Okay...i really like one of my best guy friends. We always make eachother laugh, look into eachother's eyes, talk about everything, flirt like crazy, etc etc. We call eachother all the time and he makes me feel like a better person. Everybody says he likes me, but he has a girlfriend and i respect that. But sometimes, she doesnt always treat him the way she should. The only thing is that it kills me not being able to tell him how i feel. What should I do???
2007-03-13 17:55:07 · 11 answers · asked by [.dreamer.] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but, honestly, i just tear up thinking about what we could have.....
2007-03-13 18:11:57 · update #1
Oh, i feel for you. I had the exact same problem and what i learned was that its best to let him come to you. Im sure if he makes you a better person, then you have the same effect on him. As soon as it hits him that he needs you, you will be so glad you waited. theres no sense in rushing things. Gosh, cherish the momens you spend with him. Theyll be great memories.
2007-03-13 18:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by Violet J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. wait and see if it is just a game between u and him.. if it is ment to happend then it will happend..dont force the future and u would not want someone to do the same to u.. u kno what KARMA is : what goes around cames around... and back around so no be patience enjoy ur life and ur opportunitys to be happy maybe u r confuse with him and u cant see that behind him there is a guy that likes u and dont have gf that is a better chance for u to be happy than someone that is with gf
2007-03-14 01:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by chance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him in a way that is not compromising, or that could damage your current relationship.
For example, ask him how he feels about his girlfriend. Then you can find out if he is madly in love with her or uncomfortable talking about her.
Then, be a good sport. In any case take baby steps. If you notice that he adores his girlfriend, smile and say "that is so sweet". If you notice that everything is not good in paradise, say "I am so sorry".
Then just change topic. You have to make it appear as if you are just two friends talking. That way you don't get burned.
Never ever trash talk about his girlfriend. Not even if he does.
2007-03-14 01:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kirvesrinta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him know that it's not cool that she she doesn't treat him like she should, first of all.
And I'm all about that sincerity stuff, so I'd definitely tell him what's up between you two. He might not know he's sending all the wrong signals if he's not into it.
And if it's mutual, then maybe he'll break it off with her and maybe he won't - but at least it'll be out there and it'll take a lot of pressure off your shoulders.
2007-03-14 01:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate with you.... I have been to this situation before. I don't think it is right to tell him what you feel since he is on a relationship...
2007-03-14 01:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by glayse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about his girlfriend. and see what he thinks, you can hint something about wha you would do if you were his GF but that will give you away.
2007-03-14 00:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by Andres A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Keep quiet. She won't last long.
2007-03-14 00:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want him then tell him
2007-03-14 00:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hummm are you a guy or a girl
2007-03-14 00:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened to me... tell him how you feel and then wait...
2007-03-14 00:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by blabishbla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋