Miscommunications between couples should settle before babys come in the picture.
2007-03-13 17:35:08 · 20 answers · asked by Yassmin M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They should just enjoy married life and time together as a new family, just the two of them!
2007-03-13 17:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The universal purpose of marriage is procreation. It is therefore proper to start procreating after marriage is settled. When a baby comes before having settled ones marriage - often life is difficult to manage due to unresolved miscommunication between couples and close relatives. To have a good preparation for marriage is to incur to oneself a quality family life.
2007-03-13 17:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Binnus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is kind of a catch 22. Many people cite it's because you should know each other first. If you get married, you should know the other person well enough to be reasonable sure it is the 1. If there are doubts, the ring shouldn't go on.
Some say you don't know a person until you live with them. True, somewhat, but if you live with them before, that issue has worked itself out.
My husband is my brother's best friend, for the better part of 19 years. We grew up together. We know each other. We started dating officially, and three months later he proposed. The only reason for us to delay is to get some finances straightened out. I don't believe in a time line. When it is the right time for you, it is the right time for you.
2007-03-13 17:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by HG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a three year marker I like to call, "shake hands and walk away" If you get past the point of three years and you don't want to walk away, then your ready for a baby. I say this because its the first three years of so that you get completely used to each other. The first year is all dandy the most important, its where you find each other out by living together and having fun (honeymooning stage) After the first year you know weather or not your relationship will last.
2007-03-13 17:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by JUDAS RAGE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have ever been pregnant you will know the answer to this. In your first year of marriage you are gettig used to living with each other, assuming that you didn't live together before the wedding, pregnancy can change a perfectly rational woman into someone that is not in control of their emotions (hormones). Take time to enjoy each other before you add the joy of a child.
2007-03-13 17:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom always has wondered at women who get pregnant right away. She says that couples should enjoy being married for a while before they start a family
2007-03-13 17:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by Cybele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A couple should spend a year getting to know each other before bringing a third party ointo their marriage. No matter how long you've dated, you don't really get to know your partner until you live together.
2007-03-13 17:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by SA Writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's best to have a few years to get solidly together as a couple, and keep that relationship strengthened. Too many things change once a baby comes, not that that's bad, but things are different...
2007-03-14 00:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u answered ur own question.
That &the fact that most marriages has a high probablity of divorce within the 1st year (a proven fact) especially if that couple have not lived together.
2007-03-13 17:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on you, but you really don't want to be stuck a single mother just because something minor messed up your marriage. you want to make sure everything is stable between mom and dad before bringing baby into the picture.
2007-03-13 17:41:28 · answer #10 · answered by Menda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋