Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

I really CANNOT stand life....if i had just one wish...it'd be to have never been born...im serious. And my friends cut. I know i know...stupid huh...and believe me...i tell them that...but when they all go home at night...im still sittin here thinkin of what my life is...and what its going to be...and i dont rly think its going to be anything...with the way its going right now....And sometimes I wanna hurt myself too...but then i ask myself...Why cause more pain...b/c of the pain you already have?? But then i also think...How can i just get rid of the pain all together....?? And i can answer that myself...U CANT!!! There's so many limits in life...people say to get out there and live life to its fullest...but there isnt a fullest...not to me.....It just seems like ever since i turned 13...life has been HELL...im 15 now...but its not ne different...and dont tell me its just me going thru my teenage yrs either...b/c thats a lie...i know it is....i just need some advice is what im sayin!

2007-03-13 18:09:35 · 11 answers · asked by Janina N 1 in Singles & Dating

list the following in order.....
1. popularity
2. intelligence
3. confidence
4. height
5. body build
6. hair
7. humour
8. face
9. hygiene
10. kindness
11. money
12. shyness

2007-03-13 18:09:03 · 12 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

This female is my cousin. She likes more of the punk rock style and things. She's shy. She drives a Civic. I really don't know much more about her!! Any ideas??

2007-03-13 18:08:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

there is a roomer going around school saying that i like this guy. he girl friend she gose to another school she found out about the roomer . He called my phone and i missed the call so i called but she answed the yellen. but dont want her man what should i do?

2007-03-13 18:08:35 · 4 answers · asked by Dejah H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 18:07:13 · 11 answers · asked by splenda sweet 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I threw my son a birthday party. My mother in law asked me if my son could go ahead and open gifts. I said "I would like for him to do it when everyone is done eating." She said well let him open this because so and so is leaving so i said fine. I went to the restroom when i returned she had allowed him to open half the gifts. I felt like she was taking control the entire time but i did nothing trying not to offend anyone. My husband then asked his mother to have a seat, enjoy being a guest and to let us do the work so then his parents left because of that comment. My mother in law then stated that I threw a very un-organized party and that it was not planned well at all. I feel like they wouldn't give me a chance. Now the entire family will not speak to my husband and I and somehow this is all my fault. Would you be upset be upset by my husbands comment to his mother? If you were me would you be upset for her taking over and then blaming the crazyness on me?

2007-03-13 18:06:15 · 18 answers · asked by J&A 3 in Family

Do you fel happy every single day. If not..what is it? how often do you feel happy? lately, little things might give me some happiness during a day..but it lasts so quick. Arent there some of you who are always happy?

2007-03-13 18:06:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so for almost 2 years i had a crush on this guy. but this i was going to tell him that i had a crush on him but b4 i had the change to tell him he move and the first week i felt wafull i dont know why. btu not that long ago i had a dream about him. i dont know what to do ? whats wrong with me? can someone plz tell me?

2007-03-13 18:05:04 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Princess♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

A long time ago, before my husband and I became Christians he said that he had gone to see a dancer and that she had made him feel sexier than anyone else has ever made him feel, including myself. What do I do? According to the info he gave me I've done everything that this girl has done for him physically, but he can't explain how she did it (it, meaning making him feel that way when he was with her.) Could it have to do with looks? I mean I did everything, danced, public affection, everything intimate, (i mean duh, i'm his wife). But I do admit I do have some weight on me, I mean I just had a baby, and have been trying to lose weight for some time but every time I do I get prego. But besides the weight I am a very attractive woman (not trying to be prideful, just honest and frank) Do you think it has to do with my weight, or something else?

2007-03-13 18:04:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am totally in head over heals in love with someone. I dont want to leave him. I enjoy our relationship in ALL ways. But I have these crazy fantasies. sexual fantasies. ones i wont even begin to describe. when i was single i did some of these bizarre things with one night stands; and now cant stop wishing i was single again so i could be naughty. any idea why or how to stop this? and do any of you have naughty fantasies?

2007-03-13 18:03:40 · 12 answers · asked by the_syco_t 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont know if i really am. Just cireous. N tell me why? be open.

2007-03-13 18:03:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am totally in head over heals in love with someone. I dont want to leave him. I enjoy our relationship in ALL ways. But I have these crazy fantasies. sexual fantasies. ones i wont even begin to describe. when i was single i did some of these bizarre things with one night stands; and now cant stop wishing i was single again so i could be naughty.

2007-03-13 18:02:43 · 2 answers · asked by the_syco_t 2 in Singles & Dating

She is in Thailand and I am in the US. We are both focused on our medical school career; however, I do not see why we cannot have both the career and each other. She is 26 years old and I am turning 28 this year. I am also Thai. And in Thailand, women are accustom to getting married around this age. However, the one she loves is me, but I cannot yet moved to work in Thailand for a few years. She wants to take this chance but is now worried that if it does not workout she will be almost 30 and may not have someone to marry her. I have told her of my passed relationship and have also been in a 3 year long distance relationship, which did not work out because my ex-girlfriend could not do it anymore. However, I was and am capable to go the distance. I do love my Thai girlfriend and have discussed with her about marriage. She also wants to marry me, but she is still afraid to put everything in one basket. Please help me gain her trust. Teach me how to speak to her. Thank you.

2007-03-13 18:02:21 · 4 answers · asked by Sy P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my best friend has a HUGE problem...she loves 2 guys....sean and mat...but she has went out with mat twice already...and sean and mat just happen to be best friends too....we all know its like they are fighting over her...and to make things worst she is moving at the end of the school year... so if either of them are going to win her over they have to do it soon...
SEAN is sweet cute and very caring
MAT is sweet cute and the better kisser

and on top of all of this i think i may like sean!!

2007-03-13 18:01:05 · 8 answers · asked by right_field_cutie 1 in Singles & Dating

Succubi come to me at night and we engage in lustful acts. I am sometimes the mayor of a small town where all the beautiful women undress before me in the street and offer their bodies. Is this amoral? Is it sort of like being unfaithful to my wife? Should I consider divorce?

2007-03-13 18:00:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 18:00:43 · 18 answers · asked by LJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i dreamed i made out with this girl i use to like i kinda still do but we just friends that all she wants to be. in the dream all we did was make out for like hours on in kinda cuddled but mainly made out

2007-03-13 18:00:19 · 9 answers · asked by cwa 2 in Friends

Thank for everyone who gave me help last week On my groom to be. it help out allot.

Now after a day I went to him and told him I need another chance and that I loved him, and wanted to be with him only,as I said in other post been married twice before and 7 years older, so I know whats out there and he's the best by far!
He and I talked for over 9 hours TALKED HONESTLY TRUTHFUL TALK,JUST TALK, it was delicious because I never ever had anyone to give me that much thoughtful truth in a conversation and I fell madly in love all over again with him.
Were going to RENO to get married and I ask him for a pre-nup, he said okey why not. Now I'm wondering if a PRE-NUP is right thing for this marriage he's the one and I think if I get one It's like saying hey maybe but maybe not, and I don't like that one bit!
I'm a M.D. who works in physical rehabilitation and make a really good income he's still Navy for now Driving F-18 and going to school for PH.D.s until sept. discharge what to do?

2007-03-13 17:58:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband loves the joint family and doesnt want to move out but my MIL is seriously a mental woman who pulls dangerous dramas that only a cheap would do such an act..i think its best for my kids and my husband to live else where bcuz there r daily fights shes got energy but i dont have enegry to fight i want peace,,is there a way i can annoy her so she finally has truth to the lies she tells her son..tell me wayz to annoy her so she can go more psycho so my husband finally gets us our own home without her

2007-03-13 17:58:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

do agree or not agree to this topic for my forum...

2007-03-13 17:58:15 · 27 answers · asked by pinky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Someone I thought was a close relative told me I never call her. Actually I did call and my msgs weren't returned. After leaving messages for 2 weeks, I was told I was on the return list behind one of her book club members. This April she called to tell me she got engaged & was probably getting married sometime in the Fall-to someone she knew only a few months and who I had met once. I was thrilled for her and a few weeks later mailed a wonderful engagement present, which was returned because she had moved and changed her phone #. I called her sister who was aware I didn't have the new info and was told she'd get back to me - which of course she didn't - so I wasn't able to resend the gift. Then I find out after the fact that I wasn't invited to her lavish wedding and I haven't heard from her or her family since. Now, 1 yr. later, I receive a birth announcement that she had a baby last month. She's a relative, but I am so hurt by her actions. Do I need to send a gift? If so what?

2007-03-13 17:58:13 · 3 answers · asked by Slighted Cousin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-13 17:57:54 · 8 answers · asked by alone2befree 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 17:56:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to have a couples dinner in a nice restaurant since im married and want to be able to dress up and have a few cocktails i have drank before and know how to handle my liquor but the problem is that i want to invite only one of my brothers and his girlfriend the other brother is married to an alcoholic and they fight in public when she drinks and she will regardless of us talking to her about it which we have, she gets falling down drunk almost every day so am i in the wrong for not wanting them to come with us since its my bday and i want to have fun and not be embarrased by my family in front of the other couples im inviting

2007-03-13 17:55:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay...i really like one of my best guy friends. We always make eachother laugh, look into eachother's eyes, talk about everything, flirt like crazy, etc etc. We call eachother all the time and he makes me feel like a better person. Everybody says he likes me, but he has a girlfriend and i respect that. But sometimes, she doesnt always treat him the way she should. The only thing is that it kills me not being able to tell him how i feel. What should I do???

2007-03-13 17:55:07 · 11 answers · asked by [.dreamer.] 1 in Singles & Dating

I'd liked to be able to ask girls out, but I always think to myself: "Why would they wan't to waste their time with me?"
I'm not good enough for any girl. Any encouraging words?

2007-03-13 17:54:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 17:54:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i Love you claudia rodriguez why cant you see it

my love does burn like 1,000 suns please go out with me
i love you with all my heart
IT'S NOT ON THE OUTSIDE THAT MATTERS BUT WHATS ON THE INSIDE THAT COUNTS

2007-03-13 17:54:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think is good and bad about them?

2007-03-13 17:53:09 · 14 answers · asked by april.may 3 in Singles & Dating

When is the best time to kiss a girl. During a movie, after its over during the credits or when u walk her to her door?

2007-03-13 17:52:35 · 7 answers · asked by dillon 2 in Singles & Dating