This isnt a question...I KNOW..but pls...?

Question

I really CANNOT stand life....if i had just one wish...it'd be to have never been born...im serious. And my friends cut. I know i know...stupid huh...and believe me...i tell them that...but when they all go home at night...im still sittin here thinkin of what my life is...and what its going to be...and i dont rly think its going to be anything...with the way its going right now....And sometimes I wanna hurt myself too...but then i ask myself...Why cause more pain...b/c of the pain you already have?? But then i also think...How can i just get rid of the pain all together....?? And i can answer that myself...U CANT!!! There's so many limits in life...people say to get out there and live life to its fullest...but there isnt a fullest...not to me.....It just seems like ever since i turned 13...life has been HELL...im 15 now...but its not ne different...and dont tell me its just me going thru my teenage yrs either...b/c thats a lie...i know it is....i just need some advice is what im sayin!

Answer 1

im in the same situation as u ..but the difference is that im 21 ! ive been thru so much in life since im 9 yrs old ...many of my luv ones pass away but i cant do anything abt it, my closest friend moving overseas so i feel like im friendless, i think everyone hates me , normal guys problem , financial problem , studys stress etcetc but im still here ..living on ...trust me gal , ure stronger than u think.. n think abt it this way , theres many ppl out there who has even worse life than urs ...be content ...stay focus on something like excelling in ure studies and be with someone who treasure u ..the deeper we dig into the cave of depression , the harder we can climb out of it ..if u need someone to talk to ..feel free to email me :)

Answer 2

The truth is that sometimes life is difficult. Sometimes these periods last longer than we would really like. The key to happiness in our lives is finding that thing that is important to us and what is a value for us and living according to that. Many times we are unhappy because we are acting against our values and what we find important. I totally understand how difficult life can be when you are 13 or 15. Don't ever let anyone tell you that you aren't going through anything, because you are. And the feelings that you have whether that be sadness, happiness, or others are just as true at 15 years old as those feelings are at 20, 50 or 100 years old. Find that one thing that makes you happy and live for that. If you would like to talk more e-mail me [e-mail]. There are other things that you can do for releases other than cutting. Let me know if you would like to talk more or help anymore.

Answer 3

My advice is this; relax. Nobody on Earth knows for 100% sure why we're here. It IS a fact of life. Take things as they come, and find something that you TRUELY ENJOY doing, and stick with it. Try various things, get around. You can't say you hate life if you've never experienced it! Do some sports, play some board games, find some friends and go to the mall, just try some stuff. If after you've tried everything, then see if you liked any of it- something will catch your eye.

Life is short- I'm sure you've heard that hundreds of times. Make the most of it as you'll only get one shot-
Right here, right now.

Answer 4

I'm sorry you feel so discouraged and upset. I wish you had some one older and wiser to talk to- is there anyone you trust who you can tell your feelings to?
Life is full of ups and downs, but sometimes the only thing you can do is to be grateful for what you have-- even when (especially when) if seems like you don't have anything. Start small... you have both arms and legs. You're not in the hospital. You have a computer. You don't have cancer... just keep thinking of things.
If you need help, please dial 1-800-273-TALK (8255).

Answer 5

Life will get better. When you start to see outside of self. You have plenty to do. Volunteer there are people in worse shape than you. Look to what your life can offer and go to it. Life can give you an opportunity to shape you into a great person. Try looking to the positive. To hurt yourself isn't productive nor helpful. Get busy and you can see what it is you are looking for.

Answer 6

I trully sympathize with your situation. i see that you are just looking for an excuse to keep on living. I, myself dont know what thats like, because i surround myself with people that care about me and activities i love doing. You just have to find that one thing that will keep you going. For me, it has always been my faith in God. Its hard to explain, and im not trying to convert you, but i seriously cant imagine my life without him. Its so wonderful to know that you are not just living here in vain, and that all the pain you encounter will be rewarded. I found solace in God. Anyone can. Ill pray for you. stay strong.

Answer 7

buddy, it form of feels that there is something which rather makes your hubby experience very gloomy. it may be because of the fact of not getting this form of fulfillment he had needed of. It additionally seems that for the period of assessment on your hubby you're friendly on your individuals and that,i think of, brings greater situation on your husband. because of the fact your husband is an introvert and you're an ext overt. And as you recognize that an introvert hardly expresses his or her thoughts/love even to his closest one. once you're purely enjoying consisting of your individuals or one in all your individuals are appreciating you, there's a severe possibility that he would experience aggravated as issues start to come returned in his techniques which you're greater pleased with the corporation of others and not him. So it rather is nice to so you may be sure his techniques, study that when which respond for this reason otherwise it might kill your married existence. wish you each and every of the very best!!!

Answer 8

hey im 20 yrs old from a small hick *** town in new hampshire. in my high school career i had friends that cut to. most of the time it was a game for them to get attention. so didnt give them wa they wanted i just told them to stop. eventually they did. then again i dont kno urs or there problems so its hard to judge. but once i was out of high school i didnt have n e friends that did that stuff. just wait im sure things will pan out for you as well

Answer 9

it sound like you are just going thought some things in your
young life.but you just starting your life journery. so just hang
in there. you may feel that life does not mean anything but
you are so wrong. life is pecious gift that god have given
each of us. and what every you are going thought there
is a rainbow with you in mind. so just dont give up hope
god love you and trust me you will see that life does
matter. you just need to hand in there , stay strong and
dont give up hope. peace be with you .

Answer 10

You are suffering a mega dose of hormones right now. This is a really good time to get guidance from a clergyman or councelor. If advice is what you want, then it's there begging for you to ask. bless bless.