Thank for everyone who gave me help last week On my groom to be. it help out allot.
Now after a day I went to him and told him I need another chance and that I loved him, and wanted to be with him only,as I said in other post been married twice before and 7 years older, so I know whats out there and he's the best by far!
He and I talked for over 9 hours TALKED HONESTLY TRUTHFUL TALK,JUST TALK, it was delicious because I never ever had anyone to give me that much thoughtful truth in a conversation and I fell madly in love all over again with him.
Were going to RENO to get married and I ask him for a pre-nup, he said okey why not. Now I'm wondering if a PRE-NUP is right thing for this marriage he's the one and I think if I get one It's like saying hey maybe but maybe not, and I don't like that one bit!
I'm a M.D. who works in physical rehabilitation and make a really good income he's still Navy for now Driving F-18 and going to school for PH.D.s until sept. discharge what to do?
2007-03-13 17:58:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Northeastern university
Had a problem with dyslexia.
Sorry, for spelling errors.
2007-03-13 18:08:12 · update #1
Sorry, I do not believe you hold a medical degree with your spelling, inter alia, of Saturday. But good luck with your groom, I hope that the powers that be allot you a lot of good fortune.
2007-03-13 18:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do the pre nup for sure .It doesn't bother him now and it is a safe thing to have ,You might need it 10 years down the road .
Like you said you are madly in love all over again so you let your guard down and are rethinking it .Please do it for your sake .God willing all will stay great and hope you are married 65 wonderful years .
2007-03-13 18:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get a prenup - he will always wonder why.
Good for you! Hope all goes well and you are happy together. Communication is the BEST thing to keep your relationship going - even though some of the talks are really hard to have...
2007-03-14 00:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really a collage grad? I say get a pre nup. You have to learn something from the other two marriages.
2007-03-13 18:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why did you ask for a pre nup? Are you afraid if it doesn't work out that he will take everything you have? If you are thinking it will make you look bad, think again. It's just you protecting yourself. If you are this concerned, talk to him about it.
2007-03-13 18:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by my_own_frog 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're a college graduate??
I say, wait a month until you get married. This 9 hour talk could have been just stuff you wanted to hear. Be sure this time.
2007-03-13 18:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him and trust him enough to marry him you shouldn't need a prenup. My husband is 5 1/2 years younger than me I was much better off than my husband. Is he working for what he wants? Does he want to contribute to your relationship? If he is trully the one why would you even think you need a prenup?
2007-03-13 18:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get the Pre-Nup..
Protection for you both in case of death or divorce...
2007-03-13 18:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the prenup, It will protect you and it will prove that he is in it for you and nothing else.
He is still doing well having you as a partner.
Good luck
2007-03-13 18:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would get the pre nup.just for a laugh for your 30th anniversary
2007-03-13 18:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by helly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋