I've been dating a guy for a while now
He thinks the world of me, he puts up with a lot of crap that I give him, and I'm lucky that I found someone who will stay through the fights, it means he actually cares and I know that. thats not an issue however
However, I'm 18 and although I really care about him, and he's really great I kind of have this wandering eye....
not even because I LIKE other guys...
but its almost like I just want the option to try and attract them and whatever I dont even know...
It really sucks because i DONT want to feel that way but its hard for me not to do it.
Its almost like I crave the attention of the single life, but at the same time i don't want to be single. Anyone else have this problem? What'd you do? Any advice will do :(
2007-03-13 17:41:47 · 11 answers · asked by USCfemme10 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And I'm a realllllly high energy person... so its almost like i need new excitement in my life every so often.... but I dont want to need that. why am i not satisfied?
2007-03-13 17:43:42 · update #1
It's human nature to look at other people! Just because you look doesn't mean you want to be with that person.
I look, I just dont touch.
-Laney
2007-03-13 18:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Ashley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im the same way. You dont want to ruin a good thing so take a step back and anylize the situation. Do you really love him or are you just wasting your life? if you like him then dont put him through more crap by letting him know.
P.s.
its okay to hang with other guys as long as you dont go farther then friends. You may be getting attraction and friendship mixed
hope this helps
<3
2007-03-13 17:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by Shelby Sunshine! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys will never fully satisfy you, no matter whether you have 1 or 10 or 100, you will never be fully satisfied by men alone, and the wandering eye is perfectly fine, as long as you never do anything about it seriously, flirting is along the line, and for some people it would be crossing the line, but not always.
2007-03-13 17:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi young lady:
I do not think 18 years old can write a note regarding a man who cares for you. I do not think you are honest and sincere young woman towards this gentleman. If there is no chemistry and love and respect, honesty in your relationship why are you dating with him??? just tell him you are not comparable and you should only be friends.. you do not have deep feelings for him.. look at yourself at mirror and repeat these words and just let him go this guy.. because you do not care for him.. and fighting and disrespecting words you use in this open place shows that you have no respect to yourself either.. from me to you.. let him go.. you will find someone else... you are 18 years old. there are more fish in the sea but.. be carefull, one tiny small fish bone can hurt you..therefore, seems like your communication level between him and you level -0- you just take advantage of his feelings..he should be aware of you honest sincere opinion and feelings to him.. You also need to understand it takes two to tango. you seemed are not well matched with him.. just start fresh new beginning..he is not your type and you are totaly his not type either.. ps. 18 years old to young to be boredom.. either you are not in the school educating yourself or you self esteem level is down.. you should have bright future and many challenges.. be active.. and be somebody and succesfull what every you heart desire.. it is on your hand..you decide... to find happiness, success and love of your life .. may be someday... good luck..
2007-03-13 18:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by fidalgo 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Since you are still single and available, why not. If you keep your options open that is. But remember you have to treat them with care as men can get jealous when they know you are pickin' and choosin' darling. Good luck.
2007-03-13 17:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not ready to settle and you found a good catch. Tough. Unless you're willing to get into a serious relation and possibly give up some excitement for that person. If you're not ready then your only option is to break up.
2007-03-13 17:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by hoboace 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you sound like you are trying to have a grown up, long term, committed relationship and you are only 18 years old........you are still young, you need to get out and experience the world, and that includes men of different ages, races, personalities and backgrounds.........it is natural to want to be attractive to the opposite sex........this is normal, just as it is normal for men to look at other women......we women want successful men, and men want beautiful women.....men will always look at other women, and women will always want the attention of other men.......it is what makes us women.......i suggest if you want to do it, then go for it........its your life and you only live once, so just make sure you let your current boyfriend know about this and dont just dump him with no explaination and also dont cheat on him..........that way there is still a chance that you two can work it out if you want to later on.
2007-03-13 17:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you obviously aren't ready for a serious relationship. i know because i was in you situation about four years ago, in high school. the best thing you could do right now is just follow your heart. if your hearts not in it, then get out. good luck kiddo!!
2007-03-13 17:50:49 · answer #8 · answered by Tahitoa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what hapenned to me,but you are at a young age i am 19 and believe me you need to be independent because i almost married my -x but it's better off without him......
2007-03-13 17:48:40 · answer #9 · answered by abby m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you dont need to be in a serious relatiosnhip. You dont want to end up hurting him yah know.
2007-03-13 17:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by princessamber_89 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋