What is going on here, did I mess up?
I got a little upset when I found out thatthe guy I very recently met and started talking to is moving out of state, closer to his ex. I told him my suspicions about why he was moving closer to her, and I told him I thought we shouldn't see each other if that was the case.... and he denied it. So, I apologized to him for coming down so judgemental on him, and he said OK..and I said maybe we can get together soon, after all (he had asked me out before I got upset) We talked on the phone for almost two hours. Does it sound like I freaked him out a little? He told me he thought it was mean that I didn't want to talk to him in the beginnign when I found out about him moving.
2007-03-13 17:36:37 · 3 answers · asked by julia k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why start a relationship you cant finish. If he's moving then all you're gonna do is get attached then have to break it off when he moves away? And when he mentioned moving did he mention his ex, or did he say he was moving for another reason?
2007-03-13 17:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by *Heather* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea mayb u did overreact; cudnt there b any other reason for him moving??? ask him. u recently met so mayb they're certain things u dont kno abt him. mayb he decided to move b.c of a new job there or he just likes the area or the cost of living there is better...??? talk to him abt it. & y wud u assume it had to do w. his ex?? did u ever have any prob w. dat b4?? mayb u're just insecure. DONT SCARE THE POOR GUY OFF if u really like him
2007-03-14 00:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by delicious_d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah.. you freaked him out alright. You only just met the guy...if he still wants to go out ,then go out. It's not like you're going to marry him right? When (and if) he moves, MOVE ON !! There's plenty fish in the sea
2007-03-14 00:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋