At work, it's always old ladies or mature ladies. They say HI to me. it's so fun and great. cause i'm a quiet person.. but it feels great that those people care about me at least alittle. But it happens always that where i work there's never young girls my age( i'm 27). and i'm not a person who does the GOING OUT THING after work. I usually just go back home and rest. So there's no girls in my life at all. that's sad.
how can i change this? I'm not a talkative saucy person, so i'm not going to change this and therefore i'm not going to try going to clubs or stuff. But if there was a way to meet girls just 1 on 1 for talking or something.. with no pressure or doinog a fun activity , i could do that .
2007-03-13 18:45:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Select one of the ladies closest to your age and have a good time. Then you will loosen up and find a way to locate someone more to your liking.
You may find out that the older woman is a diamond in the rough for you:)
Good luck
2007-03-13 18:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was like that too. I am married now though.
What you can do
places like the bank, if there is a girl you like there, just make eye contact with her. you will always have a reason to go there, and she knows you have a reason too.
apply that same principle to possibly the store, library, you can even talk to them about what they recommend (services that their work offers) like which books or movies if its a movie place.
hope this helps
you could join a church study group
they sometimes have outings for their groups
then you will spend some time together, and not be awkward. you might have to go a few times to see most of the people but it's a great way to get out and you fing great encouragement from the Lord. (not to sell you on church, like it's a great way to meet girls or anything, just a suggestion) you could apply that to volunteering certain places.
2007-03-13 18:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by Stamping Machine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get involved with a club or organization that you are interested in. This will not only give you the opportunity to meet new people, but also lets you easily break the ice and have something to talk about that you both enjoy. Good luck!
2007-03-13 18:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jason S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look at the Beacon street ladies web page -- all sorts of video games, activities, crafts, contests, quizzes and, in case you connect the loose on line club, you may positioned up messages, get and supply suggestion from ladies around the globe. Plus the Beacon street ladies (from the books) respond to messages too. i like the MovieMaker and the type layout video games too. Plus they're freely giving a relatives holiday to Jamaica.
2016-09-30 21:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by doolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋