my best friend has a HUGE problem...she loves 2 guys....sean and mat...but she has went out with mat twice already...and sean and mat just happen to be best friends too....we all know its like they are fighting over her...and to make things worst she is moving at the end of the school year... so if either of them are going to win her over they have to do it soon...
SEAN is sweet cute and very caring
MAT is sweet cute and the better kisser
and on top of all of this i think i may like sean!!
2007-03-13 18:01:05 · 8 answers · asked by right_field_cutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and they both say they love her!
2007-03-13 18:01:25 · update #1
Well I have to say that I've been in a similar situation with the whole two guy thing but not really with my friend liking one guy. I disagree with the others about telling Ur friend to have mat and you have Sean. I mean if it were me i would talk to Sean and see how he really feels about her. I mean you and Ur friend have to face the fact that she's probably not in REAL love b/c if she were in REAL love she wouldn't have to chose she would just know. If it were me i would talk to Sean and the more you talk to him and get to know him the more he'll let you in and then hopefully he'll realize that yoUr more reliable than ur friend b/c chances are even if she chooses one over the other who says that she won't cheat on the other b/c she still has feeling for both. I think that she should wait it out. But that doesn't mean you can't talk to Sean and if you and him get together and she gets mad at you for it then she's not a good friend b/c she should be happy for you. But if y'all get together and she doesn't get mad be carefully b/c chances are him not liking her will attract him to her more b/c she knows that it's not an option to her.
Well good luck in finding true feelings
Wish for the absolute best :)
2007-03-13 18:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by Josey2009 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the meaning of love? Is "love" the attraction of another guy because of his looks and his first layer of his inner self? Or love that you know the person so well that you wouldn't care if anything bad happens...
Looks like this isn't the real love triangle i was hoping for. Usually this is an infatuation triangle... I would say this:
Drop both of them. If she is moving very soon, what is the whole point of having a relationship if it's going to end in heartbreak? Staying as friends is the best bet... trust me she will find someone new in her new place... she'll call you up saying "I'm over sean and matt... ooo there's a lot of cute guys up here" and stuff girls talk about. There's no winner in this, even if one dude "wins" her over. It will just all end in heartbreaks.
Move on... everyone has to move on... there might be pain in her heart to never see them again, but she should keep her head up and listen to her heart. The heart is a powerful thing especially when it comes to love... tell her to think about it... it's overall her decision if she wants to continue with this "love triangle."
Tell her good luck... and good luck hearing it from her lol.
2007-03-13 18:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sir Guitarist 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say since she is leaving the two guys need to just find another gal (maybe sean could go out with you). She's gonna be history so there isn't any future with her. sounds like your best friend has isues and isn't worth going out with anyhow. Also sounds like you are way too considerate to be more woried about a friend like that than your own feelings for Sean. I would say point out to the two guys the fact she is leaving and she isn't likely to be faithful or remain with either and isn't concerned about breaking both of their hearts when she leaves and is just shopping for a guy to be with for now. Then wish them both Luck in fighting over her and be sure to tell them when they are broken hearted and depressed that you won't have any simpathy for them. Pretty much that should be your attitude. they both sound pretty stupid as far as guys go anyhow. You can find better. Let the idiots mess up their own lives.
2007-03-13 18:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she barely even has dated either one of them, so how would any of them really love each other. that's more like lust than love. no offense to her, but she is a slut or she wouldn't be dating both of them, that's just wrong and uncaring, if you like sean talk to him, but i don't know why you would want to make the situation any harder by being her back-stabbing friend. she needs to choose between them first and quit leading them both on. hopefully, she will choose matt and then if she don't care you could have sean even though that's not much of a friendship and she obviously don't care about either guy or she wouldn't be a two-timing slut
2007-03-13 18:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well put it this way . she can't have them both. so you get Sean and she gets mat now that's cool
2007-03-13 18:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to go out with matt so that u can hav sean
2007-03-13 18:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The caring one will triumph in the end. What does kissing have to do with the truely emotional aspect of a relationship...? Lol.
2007-03-13 18:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by Jeremy A 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, tell her to choose. and sounds like you got screwed on this one, she gets two guys and you get zero. it's messed up. i'm sorry for you;)
2007-03-13 18:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋