What does it mean if a man tells you that he likes you, thinks you are beautiful etc. btu holds off on sex..even when you are drunk and completely willing to give it? does this show that the guy sees you for the future and doesn't want to ruin it? why didn't this guy want to have sex with me if he tells me im beautiful, he really digs me etc. ..and he is not a virgin or very religious. is it because he sees a future with me and doesnt want to just **** right away? what do you think?
2007-03-13 18:55:55 · 14 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
means he respects you and truly is attracted to you and doesn't want to ruin what the two of you have by jumping into the sex wagon .
2007-03-13 19:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, firstly getting the guy in a drunken position for sex is not going to make you look very appealing in the long term sense. There are the good guys out there who don't want to take advantage of a drunken girl. I think one thing that is important here though is if this guy is actually your boyfriend, someone your seeing or just some almost but not quit random guy. Also as much as you don't want to hear this is there is the odd guy who doesn't want to take advantage of you because for him it would only be a one nighter with no future. I think the best thing you can do is talk to this guy and ask him what his intentions are for you, while you may not want to do this, the truth of the matter is if your afraid to talk to someone about there being a future between you two, there probably isn't one and also hes not worth it so find someone who is.
2007-03-13 19:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by Cloe C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one. I don't know all the details but here's what I think. He probably just doesn't want to give it up all at once. He probably is a romantic and wants to have the time and place be just right. Anybody can just stick it in, get off and they're done.. but he probably wants to get out the rose petals and scented oils and treat you like the beautiful woman that you are. Not like some disposable girlfriend. Patience, girl, he'll let you know when he's ready and I have a feeling it will be worth the wait.
2007-03-13 19:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Nemesista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion I think it might be because of the reasons you just gave. He really digs you and actually cares about you. Most guys would take advantage of the fact that you are willing to give it to them, but he seeems like he truly cares beyond the sex. Perhaps his morals regarding sex are a little different, maybe he wants a relationship first. Either way, maybe you should talk to him about it.
2007-03-13 19:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Cool Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tend to doubt it. More likely he is insecure about his ability to perform (how drunk he is at such times?) or don't discount the possbility he doesn't really dig you that much. Expressions of admiration etc. may be attempts to arouse something. If he is passionate he is passionate. Or, maybe not. Maybe he is serious. Maybe he is a devout Roman Catholic male. Maybe he's just playing it cool. Maybe Baby...!
Well, I guess you'll get your answer bye and bye.
2007-03-13 19:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by richard d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means either he respects you and wants to wait for marriage and a special honeymoon or he disrespects you because he doesn't trust what other men you have given it up to before him. In either case, it's a dangerous risky game you are playing if you are choosing to sleep with him outside of wedlock even if you both use protection.
2007-03-13 19:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he didn't want to feel like he was taking advantage of you while you were drunk. He sounds like a nice guy who is more mature than you are. Geez, use some self control and have some self respect for yourself.
2007-03-13 19:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is either gay or doesn't dig you. He probably just told you that your beautiful because he didn't want to hurt your feelings.
2007-03-13 19:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by Jay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he gay or have any problems? No, seriously, you should ask him......he may just respect you too much. Guys like him do exist, just a rare find.
2007-03-13 19:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one of two things....either he's a gentleman, or he's gay...either way, if you're trying to get banged you're with the wrong dude.
2007-03-13 19:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by evilim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋