I encountered my HS ex on my space we were togheter for about 9 months when i was 16-17 nothing sexual ever happenned during that time. Now we found each other again on my space he flirted with me for a while then I asked him what's up he said that since he saw me a year ago at a party he wanted to get with me again but that he has too much going on to start a relationship,but he likes me, he has 2 daughters but is single and lives alone. i don't know what his issues are. he apologized and said he won't flirt again because i told him it was confusing me. Now i have been without sex for a while. I saw him yesterday we were on my space and he told me to come with him to blockbuster i went down saw him and he gave me a bunch of hershey kisses and said they were kisses for me. he took me to eat something afterwards and i caught him looking at me. he calls me the name he used to call me when we were togheter when he writes. i want to do it but i don't want him to think bad of me, help!.
2007-03-13 17:40:48 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm just looking to have some fun I ended a long term relationship in october and i'm curious to see how he is in bed since we neve had a chance to do it in our time in HS and honestly he looks so good right now and a girl does have needs. ;-)
2007-03-13 17:42:30 · update #1
If it happens, it happens. Let nature take its course. Don't ASK for it. It shouldn't be like he is doing you a favor, it should be mutual.
2007-03-13 17:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to give it away for free it is up to you.
Personally curiosity and a few hershey kisses aren't enough for me. But I am not you.
I get the feeling he wants a little more than you are prepared to give however. If you care about how he thinks of you, have a good honest talk with him. It beats making a mess of things though basic ignorance of what is what between you.
You have just left a bad situation. Do not hold that person's actions against this fellow. Maybe you could establish a more meaningful relationship than you think possible. If that be the case, a little tempting and holding back would be just what the doctor ordered. It will make you seem more desirable and let him know you value yourself.
The pc chat is a great way to open up this topic if you are shy to do it face to face.
2007-03-13 17:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by Noor al Haqiqa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he's probably thinking the same thing. He has social issues that prevent outright dating obviously. I would guess his children and mariage status ( ex wife or whatever) but he's a living human guy with sexual needs too. I would almost bet money he really wants the same thing you do, only he doesn't know how to go about it. I think he just has issues with the relationship thing at this time. Maybe in time he may work those out. In the mean time I think the sexual thing would probably be good for both of you anyhow. going without sex for too long will make you weird and you might spend the rest of your time answering questions on Yahoo answers or something.... End up like me. After over a decade without gettin any I am definately a little odd... ^^
2007-03-13 17:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people think that if you're not in a relationship with someone, it's so wrong to have sex.
I don't really believe that. I'm not supporting the gesture of going out and banging everyone you like either, but people do have needs.
It's obvious that the two of you are comfortable with seeing each other while maintaining separate lives from one another most of the time.
It's also obvious that your feelings haven't completely left...both of you seem to be feeling a little of what was there before.
Sex is natural, and meant to be enjoyed, and if it must be had, it's better to have it with someone who you are somewhat close to, and someone you can trust.
I know it could be really awkward to discuss it with him, but you don't really have to.
If you let it happen once, it will make it so much easier to talk about it afterwards.
If you find that he is not okay with the idea of just having someone there to have some fun with every now and again, or even this once, then you'll still be okay, and you'll eventually find someone else.
2007-03-13 17:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by w3squick3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the major concerns of having a child or becoming a parent is to do so when you're old and mature enough to take on the responsibility. One of the problems in today's society is teenage pregnancy. The risk of pregnancy in teenagers is increasing largely. Many teenagers don't know how big of a responsibility it is to raise another human being when they themselves still have a lot of growing to do. Teenagers need to be more educated about themselves and their bodies as well as ways to protect themselves from getting pregnant if they're sexually active. Also, teenagers are more prone to risks during a pregnancy than a twenty or thirty year old woman would be. Becoming a teen parent automatically gives you a big responsibility to deal with. This means that all of your personal priorities are set aside and that your child comes first. Most teens don't even know how to take care of a child. Taking care of your own child isn't like babysitting; it is a full time job. Dealing with children involves a lot of patience, which a lot of teens don't have.
2007-03-13 17:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it looks like that he is interested he already have two kids! YOu should ask your self how far you want to take this relatiohsips to which level? You can have sex but be careful not to fall for some one you are not truly ready for. Just have fun with it but do not fall in love fast
2007-03-13 17:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by S.E.E.N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooh. Tough one.
Remember- sex is rarely ever Just Sex. Maybe you'd be better off having sex with me? I don't want a long term thing, just a quick romp. Plus, we don't have any history beyond your whorish question and my flippant answer. Call me!
2007-03-13 17:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by avengepluto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So long as your both single and understand where the relationship stands there's nothing wrong with it, your a big girl, do what you like.
2007-03-13 17:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have a history with this person, and you probably have many mutual friends and acquaintances, you should be honest about your intentions, whatever they are.
2007-03-14 18:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by Campo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell do you want from strangers on Yahoo Answers? Just do whatever floats your boat.
2007-03-13 17:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋