should you kiss on da first date if you knew this girl for a while now nd you guys have been rlly close..
2007-03-13 17:30:14 · 15 answers · asked by 123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its really not a "should you " question. Its all about trying to pick up on her cues through out the evening...for instance how did she respond when you put your arm around her. Did she let you hug her during the evening...did she hug back? Did you hold her hand which is a lost art in that it really reflects an ancient coupling behavior. Since you have known her for awhile you have probably both been looking forward to this date for some time so I have a feeling a kiss would be welcome by her. But...ready for this one...lol...on the other hand, I have always felt that one of the ways you can blow a girl away is to make sure you are affectionate during the date but not kiss her at the end of the night, but instead hugging her and saying to her how much you enjoyed the evening and making it very clear to her that you will call her tomorrow. Then leaving her without the kiss makes her feel so respected, but at he same time wanting you to kiss her all the more the next time your on a date because you gave her some space and didn't pressure her on the first date...Try it ...Good Luck!
2007-03-13 17:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by chcman74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well even if you didn't know each other, Kisses sometimes do happen on the first date. It's called chemistry. Kissing on the first date is perfectly OK for most everyone except the real strict anal retentive and repressed types. going beyond a kiss is Ok for many too, though a fair chunk of people don't think going beyond a kiss is OK. Going all the way on the first date is Ok for only a small percent of the population that usually includes the Nymphomaniacs and others with overdeveloped sex drives. If you are staying with just a Kiss ( even Long passionate ones) then you are OK.
2007-03-13 17:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
adult men take kissing as an indication of dedication. If a woman kisses the guy then for the adult men which ability she enjoyed the date and would prefer to bypass out returned. on the different hand, if the female would not choose to kiss or would not kiss the guy, then the guy would in all probability think of that in line with possibility the female desires greater time. inspite of the undeniable fact that, frequently the guy will ask the female out returned as a manner to substantiate that she continues to be interested in him and the 1st date became into not ALL that undesirable
2016-12-18 13:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by briana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not? kissing on first date is acceptable. but if you want her to want another date; make it sweet and sensual. no tongue. just an intimate sweet lingering kiss on the lips.
2007-03-13 17:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by the_syco_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No harm done unless you have herpes, cold sore, chicken pox, etc. Lol. I don't see why not. I mean it's not like you're gonna go jump into bed, right?
2007-03-13 17:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY sure if ur guy are havin a good time and it feels right.
2007-03-13 17:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by sasha h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, I'd throw it under moving too fast.
2007-03-13 17:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a feel for it sometimes.
2007-03-13 17:32:46 · answer #8 · answered by HopelessOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it
2007-03-13 17:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you've known her a while and you both have strong feelings for each other...YEAH, she'd love it im sure.
2007-03-13 17:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋