my bf talks nasty 2 me all the time.other boys do 2.y?4 what do u wonder what were gonna say?is it suppost 2 make us feel good?
2007-03-13 18:48:08 · 37 answers · asked by janae_gaines 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably because you are allowing him to do so and disrespect you in this way. It's really your own fault...tell him to stop. My fiance doesn't talk that way to me, and we have been together for 5 years now.
2007-03-13 18:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're having sex with so many guys, condom or not, it doesn't make you look too good. And when you do get into a solid, monogamous relationship (which I sincerely hope you do) it may come back to bite you. People will look at you as a lesser being than they are because your risque behaviors and promiscuity are what many consider to be "slutty" and disgraceful. I think that even though you like the feeling of sex. out of respect for yourself as a young woman, you ought to stop. If this is something you feel is out of your control you might want to seek help, as you may have a sexual addiction. You may be doing this because of something that really hurt you in your past, and you can certainly get some help. I wish you all the best, and hope you can start making some healthier decisions for your life.
2016-03-28 22:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being nasty is generally considered a negative trait my dear - so people considered normal don't wanna be associated with anything like that.
What about you, do you like it when he's nasty, forget about other guys. How do you feel when he talks nasty - crazy but for some people its a turn on! So evaluate how you feel about your boyfriend's attributes rather than generalizing and whether you're ok with it or are uncomfortable with it. Let him know if you like something so he can do more of it and also if something's rubbing you the wrong way so he can do something about it.
Cheerz!
2007-03-21 18:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by LibraCrazyVirgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so I may be a guy but I think I am a nicer one.
I seem to think that a lot of boys do it to show off, to prove that they are in the lead, to act cool infront of their mates.
I can't imagine why boys would do it if you don't give them a reason, so if you are being nasty in the first place, try to act nicer. Start answering back, if they call you names, call them names back. I know for a fact that if you retaliate in a bad way, things will get worse. Just make it into a joke, try to embarrass him, etc. That should shut his pie hole.
2007-03-13 18:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys act that way. Your Bf and the other guys that talk to that way are just immature and need to grow up. Some guys feel that they need to talk nasty to try to show that they are some big macho guy or they just try to act like they are just some big hot shot tough guy. But, he really needs to be mature and talk you in a respectful way. If he has no respect for you, you two shouldn't be together.
2007-03-18 09:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all if he talks nasty then he does not respect you and he is showing of to his friends that he has a girl which is so over him even if talks nasty she likes it. It surely doesnt feel good, does it? Then why do you put up with his crap. You should get over him (dump him) and get with a guy that treats you like a princess, like his own treasure and beleive these men exist, if i found one so can you!
Good Luck
2007-03-21 18:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are using you for a fantasy while they get off! You are a prop for them, same as a computer or magazine only they can actually see you! eeeeeewwwwwwww! They don't care what you say as long as it's something filthy or ego building, like ooooooooh your weenie is sooooooo big!! Is that stupid or what? Geez I guess actual sex doesn't get it for them. Then the more they hear or see, the more they need to hear because it becomes mundane and dull after awhile, it's an addictive sexual dysfunction.
2007-03-13 18:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by Faerie loue 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you talking about him being rude in a degrading, putting you down kinda way....or are you talking about
"talkin' dirty" in a sexual way???
Two totally different things ...
While I would never tolerate a man putting me down for real...
"dirty talk"is a form of rough/hard core sex,( liked by some but certainly not all.)
The bottom line is...if you're unhappy or uncomfortable with anything your partner does or says to you...you need to be upfront and honest about it, let him know.
He can't read your mind...and if you don't say anything...he's probably gonna think you're cool with it!
2007-03-14 14:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz girls confuse us by wearing those tight sweats that outline every curve of their a$$. If you dress and act like u a nasty girl why shouldn't we talk to u nasty.
2007-03-13 18:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by ReelTru 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aight they are idiots and ****wads (no offense to you or your bf). They obviolsly had no mother to teach them how to talk correctly and they do not wash their mouth with soap (something that i do every hour on the hour). But honestly i think that they are just confused or something like that.
PS. I did mean offense
PSS.Aight
2007-03-13 18:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by StickyRice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋