this problem always making me feel sad everytime i think of it..I can`t get rid of it...I know both my parents have their own reasons why they end up to that.But the problem is,my father openly visiting us and beg my mom to make him back why he is always been drunk..my mother don`t like it and makes her feel mad.
2007-03-13 18:48:31 · 4 answers · asked by gleztep 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have every right to feel sad. You have to remember that your mom and dad divorced each other .... not you! Leave the room immediately when they start their stupid conversations. You are too young to understand that most of what they are saying is untrue and just a coverup for other problems. How your moms feels may affect you (cause you have to live with her) but you have to understand that it is her problem and belive it or not some adults love drama like this.
2007-03-13 18:56:18 · answer #1 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard, I know, my father was the same way. My mother wouldn't take him back and he never go to spend as much time with us kids so he felt that was even more reason to drink, it has been 18 years now since he left and my younger sister's never even really got to know him. It just tore him apart and alcohol he felt was his only relief.
I am not sure how old you are but really there is nothing that you can do, but when you turn 18 you can, you can have a relationship with both your parents if you want and no one can stop that. I didn't have a relationship with my father until I was much older then that, I had so much anger towards him and that was wrong.
Being an Alcoholic is like having a disease and until your father recognizes that and chooses to get help there is nothing that anyone can do
2007-03-14 02:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has nothing to do with you, they have to work things out themselves and while they are they will not be showing their best sides. Try and be patient and things well work out for the best, that might mean not together but they will still love you.
2007-03-14 01:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mother has her reasons why she split with your dad. try talking to her about it. remember it has nothing to do with you.
2007-03-14 01:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋