I am confused if my boyfriend loves me... He never missed a day without texting me that he loves me, he is always at my house almost every night. But when we were together he does not say he loves me... I guess the last time i heard it coming from him was like 10 days ago.. I already told him that i prefer of hearing it than reading thru sms... But still he never says it..
I would just like to hear any opinion from you guys... thanks..
2007-03-13 17:30:20 · 13 answers · asked by glayse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he is just scarred to tell it to your face. If you already told him how you feel, than I dont know what else you can do.
Maybe you need to really ask him how he feels about you.
Becasue it sounds like he isnt doing anything except confusing you and sending you mixed feelings.
Just keep trying to talk to him, hopefully if he didnt love you then he wouldnt tell you in any way that he does love you
Good luck withit.
2007-03-13 17:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by princessamber_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're experiencing a similar thing that I am, but in a different way. My boyfriend didn't go a day without calling me, but now he's not. I asked about it on here. I was really upset about it a few minutes ago, but I got this one answer that made me feel a lot better. Go ahead and read my question and the answers, but pay attention to the last answerer "Nataile's" answer.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjDl_gmbZ9cFAz7_WKCsc.Hsy6IX?qid=20070313205113AAezXLb
I think it will really help. Good luck!
2007-03-14 00:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's normal. Most guys stop actually saying it after you have been in the relationship for awhile.
They always say that they figure that you know that they love you due to their actions.
I must say, they have a point. I wouldn't worry about it. I'm sure he still loves you.
Guys just aren't into saying it that much, after awhile.
2007-03-14 00:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, you need to talk to him about it... I really feel like this happens in any relationship though, my boyfriend and I have times when we freak out because either of us feels like we say it first all the time! ...maybe you just need to say it first and he's waiting to hear that you love him without him saying it and you just responding
2007-03-14 00:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably not ready to actually say the words because he's not sure if he's in love and might feel more confortable just texting it. it would be so easy to just ask him. you've got nothing to loose if he loves you he'll say he does and explain why he just texts it and if he can't explain its useless and u deserve better.
2007-03-14 00:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by Ethan S <3 Da Ben Dan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key to any relationship. If you can talk about this together, you will not only get your answer, but get peace of mind. Talking about it wil bring you two closr too.
2007-03-14 00:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by Menda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just trying to sort out all of his feelings. Saying "I love you" is a very big deal and maybe he is just making sure that he really really loves you.
2007-03-14 15:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by carleigh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! He still loves you. It's easier for guy to do that kind of thing nonverbaly. Don't push it or he won't even text it. Chill out girlfriend!!!
2007-03-14 00:35:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually declarations of love are serious business. be glad your bf says if only when he really means it not just tosses it out just coz you want to hear it. waiti t out. if he loves you, you'll know, even if he doesn't parrot it every ten seconds
2007-03-14 00:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just freakin... ask him about it.. if hea gets all defensive and stuff then he is hidin sumthin. if he gives you a logical explaination then I leave it to you.. I think hes had a change of feelings or hiding something.. thats my opinion
2007-03-14 00:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋