**please no immature answers** i really like this friend of mine, and we dated for a bit, but she ended things because she wasn't sure of her feelings, but a lot of me is telling me she's just scared to let herself feel it. i don't use the word love all to liberally because i don't think it's a word that is meant to be thrown around so easily, but i feel like i really am starting to love this girl. it's been about 5 months since we've been apart, and there hasn't been a single day that i haven't thought about her, and i've been back and forth about whether or not to let this go. i feel like, sure, i bet i can be happy with some other girl, but i want to experience that happiness with not just any girl, but this girl. a friend of mine said that i should just let it go, and if it was meant to be then it will, and i believe that to some sense, but god, it's so hard to let go. it's tearing me up inside- i have times where i feel physically sick because of how much it hurts. what do u do?
2007-03-13 17:41:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi, I think I know what you are talking about. You have to get over this person if they don't really like you. Or if they don't feel the same way for you. There are plenty of other girls who you would feel that way for sometimes it happens right in front of you and you don't even realize it.
Just stop thinking about her and move on because I know that you are going to feel like crap after a year or two years because you spent to much time thinking about her and neglecting other important things, the thing to do right now is forget all about her no matter how bad you feel.
2007-03-13 17:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by calsonic66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do agree with your friend......... Letting her go and if it is meant to be you will be together. But if you really love her you wont ever emotionally let go. Some people need to be pushed as well. Pushed very delicately and gently.....but pushed. Fear is a huge road block and you probably know enough about her to know if she has been really hurt in the past. It can hinder someone even in a good relationship. I know this first hand. I am in the process of what I have lovingely called "chipping away" at my amazing boyfriend. He is a remarkable human being , but believe me when I say, it is a process. His abondonment issues run deeply but I guess the bottom line is....... we are the love of each others lives. We cant walk away (we have tried....and failed, horribly) and dont want to. It sounds like you cant turn your feelings off for her and dont try to. Let them be and if it is true, believe me, she will be back. And if not, you will know when to move on. And isnt that the way you want it anyway?? You know whats the truth in your heart..... Good luck!
2007-03-14 01:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by lilgezmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋