Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

My next door neighbor is divorced and shares the custody of her daughter. It seems that we both have a lot of free time at our homes at the same times and over the months have gotten to know each other better. Today I was over in her yard and had some serious eye contact with her. I know what was in her mind and I know that both of our juices were running. As I left she ran her hand along my arm; it felt like a bolting rod. Now, I can’t sleep. I know I’m doomed since I can’t get her out of mind. I am married and even though our sex life hasn’t been good lately, I want to remain faithful. I feel very weak right now. How can I stay out of trouble?

2007-03-13 18:58:14 · 22 answers · asked by mklwis 3 in Marriage & Divorce

thank u 4 ur answers but i thing its better to have sex with him that il make me n him both happy

2007-03-13 18:56:29 · 12 answers · asked by Shilpa... 1 in Singles & Dating

thank u 4 ur answers but i thing its better to have sex with him that il make me n him both happy

2007-03-13 18:56:24 · 7 answers · asked by Shilpa... 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean if a man tells you that he likes you, thinks you are beautiful etc. btu holds off on sex..even when you are drunk and completely willing to give it? does this show that the guy sees you for the future and doesn't want to ruin it? why didn't this guy want to have sex with me if he tells me im beautiful, he really digs me etc. ..and he is not a virgin or very religious. is it because he sees a future with me and doesnt want to just **** right away? what do you think?

2007-03-13 18:55:55 · 14 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex in another state has not let me see my daughter in 7 yrs. I have no idea why. She never told me.( Likely from being rejected) I was recently dragged into court for child support and got her home address and work phone. I left 2 messages at work and she hasnt called me back. She hung up on me last time I tried calling 7 years ago. They are now garnishing over $115 a week from my $600 week gross salary for support! My problem is, the courts suspended my passport because I owe over $27,000 in back support. I can never pay that back and also pay current support. I have fallen in love with a woman who lives out of the country and we have never met as all we can do is talk by phone or e-mail. I probably want to marry her. I am insane about her. The courts tell me if my daughters mother forgives the past due arrears, they will wipe it off and give my passport back. I have only the mothers home address in which to write a letter. How do i convince her to forgive my past debt?

2007-03-13 18:54:48 · 19 answers · asked by Daytrading44 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It's almost two in the morning. I hate sleeping alone. Should I continue to wait up or just go to bed?

2007-03-13 18:54:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she also used to talk to me and now she avoidsme and doesn't answer my messages. what is wrong?

2007-03-13 18:53:22 · 5 answers · asked by Mike C 2 in Singles & Dating

he is 26 yrs of age and the problem is he is in love but his mom denied the relationship. Now he is not going to his office nor he is interesxted in any other activities. Infact he can n't get married because he has a lot of responsibilities.. his mom.. nephews..nices ..sisters needs to be looked after. now he is floating between two boats and does not have any option to choose..please suggest..

2007-03-13 18:53:11 · 12 answers · asked by Joshia S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is really hard!! Iknow this is the best thing for my family! i think it is resentment!! I am getting a divorce he is moving out at the end of the week. I am 7 months pregnant and have a 11 month old here at home that I am compeltly responsible for! He came home tonight and got ready like he is going out to a club or bar. his friend picked him up! This really bothered me!! Iam not sure if it because I have feelings still or the fact that men have it so easy. I am getting heart burn and am having backaches and am exhausted from watching our baby all day. And here he is with no worries going out! I am so upset right now. How can I not feel this way? I know what he is doing is making it that much easier to leave the hate keeps building up! Is there any decent men out there? How can I feel better about this?

2007-03-13 18:53:05 · 7 answers · asked by pittbull mommy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

casually getting a drink. What should I wear that's casual -- yet not too casual? Oh, and it's supposed to rain, too!

2007-03-13 18:53:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it possible to be there for both of them?

2007-03-13 18:52:53 · 7 answers · asked by meaty_okra 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What would you guys men if you said that to a female?
If a guy says...You'd Like My Feet!...where is the friendship heading?
Is this suggestive talk a way to flirt? Is he telling me that we're gonna start taking off items anytime soon?

2007-03-13 18:51:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for a teenager to like guys in their late 20s?

2007-03-13 18:51:32 · 26 answers · asked by popsicles09 1 in Singles & Dating

do you have any suggestions regarding with this love letter that im goin to send to the girl that im courting..

here it goes...

"I’ve always been telling you how special you are to me…but it seems like i just can’t find the right words to express what i really feel for you. Its really funny coz I never imagined that I would fall for someone that I haven’t even met… I just find myself wanting to be that “someone” who would take care of you..

You have touched me more profoundly than I ever thought someone could.. and this may sound crazy but im hoping that we’ll end up with each other. "

if u have any comment..feel free to post in you comments and suggestions

2007-03-13 18:50:47 · 16 answers · asked by broken` 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 18:50:44 · 5 answers · asked by dave 1 in Singles & Dating

When do you know your ready ?

2007-03-13 18:48:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this problem always making me feel sad everytime i think of it..I can`t get rid of it...I know both my parents have their own reasons why they end up to that.But the problem is,my father openly visiting us and beg my mom to make him back why he is always been drunk..my mother don`t like it and makes her feel mad.

2007-03-13 18:48:31 · 4 answers · asked by gleztep 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 18:48:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf talks nasty 2 me all the time.other boys do 2.y?4 what do u wonder what were gonna say?is it suppost 2 make us feel good?

2007-03-13 18:48:08 · 37 answers · asked by janae_gaines 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 18:46:11 · 8 answers · asked by cutipie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-13 18:45:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At work, it's always old ladies or mature ladies. They say HI to me. it's so fun and great. cause i'm a quiet person.. but it feels great that those people care about me at least alittle. But it happens always that where i work there's never young girls my age( i'm 27). and i'm not a person who does the GOING OUT THING after work. I usually just go back home and rest. So there's no girls in my life at all. that's sad.

how can i change this? I'm not a talkative saucy person, so i'm not going to change this and therefore i'm not going to try going to clubs or stuff. But if there was a way to meet girls just 1 on 1 for talking or something.. with no pressure or doinog a fun activity , i could do that .

2007-03-13 18:45:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

..I have 1 freind who has a 2 year old boy..the same age as my son.Both of our husbands are currently training to be Deployed soon.Anyways..She is only 19 but she does not know how to take care of her son that well.I have been taking care of him for a week,and a half now.Since she got a job close to where she lives.We live kinda far from one onother.She Has been leaving her son with me day/nite cuz she says she has no gas $.Should i charge her for taking the extra time to take care of him?.It makes me mad that she says she has no money when they just got paid.BUT i hear she cant spend hes $ so she will only pay me when she gets paid.I dont have a issue with that,but i take the extra time to take care of hime.She has drinking issues that she wont admit,any how my question is.SHould i charge her for practicaly having her live here?I mean Were not rich either..she wont bring him baby wipes,or nothing i provide all of that.what do you suggest i do?overcharge her?were not that close freinds

2007-03-13 18:45:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My ex-boyfriend and I broke up 6 months after I left for college but have remained friends (he broke up with me b/c he couldn't handle the long distance and I am also seven years younger.) Its been 2 1/2 years and he continues to call me every two weeks or so, send me texts saying he misses me etc. He use to want to get sexual with me when I came to visit but now, for the first time ever..he said he has to be good and the sex is "weird" because we do it and then don't talk for awhile. tells me he loves me, misses me, but has to be good. What does this mean? he says doesn't love anyone else and texts me all the time saying he misses me etc. . do you think he wants me for the future and doesnt want to ruin it? does this show respect? what do you think? he changed his behavior after he thought he hurt me by being too busy to see me a couple time when i came home to visit. does he see me for the future if he conitnues this contact 2 1/2 years after he broke up with me?

2007-03-13 18:43:49 · 12 answers · asked by Janie 1 in Singles & Dating

Who needs more sex?Men or Women?

2007-03-13 18:43:31 · 12 answers · asked by swapna m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

this guy is so scary i cant get away from myspace and he won't stop talking to me pleez HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-03-13 18:42:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been in love with my boyfriend for 4 years and we had a two years old daughter together, we had been so much in love and were planning to be tying the knot by April this year but know I no longer understanding him he seem to be no longer in love or interested in me. Should I go on with the marriage or call it off?

2007-03-13 18:42:15 · 11 answers · asked by danny 1 in Weddings

Once i went to my friends house,the door was closed so i peeped into the window , there i saw her having sex with a guy , i called to her phone n asked about this n i told that i il tell to her parents about this... she told about this to her guy,now they both start to trettend me that he il rape me like that and all. but i dint take it as a isshu but now they send me a picture of mine in naked n they r asking me 4 money n that guy is asking me to have sex with him.... if i refuse they il put that photo to net it seemes... now what il i do...? please help me

2007-03-13 18:42:12 · 18 answers · asked by Shilpa... 1 in Singles & Dating

Once i went to my friends house,the door was closed so i peeped into the window , there i saw her having sex with a guy , i called to her phone n asked about this n i told that i il tell to her parents about this... she told about this to her guy,now they both start to trettend me that he il rape me like that and all. but i dint take it as a isshu but now they send me a picture of mine in naked n they r asking me 4 money n that guy is asking me to have sex with him.... if i refuse they il put that photo to net it seemes... now what il i do...? please help me

2007-03-13 18:42:06 · 11 answers · asked by Shilpa... 1 in Singles & Dating

im just wondering

2007-03-13 18:41:27 · 5 answers · asked by travis 1 in Singles & Dating