:19 · 14 answers · asked by Mr.Copeland 1 in Singles & Dating

is there any other way of showing a girl that you like her? instead of just telling her, or giving her flowers? I am trying to find somthing original. What should i try? Or what would you do?

2007-03-13 17:50:25 · 7 answers · asked by Blasto 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 17:50:14 · 4 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 17:50:02 · 4 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

Any suggestions for a white girl that's looking for a mate in a black guy?

2007-03-13 17:48:49 · 7 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

5 years of being togeter. We were in love and everything,I lost my verginity to him, but when I got word from my boyfriend that me might have to move sometime in December and he was not sure what day it would be.
The last time we hang out was in December. I never thought that would be our last time seeing each other( Sat.)
Then I come in on Monday hoping to see him for the last time,then he did not come in? So when the day was over I went over to check my boyfriend, and he was gone. Then I cryed so much because he said that"My last day will be Monday, and I will give you the address and phone number,I promise".
But he never did. Now it has been 3 Months without knowing were he is. I Miss him so much! Right now my not so called friends, treat me like Crap when he left.
I fill weak and helpless. The only thing he told me was he is moving to Atlanta,GA and the school is Woodstock.
That the only info I have nothing else.
I need help before I do something that I will regret later on

2007-03-13 17:48:17 · 8 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Singles & Dating

Without breaking the law?

2007-03-13 17:47:30 · 13 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

I ended my relationship with my girlfriend after I found out she was planning to break up with me and finding out that she has lied to me about things. She's tried calling me about a dozen times and has sent me messages on myspace denying it all. I know for a fact that she has lied to me and all I want to know is how long I should expect this to go on until she finally gives up and moves on. Everytime I get a new message from her or see my phone with 5 missed calls from her I feel the pain of the break up lingering. I am committed to not responding as it will only encourage her. I just want to know how long I have to wait until I can feel free from all this. Maybe some of you have experienced this and if so I would appreciate how long it lasted for you. How long does it usually take for an ex to stop calling you?

2007-03-13 17:46:39 · 4 answers · asked by quad5 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 17:46:36 · 3 answers · asked by spikleti 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been going out with him since the 1 grade and now im in my senior year of high school im so depressed what do i do please help

2007-03-13 17:46:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

KAY.....I HAVE A CRUSH ON THIS GUY.......AND HE KNOWS, BUT IM NOT SURE WHAT THE NEXT STEP SHOULD BE...........WHAT DO YOU THINK..........HE SEEMS KINDA SHY!!!!!

2007-03-13 17:45:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do girls like looks or personality better or what makes you attracted to that guy?

2007-03-13 17:45:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was an only child growing up, now I am stuck with a lazy, careless, ungrateful, ignorant step brother. This kid is 20 years old, works 10 hours a week, no college, smokes weed all day, and does nothing to help out. My parents asked me when I was a little kid if I wanted a brother/sister, and I said no. Now I know why. Anyone else had step siblings forced on them, and wish they would just get out?

2007-03-13 17:45:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-13 17:45:18 · 5 answers · asked by squishy 1 in Singles & Dating

so theres this cute tall guy who is in my math class and we use to talk all the time and we still do but not *** much and we see each other in lunch and nutrition but if we see each other is because he tries to be around were i am and he looks at me all the time but im confuse does he like me or not? or should be just fir4ends?

2007-03-13 17:44:57 · 1 answers · asked by ♥Princess♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

just wondering, is it worth the try to ask an older woman out??

2007-03-13 17:43:34 · 9 answers · asked by Tahitoa 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a guy for a while now
He thinks the world of me, he puts up with a lot of crap that I give him, and I'm lucky that I found someone who will stay through the fights, it means he actually cares and I know that. thats not an issue however

However, I'm 18 and although I really care about him, and he's really great I kind of have this wandering eye....

not even because I LIKE other guys...

but its almost like I just want the option to try and attract them and whatever I dont even know...

It really sucks because i DONT want to feel that way but its hard for me not to do it.

Its almost like I crave the attention of the single life, but at the same time i don't want to be single. Anyone else have this problem? What'd you do? Any advice will do :(

2007-03-13 17:41:47 · 11 answers · asked by USCfemme10 3 in Singles & Dating

**please no immature answers** i really like this friend of mine, and we dated for a bit, but she ended things because she wasn't sure of her feelings, but a lot of me is telling me she's just scared to let herself feel it. i don't use the word love all to liberally because i don't think it's a word that is meant to be thrown around so easily, but i feel like i really am starting to love this girl. it's been about 5 months since we've been apart, and there hasn't been a single day that i haven't thought about her, and i've been back and forth about whether or not to let this go. i feel like, sure, i bet i can be happy with some other girl, but i want to experience that happiness with not just any girl, but this girl. a friend of mine said that i should just let it go, and if it was meant to be then it will, and i believe that to some sense, but god, it's so hard to let go. it's tearing me up inside- i have times where i feel physically sick because of how much it hurts. what do u do?

2007-03-13 17:41:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to love and do marriage. So if I fall in love with a gal tommorrow. What do girls like in boys. I mean how to change me characters and attitudes. How to make her happy? Where to take her. Dont tell cinema, beach, park, resturant and blah blah.... I want to do something new to my lover. Please advice in your style. Be frank.

2007-03-13 17:41:21 · 4 answers · asked by Arun k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

you

2007-03-13 17:41:10 · 4 answers · asked by prep07 1 in Singles & Dating

I am working on a limited budget for my wedding and I need help decorating the champagne floots for the wedding party. I want to paint or trace double hearts on them, but what would I use for paint? What would stay on a glass that is probably going to get condensation on it, and have to get washed when they bring it home? Any other idea's to decorate it?

2007-03-13 17:41:01 · 16 answers · asked by Megan B 2 in Weddings

i ask my freind to tell her if she go out with me and she said

No i'm ugly

2007-03-13 17:40:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I encountered my HS ex on my space we were togheter for about 9 months when i was 16-17 nothing sexual ever happenned during that time. Now we found each other again on my space he flirted with me for a while then I asked him what's up he said that since he saw me a year ago at a party he wanted to get with me again but that he has too much going on to start a relationship,but he likes me, he has 2 daughters but is single and lives alone. i don't know what his issues are. he apologized and said he won't flirt again because i told him it was confusing me. Now i have been without sex for a while. I saw him yesterday we were on my space and he told me to come with him to blockbuster i went down saw him and he gave me a bunch of hershey kisses and said they were kisses for me. he took me to eat something afterwards and i caught him looking at me. he calls me the name he used to call me when we were togheter when he writes. i want to do it but i don't want him to think bad of me, help!.

2007-03-13 17:40:48 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so I'm having all roses in my bouquet and I'd like for each girl to have a different type of flower for their bouquet (all tulips for girl number one etc...)
The color needs to be purple though, so what are some other purple flowers besides roses and tulips?! there will be four bridesmaids.

2007-03-13 17:40:14 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Weddings

how to spell

2007-03-13 17:39:57 · 8 answers · asked by crazee_ayie 1 in Family

ok this is what happened, i've met this girl who i liked and i told her that i was from a country, but the truth is that im really not from that country and she doesnt know that. Right now i've been dating her for almost 10 months and i dont know how to tell her the truth about where im from. I've been feeling so bad that i've lied to her about that and i want her to know the truth about where i'm from but i really don't know how to tell her...someone please please please help me...i want honest answers please no jokes.

2007-03-13 17:38:44 · 16 answers · asked by Bling Bling 5 in Singles & Dating

Me and my guy were doing perfect, we were planning around this year to get married. Until he lost his job and his car and now he can't find a job. He doesn't have a car to get around, and that's just making him frustrate. He's not the same anymore and i'm just waiting for all this to be over. What can I do to save my relationship and go back to being happy.

2007-03-13 17:38:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he changes then without considering anyone else! This weekend we were suppose to go out of town to my sister's, we were taking his son, this was good because lots of kids are going to be there, my sister and I were looking forward to it. Well his son wants to bring a friend so instead of telling his son NO my husband cancelled all of "our" plans and told his son yes and that "we" would stay home for the weekend. I think that this is rude and that he shouldn't give his 12 year old son his way all the time and ruin everyone else's plans - yes he don't believe in saying no to his kid.
See my previous question, how much more can I take? I am I wrong for being upset here? Or am I overreacting?
ARG this keeps costing me points but I need someone else's input!

2007-03-13 17:38:22 · 8 answers · asked by Rosie 4 in Marriage & Divorce